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Why is gay sex so filthy and raunchy?

pofacedhoe said:
my response was a witty (i hope) send up of the gay sense of flesh entitlement. i was teasing. its your body and maybe if they pinch your arse you should pinch their tricep hard and make it into a game. its a tender area as me and my friends always pinch each other there when drunk and it should warn them off lol. it leaves an instant bruise and will generate a yelp/scream
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Yes it was witty I am quite familiar with humour from "the other side", i laughed, does that answer your "i hope"? I have used this technique myself ;)
I will have to remember the triceps, i know a few other pressure points. Thanks for the advice
 
aussie101 said:
Yes it was witty I am quite familiar with humour from "the other side", i laughed, does that answer your "i hope"? I have used this technique myself ;)
I will have to remember the triceps, i know a few other pressure points. Thanks for the advice
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its so much fun when drunk as it really hurts a lot and its easy to catch people off guard
 
As someone who has had his share of gay sex, with multiple partners, I can attest that all of my partners were all disgusted with raunchy, dirty, shitdick sex whenever the topic came up. It is something I find unappealing as well. I doubt such mindsets are anomalous among U.S. midwestern homo/bisexuals. As far as the prevalence of dirty gay porn goes, I would suggest to look at amateur gay porn, as you will see behavior that is more typical of a gay couple, where love and affection is apparent.

One could make such useless characterizations of the prevalence of violence against women in heterosexual porno, and the objectification of women in general. But, we know such generalizations are incorrect in general. ;P
 
Yes, I really dislike most hetero porn.

But the distinct difference in M4M ads on CL vs the other orientations is still present. So is bath house stuff I've seen vs heteros and lesbians in lifestyle clubs. And the private gay sex me and Ms.G have seen...

could it be a big city thing?
 
I think it is a big city thing. People will come far and wide to a club that caters to their very, very bizzare/depraved interests, if such a club exists.
 
Quite true.

On the subject of porn, ms.g and I where toying with the idea of doing some amateur stuff, to present BDSM in a non raunchy, non depraved, cute and affectionate way... much like my perception of gay men having been skewed by the way it is often presented, I think so kink. Possibly more so, as it's arguably more taboo, less common, and does not have groups making ads and stuff to show that it's not just depravity of weirdos who torture cats when they can't find a sub...
 
Men get off much more conveniently and frequently than women. Add arguably innate aggressiveness and social power incorporation into the equation and that equals super kinky shit. Men are more horny and more extreme in most aspects, sexual or otherwise.
 
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Men are more horny and extreme?

Tell that to Ms.G or my past S/Os... but it's never raunchy in the same way.

Some how, they've made pissing in my mouth a loving and non degrading act. (Partly because they've never said anything degrading) they've made pegging me seem soft and romantic, etc...
 
NVM!

I think I just figured it out!

It's not the acts themselves. It's that I've always been exposed to casual hook ups or otherwise stuff outside of a romantic relationship or a FWB situation where the friends care about each other.

Whereas my hetero and bi girl exp is mostly in that setting.

It's different when its with a person you love or at least like. Its hard to be degrading and shit.

But when it's purley to get a nut, it's easier. I've never been like that with hookups, but I can see how it could go that way.
 
rangrz said:
Some because of that, a lot of the rest because it focuses on particular types of sex I don't find to have any visual aesthetic appeal.
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So if there was hetero BDSM porn made by a loving married couple, that you would be into?

Or does porn not even interest you even if it was almost exactly like the kind of sex you prefer to have?
 
Rangrz, I'm also pretty picky with my porn.
I can guarantee you there is plenty out there that meets your appeal/standards/whatever and help bring you sexual gratification.
I only have >200gb of porn ;)
 
Eh, I don't really need it tbh... and I've always been good at finding porn I liked, its just like 1 out of 25 vids, even with appropriate keyword searches, is anything close to hot.
 
You should start a new wave in nerd porn by posting videos of you getting pegged with your head in a hadron collidor on pornhub. You game, man?
 
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