" Experience is not what happens to man, it is what a man does with what happens to him."
- Aldous Huxley.
sounds more like wisdom to me, or the difference between a good and bad experience, but to make it good takes either some luck, some wisdom, and some help, or all three.
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"Fifty percent of people won't vote, and fifty percent don't read newspapers. I hope it's the same fifty percent."
"Some writers take to drink, others take to audiences."
"Every time a friend succeeds, I die a little."
"A narcissist is someone better looking than you are."
“style is knowing who you are, what you want to say, and not giving a damn”
RIP Gore Vidal
"Education is the manifestation of the perfection already in man." ~Swami Vivekananda
Vivekananda
exactly, its all in your head!