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Why do we have to be faithful ???

sms143 said:
Been with my Husband for ten years this month, and we have an amazing sex life, athough my drive is a lot higher then his.
We spice it up a lot, toys, and add ppl to the mix...keeps it fresh ya know?

You should def approach your wife w these thoughts before acting on your cheating intentions..
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This.
 
I feel the same sometimes, but only because my gf - who I DO love very very much - NEVER gives me blowjobs. I lick her out because I enjoy licking her out. If I ever stop treating her orally because I feel resentful I always end up giving it to her again. Because I love her and I actually really really enjoy licking juicy pussy.

I have never cheated. If I ever did it would only be for a BJ. Had one once off a married whore before I was with my gf... it was awesome but I didn't cum because my meds made me last far too long so I couldn't cum.

off meds now, I SOOOOOOOOO want a bj.

When I watch porn it's for the BJs.

My dream girl would love giving bjs and much as I love licking out juicy pussy.
 
Silky2013 said:
Yes sorry to break it to you but I do not know one man that has been faithful to his wife .... It's just life ... Not sure we (both sexes) were designed to be with one partner !!! Best thing is to embrace it and manage it appropriately :-)
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Now you do ;-). 18 years and counting. Wouldn't dream of straying.
 
Lol yeah I know a ton of people who have stayed in committed relationships for years. Males and females.

Not everyone is meant to be faithful. But if you want to cheat, I'd recommend breaking up with your partner first, if you care about him/her at all.
If he/she is okay with an open relationship then that's awesome but not everyone is okay with it. Many people, at this time, aren't okay with open relationships.
 
Open Relationships couples (married or not) is actually growing in the USA and other countries. As monogamy is not really built into our DNA... its more of a religious / rules thing make up a long long long time ago. Also keep in mind, in the great OLD days, you'd be lucky to live to the ripe old age of 30~40.

By being open / swing / poly - you have the sexual release and excitement of having sex with someone else.... and you're not going behind someone's back + the bonus of learning how to communicate with your other half.

After going to swing parties or swapping - we tend to be EXTRA horny for each other. we try more things out...
 
Tou have to be faithful to your agreement with your SO. I suggest you man up and ask if she wanna have a "night off" and you can go to seperate bars and get laid. Maybe she will enjoy some other cock than yours? Maybe you will enjoy some of the beautiful women in your town. The next night you can tell about your expiriences. See? Its not so hard. You have to honour your relationship, not nescsserily be faithful.

Maybe ask her for a threesome with some other guy :)

if these suggestions sound horrific to you, your heart will answer your stupid question, no offence..and good luck opening up your relationship.
 
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