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why do men prefer whores/sluts over a good girl with less experience?

To be honest, you can always teach women to be good in sex. Its easy.
You can't turn a hoe into a housewife, tho.
There's 2 kinds of attraction. The kind of attraction men have for porn stars, which is sexual. But would any man really want to get cheated regularly? Would any man want to get in relationship with a whore?
Many do, but most men can't handle the consequences - or at least the consequences have to be learnt hard way.
Then there's the other kind of attraction, which is that you really like the person and want to spend time with them.
If your man finds thought of some other men having sex with other women hot, he's a cuck and you should leave him immitediadly.
If I met your man my pimp hand would get Naruto level powers.
Also, in most parts of the world virginity is highly valued in women. This polyamory thing, which never leads to anything good, only happens in western countries. In many countries there's death penalty for that.
And western countries have been in decline for a while.
This is the fall of The Rome.
I actually wouldn't mind islamization of Europe. I don't understand why far-righters are so mad about islam taking over. Islam is one of the most far right ideologies there is in this world, by western standards.
F.U.B.A.R. said:
It's an unfortunate fact that many (most?) men like a nasty gal in bed. But for them to get that nasty, it takes a lot of practice. This is where many men go wrong. They want that level of experience in a woman, but get jealous of the ones that went before.

Same with woman. I've come to learn that women love a stud that can roger them senseless without coming in 10 minutes. But when they meet one, they're jealous of all the other women that perfected their technique.

There's a saying (by men) that the perfect woman should be a cook in the kitchen, a lady in the parlour and a whore in the bedroom. Admittedly totally sexist, but pretty true.

I'd be quite content with a whore in the kitchen, a whore in the parlour and an even bigger whore in the bedroom 😜

But yeh, people and relationships are all just fucked up...
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Yeah, and a whore in your best friends apartment. Ever thought about that?
 
DeadManWalkin' said:
To be honest, you can always teach women to be good in sex. Its easy.
You can't turn a hoe into a housewife, tho.
There's 2 kinds of attraction. The kind of attraction men have for porn stars, which is sexual. But would any man really want to get cheated regularly? Would any man want to get in relationship with a whore?
Many do, but most men can't handle the consequences - or at least the consequences have to be learnt hard way.
Then there's the other kind of attraction, which is that you really like the person and want to spend time with them.
If your man finds thought of some other men having sex with other women hot, he's a cuck and you should leave him immitediadly.
If I met your man my pimp hand would get Naruto level powers.
Also, in most parts of the world virginity is highly valued in women. This polyamory thing, which never leads to anything good, only happens in western countries. In many countries there's death penalty for that.
And western countries have been in decline for a while.
This is the fall of The Rome.
I actually wouldn't mind islamization of Europe. I don't understand why far-righters are so mad about islam taking over. Islam is one of the most far right ideologies there is in this world, by western standards.

Yeah, and a whore in your best friends apartment. Ever thought about that?
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Even tho sleeping around is related to having imbalance in your life and also mentally i do believe that a "slut" could meet a man she really likes and become what people would call a good housewife. Why condemn someone for making mistakes? Even tho i see polyamory as a huge red flag to beware on a partner its still their choice and their business, not something punishable with death... if they want to taint themselves like that so let them, we dont know what led them to do that shit in the first place.
I cant say much about Islam since i know mostly nothing about it...
 
strangeaeon said:
Even tho sleeping around is related to having imbalance in your life and also mentally i do believe that a "slut" could meet a man she really likes and become what people would call a good housewife. Why condemn someone for making mistakes? Even tho i see polyamory as a huge red flag to beware on a partner its still their choice and their business, not something punishable with death... if they want to taint themselves like that so let them, we dont know what led them to do that shit in the first place.
I cant say much about Islam since i know mostly nothing about it...
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Oh yeah, let me show you some statistics.
This proves that the less non-martial sexual partner woman has, the more likely she is to have stable marriage, be happy, not be depressed and not have STDs.
You have read studies about pair bonding and promiscuity? Promiscuity destroys the ability to bond extremely strongly to one person.
Google some studies about this subject.
Think about it.
One guy was exciting, because he was a criminal. One was good in bed. One was really smart. One was really handsome. One was very charismatic.
So, when you have fucked like 70 different guys and keep comparing them to each other, can you ever really bond like a virgin would? Hell no.
Even data proves that you can't make a hoe housewife. And even if you could make a hoe into housewife out of 1% of hoes which may be able to turn into housewife, would you really want to take the chance as a man? Hell no.
Cheating isn't a mistake. It's a conscious choice.
Joining into relationship is consensual deal. It's a deal and there's boundaries.
I can't stand people who don't keep their promises, who don't come on time, who shake hand and do other thing. I actually believe there should be penalty for breaking these deals. It annoys me to death.
How come it's okay that you get married with a woman, she cheats on you after 10 years, then takes half of your assets and flies to have nice trip abroad with her new boyfriend? Sounds pretty degenerate to me.
But hey, it's a mistake. Or is it? No, it's a fucking choice. And when you know your choices don't have consequences you're more likely to do them.
 
I known a dozen women who ran rampant with sex and drugs in college but subsequently settled down in monogamous relationships with good men in their late 30s, had a kid or two, and enjoy very happy domestic lives. Most also have a successful career as well.

The barrier for the women who can’t make the shift from the wild youth to domestic bliss is usually the hypocritical misogyny of the men they meet as they try. But I suspect the majority of decently educated men increasingly have a more open-minded and even handed view of what sexual equality is and what a loving relationship requires these days.
 
Atelier3 said:
I known a dozen women who ran rampant with sex and drugs in college but subsequently settled down in monogamous relationships with good men in their late 30s, had a kid or two, and enjoy very happy domestic lives. Most also have a successful career as well.

The barrier for the women who can’t make the shift from the wild youth to domestic bliss is usually the hypocritical misogyny of the men they meet as they try. But I suspect the majority of decently educated men increasingly have a more open-minded and even handed view of what sexual equality is and what a loving relationship requires these days.
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So when a woman has been pumped by 30 different exciting guys, then it's the nice guys turn? Then, after they have child of another man and have been used up in every possible way, they might consider the good man?
Sounds like shit deal to the good man. Women are in their prime in their 20's. I don't remember which study it was, but most men found women aged 22 on average the most attractive.
Women on the other hand always found men 1-2 years older than them attractive.
So, if a woman doesn't want to take you in her prime, why should the good man take the woman when they're declining? Looks are diminishing asset. Looks attract men, mostly. Personality is a big factor too.
But what attracts women? Status, looks, power and resources. Not exactly resources - traits that indicate incoming resources.
Men get these things more and more as they age up, but women lose their thing when they age up.
 
DeadManWalkin' said:
So when a woman has been pumped by 30 different exciting guys, then it's the nice guys turn? Then, after they have child of another man and have been used up in every possible way, they might consider the good man?
Sounds like shit deal to the good man. Women are in their prime in their 20's. I don't remember which study it was, but most men found women aged 22 on average the most attractive.
Women on the other hand always found men 1-2 years older than them attractive.
So, if a woman doesn't want to take you in her prime, why should the good man take the woman when they're declining? Looks are diminishing asset. Looks attract men, mostly. Personality is a big factor too.
But what attracts women? Status, looks, power and resources. Not exactly resources - traits that indicate incoming resources.
Men get these things more and more as they age up, but women lose their thing when they age up.
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Most of the ‘nice guys’ as you call them were fucking their way through college just the same. In your ideal world women may be breeding machines but in Australia, in higher socio-economic levels, men and women are investing in their professional development in their 20,s and early 30’s. Neither wants to marry until they have attained security in life. Educated professional men want educated professional women and they know they have to wait for them.

That approach to life is a big factor in what helps successful people stay successful and raise successful kids. The women having babies in their 20s here are mostly on welfare and you’d still consider them used up because they started fucking boys when they were 14. Their kids will be on welfare too.
 
Atelier3 said:
Most of the ‘nice guys’ as you call them were fucking their way through college just the same. In your ideal world women may be breeding machines but in Australia, in higher socio-economic levels, men and women are investing in their professional development in their 20,s and early 30’s. Neither wants to marry until they have attained security in life. Educated professional men want educated professional women and they know they have to wait for them.

That approach to life is a big factor in what helps successful people stay successful and raise successful kids. The women having babies in their 20s here are mostly on welfare and you’d still consider them used up because they started fucking boys when they were 14. Their kids will be on welfare too.
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Nah, I'd rather marry a good woman who's 10 years younger than me when I'm on my 30's.
IDK. I may actually move to some islamic country.
Anyways, how's your kid doing? You are, by my standards, pretty successfull despite your drug problems, I don't know about your (ex?) wife, but how come your son isn't so succesfull? Don't take this as a personal attack, because it isn't. My point here is that your philosophy is flawed here and you can see it in your own life.
 
DeadManWalkin' said:
So when a woman has been pumped by 30 different exciting guys, then it's the nice guys turn? Then, after they have child of another man and have been used up in every possible way, they might consider the good man?
Sounds like shit deal to the good man. Women are in their prime in their 20's. I don't remember which study it was, but most men found women aged 22 on average the most attractive.
Women on the other hand always found men 1-2 years older than them attractive.
So, if a woman doesn't want to take you in her prime, why should the good man take the woman when they're declining? Looks are diminishing asset. Looks attract men, mostly. Personality is a big factor too.
But what attracts women? Status, looks, power and resources. Not exactly resources - traits that indicate incoming resources.
Men get these things more and more as they age up, but women lose their thing when they age up.
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And that attitude is why ignorant men fuck children
 
F.U.B.A.R. said:
And that attitude is why ignorant men fuck children
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Yeah, it might be.
Whatever dude. I'm not whining, this system works pretty well for me. But I know a lot of men whose it doesn't really work for so well.
Polyamorous societies have always turned out to be extremely violent and there's reason for that.
These old traditions, which are written in bible and quran, even talmud. you know - they are written there for a reason.
It's not like this free love thing hasn't been tested out countless times in human history and it has always turned out to be complete disaster?
 
DeadManWalkin' said:
Yeah, it might be.
Whatever dude. I'm not whining, this system works pretty well for me. But I know a lot of men whose it doesn't really work for so well.
Polyamorous societies have always turned out to be extremely violent and there's reason for that.
These old traditions, which are written in bible and quran, even talmud. you know - they are written there for a reason.
It's not like this free love thing hasn't been tested out countless times in human history and it has always turned out to be complete disaster?
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I would just say "look at Islam and Catholicism" for violence.

Words written in a book don't mean shit.
 
i mean... i dont want to sound like a crazy feminist but a bit too much misogyny there, you can't get it right if you look at women that way.
most women in their 20s are looking to have a career and a life of their own, they are not thinking about getting pregnant unless they never had proper education...
a few people have told me about how women with many partners (meaning exactly six or more...) can no longer function in a stable relationship, which don't ring very true to me, it just doesn't make sense, but whatever, i don't think this subject is very important right now
so, besides islamic countries, what are your chances to find a 20 year old virgin willing to marry you? yeah.
wish i knew more about islam i think im going to do some research
dont get me wrong tho, i do believe that promiscuity is very damaging to both society and the individuals involved, i know a dude who finds the snapchat of egirls who sell nudes and sends their nudes to their parents
 
strangeaeon said:
i mean... i dont want to sound like a crazy feminist but a bit too much misogyny there, you can't get it right if you look at women that way.
most women in their 20s are looking to have a career and a life of their own, they are not thinking about getting pregnant unless they never had proper education...
a few people have told me about how women with many partners (meaning exactly six or more...) can no longer function in a stable relationship, which don't ring very true to me, it just doesn't make sense, but whatever, i don't think this subject is very important right now
so, besides islamic countries, what are your chances to find a 20 year old virgin willing to marry you? yeah.
wish i knew more about islam i think im going to do some research
dont get me wrong tho, i do believe that promiscuity is very damaging to both society and the individuals involved, i know a dude who finds the snapchat of egirls who sell nudes and sends their nudes to their parents
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It's common in Africa, in many christian countries. It's common in far-east. It's common even in some European countries.
It's more common than not actually, if you look at the world.
Anyways, the dude who does that sounds like absolute god to me. I wish I could do something like that too, but I have other shit going on in my life :)
 
strangeaeon said:
i mean... i dont want to sound like a crazy feminist but a bit too much misogyny there, you can't get it right if you look at women that way.
most women in their 20s are looking to have a career and a life of their own, they are not thinking about getting pregnant unless they never had proper education...
a few people have told me about how women with many partners (meaning exactly six or more...)
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Rofl. Six or more is "many" partners? I was in a single monogamous relationship for most of my 20s, and am only 32 now, and I still have had more than 6 partners.

That's fucked. Especially given how many partners most men are claiming by their early 20s.
 
JessFR said:
Rofl. Six or more is "many" partners? I was in a single monogamous relationship for most of my 20s, and am only 32 now, and I still have had more than 6 partners.

That's fucked. Especially given how many partners most men are claiming by their early 20s.
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Well, the rule at least here goes that when man tells a number divide it by 2. When woman tells a number time it by 3.
Or something like that.
:D
Dick and sex bragging are 2 very fucking annoying things. I hate them.
Anyways, the 6 number isn't the number. I can tell you from my memory that the number was around 10-15 partners, for women.
Studies I have read converse on women, can't tell if it's same for men.
 
DeadManWalkin' said:
Well, the rule at least here goes that when man tells a number divide it by 2. When woman tells a number time it by 3.
Or something like that.
:D
Dick and sex bragging are 2 very fucking annoying things. I hate them.
Anyways, the 6 number isn't the number. I can tell you from my memory that the number was around 10-15 partners, for women.
Studies I have read converse on women, can't tell if it's same for men.
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Lol i love your random phrases and stats. Relevant, true in a lot of cases. Not sure it can be applied to everyone though.

Do you ever find studies that contradict themselves?
 
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