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I went to a whorehouse when I was sixteen yrs old and I paid for sex.
I think it was like $20 bucks, they had the whores lined up and you got to pick which whore you wanted, you waited in the waiting room and they brought you a beer to drink, I guess to relax, I was nervous it was my first time having sex.

This was back in ‘86, that was the first and last time I paid for sex, I titty fucked her she blew me and then fucked me, I couldn’t cum though, so she told me after a certain time I’d have to pay another $20 bucks.

Edit: my memory is bad, I have picked up a few strippers and took them home.

At 16 years old she told me I had a big fat cock, I was still growing so I’m a lot bigger now and have gotten complaints from chicks I make them sore when, I fuck them, I have to use Trojan magnum XL condoms the regular ones won’t fit.

Don’t believe the bullshit that size doesn’t matter, because women love big dick, I’ve had married women come after me, I am not proud of that and it’s one thing I won’t do is screw a married anymore.

Although I did just once In my lifetime, the bitch came to my house , I let her in, I thought she wanted to talk or something we worked together and developed a friendship and she was having marital problems, well when she came in the house I was getting ready to make coffee so we could talk, she use to tell me how her husband cheated on here all the time, well I didn’t even get to lay the coffee pot down and she literally grabbed me by my hand pulled me in the bedroom stripped naked and started blowing me and fucked me, the only thing she said is don’t fuck me in my ass, which I’m not into, after that day the crazy bitch wanted me to fuck her in the company any place we could sneak in where no one would be around, even wanted me to come to her house and fuck her, I told her what if your husband comes home? She said don’t worry if he does you can leave through the back.

Some crazy shit that sounds like it came right out of a porno movie, I was 18, she was 40, but hot, bitch was a nympho guess her husband wasn’t giving her any and giving it to all the other bitches he was cheating with so I guess she justified it by cheating back on him, this bitch was coming to my apartment every night after work and fucking me, soon after I renounced my ways and said I’d never do that again and haven’t, I was young and Horny and when a hot woman strips naked with everything showing, she had a hairy pussy too, it’s hard to resist at that age, not to derail the thread but after I told her no more the crazy bitch said she would pay me to fuck her.

I told her no and don’t need her husband finding out and killing me or something, I think she wanted me to be a gigolo or something because she wanted me to fuck her sister too, who was also married, and even wanted me to meet her mother, I was like what are you fucking nuts?

Never again and I had plenty more married women come after me, that was some weird intense shit, she was Puerto Rican, and them bitches are horny, after about a week of not seeing her anymore, she had her friend call me saying she missed me and wanted me back, I told her friend no I’m done with that shit,

I said what kind of crazy bitch is she that she wants me to fuck her sister who was also having marital problems, and that she had told her sister about me, they wanted to make a male prostitute out of me or something, her sister was 52, but a good 52 with huge tits, she showed me photos of her, I started thinking maybe she wanted me to fuck her mom too, who was 67 yrs old maybe they were into kinky shit or something.

I made a promise to myself to never again, and felt really bad afterwards for doing that.

I know you’ll all think I’m making this up, but it’s a true story, she’d keep coming by my house and ringing the doorbell I never answered, after awhile she gave up and I had to threaten her with telling the supervisor she was harassing me, so she would leave me alone.
 
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jose ribas da silva said:
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Why do you say that?

Being a stripper for as long as I have, I've pretty much seen and heard it all. I've known strippers that had strict boundaries against having any sex, no extras, no Sex in the club or outside of the club and no prostitution or offering sex for money regardless if it was a regular longtime client or a new client at the club.

I've known dancers that would perform extras, no intercourse or with intercourse, only with a few longtime clients that they developed a casual friendship with outside of the club, Maybe going to dinner, going to a bar and shooting pool, heading up a concert or sporting event. Or, with these client "friends" they might meet up at the clients hotel if they're out of town and visit frequently or meet up at the client's/dancer's house where the dancer dances for the client the same way she would have if they were in the VIP room. I've even known as girls that meet up with their client friends outside of the club to have sex.

And of course, I've known girls that offered client's sex for money, either in the VIP room or outside of the club. Working independently by themselves or, working with a pimp.

Me personally, I have several regular longtime clients both locally that, to see me on a regular basis, and regular clients that travel for business on a regular basis that, to see me when they're in town. I've got several of these clients that I've gotten to know quite well and would consider them a friend. Often i will meet up with them once in awhile for dinner, or maybe to get a few drinks or even to go catch a baseball or football game with. I've even got a small handful of regular clients that Live 2 or 3 hours away that, to town quite often for business that will come to the club to spend a couple of hours with me. Sometimes if I wasn't planning to work that night, I will go to the club specifically to spend time with them. Once in a while, if we can't get our schedules to lined up where I can meet them at the club, I will either meet them at their hotel or have them stop by my place for a few hours where I can dance for them. Regardless of the situation, they always pay me well and make it worth my time.

I don't offer to have sex with clients in or outside of the club. I have clear boundaries in regards to extras. What I will do and what I will let the client do and where they can and can't touch me. Throughout my years working in the clubs, I do have a few specific personal friends that I know outside of the club that will come see me when I'm working that because we've been friends for many years, I I am okay with Maybe jacking them off or what we refer to as Joy sticking, and okay with them rubbing my clit. But I never let it go further than that.

With any of these situations I just described, the dancer is going to demand more money from the client if the client hasn't already offered to tip well. I have never heard of a girl that had to pay the client to get extras or sex, regardless of how desperate she was, or how ugly she was and definitely it wouldn't make sense for a dancer to pay the client if she's needing to get her drug fix.

I absolutely I've never heard of a girl that ended up paying to have sex. A girl would have to be an oxymoron to agree on pain to have sex. The only thing I can think of, I guess a girl would pay if she was getting sex from a male prostitute but then again, I have personally never heard of a male prostitute.

So I don't quite understand why you would say I was naive.
 
Holly.3 said:
Why do you say that?

Being a stripper for as long as I have, I've pretty much seen and heard it all. I've known strippers that had strict boundaries against having any sex, no extras, no Sex in the club or outside of the club and no prostitution or offering sex for money regardless if it was a regular longtime client or a new client at the club.

I've known dancers that would perform extras, no intercourse or with intercourse, only with a few longtime clients that they developed a casual friendship with outside of the club, Maybe going to dinner, going to a bar and shooting pool, heading up a concert or sporting event. Or, with these client "friends" they might meet up at the clients hotel if they're out of town and visit frequently or meet up at the client's/dancer's house where the dancer dances for the client the same way she would have if they were in the VIP room. I've even known as girls that meet up with their client friends outside of the club to have sex.

And of course, I've known girls that offered client's sex for money, either in the VIP room or outside of the club. Working independently by themselves or, working with a pimp.

Me personally, I have several regular longtime clients both locally that, to see me on a regular basis, and regular clients that travel for business on a regular basis that, to see me when they're in town. I've got several of these clients that I've gotten to know quite well and would consider them a friend. Often i will meet up with them once in awhile for dinner, or maybe to get a few drinks or even to go catch a baseball or football game with. I've even got a small handful of regular clients that Live 2 or 3 hours away that, to town quite often for business that will come to the club to spend a couple of hours with me. Sometimes if I wasn't planning to work that night, I will go to the club specifically to spend time with them. Once in a while, if we can't get our schedules to lined up where I can meet them at the club, I will either meet them at their hotel or have them stop by my place for a few hours where I can dance for them. Regardless of the situation, they always pay me well and make it worth my time.

I don't offer to have sex with clients in or outside of the club. I have clear boundaries in regards to extras. What I will do and what I will let the client do and where they can and can't touch me. Throughout my years working in the clubs, I do have a few specific personal friends that I know outside of the club that will come see me when I'm working that because we've been friends for many years, I I am okay with Maybe jacking them off or what we refer to as Joy sticking, and okay with them rubbing my clit. But I never let it go further than that.

With any of these situations I just described, the dancer is going to demand more money from the client if the client hasn't already offered to tip well. I have never heard of a girl that had to pay the client to get extras or sex, regardless of how desperate she was, or how ugly she was and definitely it wouldn't make sense for a dancer to pay the client if she's needing to get her drug fix.

I absolutely I've never heard of a girl that ended up paying to have sex. A girl would have to be an oxymoron to agree on pain to have sex. The only thing I can think of, I guess a girl would pay if she was getting sex from a male prostitute but then again, I have personally never heard of a male prostitute.

So I don't quite understand why you would say I was naive.
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I have never had a stripper turn me down to take them home and have sex, never, all I ask them is do you want to go to my place to fuck? They always say yes and they let you do to them whatever you want.
 
Atelier3 said:
I’m pretty sure you are the guy that ruins it for the rest of us.

And not with your big dick.
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Look I know you don’t like me that’s your right, but I have never done anything to you, what’s the matter you don’t like the words whores or bitches, that’s what prostitutes are whores and that other coworker was a bitch cheating on her husband and wanting me to do her sister and meet her mom, that’s fucking nuts. What do you want me to do call them ladies?
 
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I was at this strip club in City of Industry and was heading to the bathroom when this stripper walked up to me and propositioned me to have sex with her in the back. I admit I probably would've done something with her as she was attractive and petite, my type but I'd already been to two other clubs before that and didn't have any cash on me. I've always passed on this idea though because if the girl says I have to wear a condom I'll have wasted my time and money. I don't do condoms; they break every time. Not to mention that it feels like blowing air into a balloon with my dick
 
Holly.3 said:
Yes but, I pretty much guarantee, she's not paying the guy to have sex.
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No that I’ve never been so lucky, I had two stripper sisters I took home, they were crazy, they ate each other out out while I fucked one of them and then when I cream pied her her sister sucked my cum out of her sisters pussy and they snowballed it and then swallowed it, that was the best time and well worth the money I paid they were both high on coke and then one strapped on a dildo and fucked her sister in the ass while I fucked her pussy, we gangbanged her sister, it went on all night. Best time I ever had.
 
LordOfThisWorld said:
Look I know you don’t like me that’s your right, but I have never done anything to you, what’s the matter you don’t like the words whores or bitches, that’s what prostitutes are whites and that other coworkers was a bitch cheating on her husband and wanting me to do her sister and meet her mom, that’s fucking nuts. What do you want me to do call them ladies?
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It’s not really like or dislike. I’m not that invested in you. I just note you have a really savage kind of sociopathy cum misogyny in the way you express yourself here.

You are totally free to present yourself as a bit of a narcissistic cunt if you want so long as it’s within the BLUA. It’s not that uncommon here really and I support BL as a judgement free zone.
 
Atelier3 said:
It’s not really like or dislike. I’m not that invested in you. I just note you have a really savage kind of sociopathy cum misogyny in the way you express yourself here.

You are totally free to present yourself as a bit of a narcissistic cunt if you want so long as it’s within the BLUA. It’s not that uncommon here really and I support BL as a judgement free zone.
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I’m not calling anyone her a white or bitch so I’m not breaking any rules, so a prostitute is not a whore and that sick coworker was not a bitch for what she did and try to get me to do?

I’m not narcissistic at all, I treat all women with respect even the whites and bitches never mistreat them.
 
LordOfThisWorld said:
Look I know you don’t like me that’s your right, but I have never done anything to you, what’s the matter you don’t like the words whores or bitches, that’s what prostitutes are whores and that other coworker was a bitch cheating on her husband and wanting me to do her sister and meet her mom, that’s fucking nuts. What do you want me to do call them ladies?
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Nah man. I can't say I care much for you either. And it's not the words. It's the attitude.

I mean if someone has an attitude that says to me that this person doesn't really think anything of sex workers, that they're just products to him. Why wouldn't I think negatively of that person?

And while I can't see into your head, that's the impression I get. You could use all the politically correct words in the world, if that's the impression I still get I'll still have the same reaction.
 
JessFR said:
Nah man. I can't say I care much for you either. And it's not the words. It's the attitude.
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Attitude, why cause I don’t go along with the masses, I never disrespected anyone o. Here and today I’ve e even said I’m not going to judge homosexuals or make derogatory remarks as it’s none of my business what people do.

Attitude for calling a prostitute a whore and the coworker a bitch, that’s what she is doing what she did to her husband regardless if he cheated on her, then she should’ve just left him, and then wanting me to screw her other married sister and to meet her mom, I was 18, young and stupid and I regret what I did.

I don’t like you either for the record.
 
LordOfThisWorld said:
Attitude, why cause I don’t go along with the masses, I never disrespected anyone o. Here and today I’ve e even said I’m not going to judge homosexuals or make derogatory remarks as it’s none of my business what people do.

Attitude for calling a prostitute a whore and the coworker a bitch, that’s what she is doing what she did to her husband regardless if he cheated on her, then she should’ve just left him, and then wanting me to screw her other married sister and to meet her mom, I was 18, young and stupid and I regret what I did.

I don’t like you either for the record.
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I actually didn't see (or if I did I skimmed over it) the part where you called your coworker a bitch. Maybe she was a bitch I dunno. As I said it's not really about the words but the context.

It's not just the posts here, I've gotten a repeated sense by you that you don't think much of sex workers beyond being things (and to lesser extent women generally, and furthermore probably people generally). How you treat them in practice isn't really here nor there.

And obviously I'm gonna react negatively to people who act like that and have those attitudes. That you don't like me if anything is almost a complement under the circumstances. I mean it's kinda like if trump said he didn't like me. I'd kinda be thinking "well uh, I wouldn't expect you to, I believe that narcissists are horrible people... And your a narcissist, why would I like you and why would you like me?"
 
JessFR said:
I actually didn't see (or if I did I skimmed over it) the part where you called your coworker a bitch. Maybe she was a bitch I dunno. As I said it's not really about the words but the context.

It's not just the posts here, I've gotten a repeated sense by you that you don't think much of sex workers beyond being things (and to lesser extent women generally, and furthermore probably people generally). How you treat them in practice isn't really here nor there.

And obviously I'm gonna react negatively to people who act like that and have those attitudes. That you don't like me if anything is almost a complement under the circumstances. I mean it's kinda like if trump said he didn't like me. I'd kinda be thinking "well uh, I wouldn't expect you to, I believe that narcissists are horrible people... And your a narcissist, why would I like you and why would you like me?"
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I’m not a narcissist, if you want to think I am that’s your prerogative.

I don’t use politically correct terms like six workers, that’s bullshit they’re prostitutes and a woman who sells her body is a whore I’m not saying that’s a bad thing people do what they have to do to survive, that’s life.

Here is the definition for the word whore:

whore​

/hôr/​

noun
  • 1.a prostitute.derogatory
  • 2.a woman who has many casual sexual encounters or relationships.offensive
verb
  • 1.work as a prostitute: derogatory"she was forced to whore in order to support herself"

I’ve disrespected a woman not even a prostitute if you prefer that term, after they performed their service I paid for I’ve even tipped them.

I’m on here to learn safe drug use and for discussion, if I use words that someone doesn’t like I can’t do anything about it, I’m stick by forum policy and not calling you or anyone names.

I don’t think I’m better than anyone else on here, this is a drug forum not a religious forum, we’re not all perfect on here and we all have issues, including my self.

Do I look down on a whore? No she dies what she has to and my only hope is that one day she can get out of that lifestyle that somehow her luck changes, I’ve had my own problems myself, I’ve hit rock bottom and have been called names by people when I hit that bottom, I picked myself up and carried on got the help I needed, and have been a stand up citizen, I never once pass a homeless person on street or a alcoholic or drug addict and not give them a handout, and I’m not talking change but paper money, and hope that the handout makes their day better, whether it gets them food, alcohol or drugs, as long as it makes their night or day a pleasant one.

One day I might be in their shoes and hope I’m shown the same kindness, because o e never knows, your luck may change from today to tomorrow.

So I use words that someone doesn’t like, am I better than a whore, drug addict or alcoholic? No I am not, I am not perfect and have my own issues.

excuse any typos as I don’t have the time to go back and proof read and correct my errors.

Amd it’s also a compliment coming from you that you don’t like me.

With sincerity, stay safe and healthy.
 
Personally I find it kind of jarring to my ears when the speaker refers to somebody as a whore or bitch, bastard etc As if we knew that person. I wasn't offended but it took me a minute to make sense of the text
 
Holly.3 said:
Why do you say that?

Being a stripper for as long as I have, I've pretty much seen and heard it all. I've known strippers that had strict boundaries against having any sex, no extras, no Sex in the club or outside of the club and no prostitution or offering sex for money regardless if it was a regular longtime client or a new client at the club.

I've known dancers that would perform extras, no intercourse or with intercourse, only with a few longtime clients that they developed a casual friendship with outside of the club, Maybe going to dinner, going to a bar and shooting pool, heading up a concert or sporting event. Or, with these client "friends" they might meet up at the clients hotel if they're out of town and visit frequently or meet up at the client's/dancer's house where the dancer dances for the client the same way she would have if they were in the VIP room. I've even known as girls that meet up with their client friends outside of the club to have sex.

And of course, I've known girls that offered client's sex for money, either in the VIP room or outside of the club. Working independently by themselves or, working with a pimp.

Me personally, I have several regular longtime clients both locally that, to see me on a regular basis, and regular clients that travel for business on a regular basis that, to see me when they're in town. I've got several of these clients that I've gotten to know quite well and would consider them a friend. Often i will meet up with them once in awhile for dinner, or maybe to get a few drinks or even to go catch a baseball or football game with. I've even got a small handful of regular clients that Live 2 or 3 hours away that, to town quite often for business that will come to the club to spend a couple of hours with me. Sometimes if I wasn't planning to work that night, I will go to the club specifically to spend time with them. Once in a while, if we can't get our schedules to lined up where I can meet them at the club, I will either meet them at their hotel or have them stop by my place for a few hours where I can dance for them. Regardless of the situation, they always pay me well and make it worth my time.

I don't offer to have sex with clients in or outside of the club. I have clear boundaries in regards to extras. What I will do and what I will let the client do and where they can and can't touch me. Throughout my years working in the clubs, I do have a few specific personal friends that I know outside of the club that will come see me when I'm working that because we've been friends for many years, I I am okay with Maybe jacking them off or what we refer to as Joy sticking, and okay with them rubbing my clit. But I never let it go further than that.

With any of these situations I just described, the dancer is going to demand more money from the client if the client hasn't already offered to tip well. I have never heard of a girl that had to pay the client to get extras or sex, regardless of how desperate she was, or how ugly she was and definitely it wouldn't make sense for a dancer to pay the client if she's needing to get her drug fix.

I absolutely I've never heard of a girl that ended up paying to have sex. A girl would have to be an oxymoron to agree on pain to have sex. The only thing I can think of, I guess a girl would pay if she was getting sex from a male prostitute but then again, I have personally never heard of a male prostitute.

So I don't quite understand why you would say I was naive.
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Interesting explanation.

I once dated a stripper and it was an interesting test of sorts to me. She was a cool person, bright too. It was a strange thing though. Strippers are sex workers and ive never dated a sex worker. Sort of a headfuck, but she was interesting. She wasnt engaging in sex acts at least as far as she said. Id actually be quite surprised if she did. Are you able to engage in somewhat normal relationships despite your job? Seems almost impossible unless its a guy in that scene or peripheral scene.

Also love the term "joysticking" 🤣
 
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LordOfThisWorld said:
I’m not a narcissist, if you want to think I am that’s your prerogative.

I don’t use politically correct terms like six workers, that’s bullshit they’re prostitutes and a woman who sells her body is a whore I’m not saying that’s a bad thing people do what they have to do to survive, that’s life.

Here is the definition for the word whore:

whore​

/hôr/​

noun
  • 1.a prostitute.derogatory
  • 2.a woman who has many casual sexual encounters or relationships.offensive
verb
  • 1.work as a prostitute: derogatory"she was forced to whore in order to support herself"

I’ve disrespected a woman not even a prostitute if you prefer that term, after they performed their service I paid for I’ve even tipped them.

I’m on here to learn safe drug use and for discussion, if I use words that someone doesn’t like I can’t do anything about it, I’m stick by forum policy and not calling you or anyone names.

I don’t think I’m better than anyone else on here, this is a drug forum not a religious forum, we’re not all perfect on here and we all have issues, including my self.

Do I look down on a whore? No she dies what she has to and my only hope is that one day she can get out of that lifestyle that somehow her luck changes, I’ve had my own problems myself, I’ve hit rock bottom and have been called names by people when I hit that bottom, I picked myself up and carried on got the help I needed, and have been a stand up citizen, I never once pass a homeless person on street or a alcoholic or drug addict and not give them a handout, and I’m not talking change but paper money, and hope that the handout makes their day better, whether it gets them food, alcohol or drugs, as long as it makes their night or day a pleasant one.

One day I might be in their shoes and hope I’m shown the same kindness, because o e never knows, your luck may change from today to tomorrow.

So I use words that someone doesn’t like, am I better than a whore, drug addict or alcoholic? No I am not, I am not perfect and have my own issues.

excuse any typos as I don’t have the time to go back and proof read and correct my errors.

Amd it’s also a compliment coming from you that you don’t like me.

With sincerity, stay safe and healthy.
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I didn't say you were a narcissist. It was an analogy.

You can't do anything about it? Rofl what do you just, have absolutely no control over what you say? Some kinda obsessive compulsive need to act like a douchebag?

It's real simple. Don't say shit that makes you sound like you think of women as of a similar value as a rental car. If you do, don't be surprised if a lot of people don't like you and you wind up with other antisocial douchebags as the only people who tolerate you. :p

Don't act like this is some pc police you're using the wrong words shit. I've on occasional had people get pissed off at me for using the word retard. Those people are the pc police. They don't like it even though it's extremely clear I am not using the word to denigrate anyone but idiots.

The words aren't the problem, the subtext is. That's what I'm having a go at you over.
 
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