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What are your (if any) deal breakers for sex?

Mr.Scagnattie said:
Or like 300?
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KoreyS said:
30 is not ridiclous but not my personal preference. Nothing wrong with it, just not what I go for.
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I guess I feel the same way... but if a chic was with 30 dudes, I personally wouldn't want any part of her. I don't like going on conquered ground... :\ But ridiculous to me... for a girl... over 50. Unless she's like 90 and has been fucking all along.... Haha.
 
Mr.Scagnattie said:
But ridiculous to me... for a girl... over 50. Unless she's like 90 and has been fucking all along.... Haha.
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For a girl? SO for a man over 50 is OK in your book?

A 90 year old who has had one new partner every 2 years (roughly) is the only way a high number of partners is acceptable for you?

Our bodies aren't "ground" to be conquered. They are portals of pleasure that we can utilize (not be used) for pleasure. Our own pleasure.

That being said, I think that due to ignorance a lot of people feel the same way. This is why I don't tell my partners IRL how many I have had (around 60?).

ETA. Now that I'm in here, I guess I should say what would be a dealbreaker for me>> No condom.
I like how someone earlier said "wanting to have sex in the dark when I have never seen the person naked."
 
If your crotch smells, I'm not fucking you. Jesus people, a bar of soap doesn't cost much!
 
Mr.Scagnattie said:
I guess I feel the same way... but if a chic was with 30 dudes, I personally wouldn't want any part of her. I don't like going on conquered ground... :\ But ridiculous to me... for a girl... over 50. Unless she's like 90 and has been fucking all along.... Haha.
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Word. I'd rather not boldly go where every man has gone before. My tic-tac... and her hallway... we're not gonna mesh with each other in the bed.
 
KoreyS said:
Word. I'd rather not boldly go where every man has gone before. My tic-tac... and her hallway... we're not gonna mesh with each other in the bed.
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Exactly. And, unfortunately there is a double standard with men and women.... Men get away with having way many more sexual partners then women and still have it be "accepted". I didn't make the rules, that's just how it is. I don't like it, but I accept it for what it is and I can't help but feel that way.. Hah. I went through it with my current GF. She can deal with my number which is pretty outrageous, but I was having a hard time with hers being 17 (she's 24). I felt like an asshole and a hypocrite but I couldn't help it.. hah. The idea of the girl I'm with having been with a lot of other dudes is just such a turn off. I know it is for them too with us, but somehow we get away with it way more.

(ladies please don't bite my head off) :\
 
^BURN HIM!!

I guess if you're aware you're participating in the double standard and you don't agree with it that's something. I probably wouldn't want my boyfriend to have had more sexual partners than me (just for my pride maybe? hah) but other than that I couldn't care less what his number is. And even if he has a hundred well, good for him.
 
I dont care the number, because if she's with me at that point in time, obviously I'm better than the rest or she'd be with them. 1/100 is more rare than 1/5 :P not saying I'd want to be number 100, but if I love her, and she loves me, the only numbers that matters is the wedding date, ring cost, and the price of a honeymoon suite.
 
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