Let me tell you guys once and for all that, being nice gets you nowhere. Been there , done that. Whenever I treat them nicely, they end up asking 'Why are you being so nice'. It's as if they expect you to grope them, and to want to have sex with them that night, or else you have some kind of a hidden agenda. So here are some points in helping those who need it :
1. Make sure you have a mobile phone with plenty of empty mem spots for all the numbers that you will be storing on it. The mobile 'sim card' is the equivelent of the last generation's 'black book', and must be guarded with your life.
2. Act like an arrogant asshole (Even if you are not one). This is the hardest thing, when you are first starting off. However soon you wil see the benefits of it, and will forever say to yourself, 'Why have I not always acted this way??'.
3. Always ask for their phone numbers, and I mean always. They almost always say 'I don't usually give out my number, but you seem different', meaning that your arrogance has attracted them.
4. Never actually call them, before they call you, which they will unless you have come across a female 'Player'. However don't worry though, as they can also be much fun to play with.
5. You may send them an SMS first, only if it contains a flirtatious message.
6. Flirt with other girls around them, showing how confident you are, and that they don't mean squat to you. They may act like they are hurt at first, but that just seems to disappear quickly as they try to make themselves more attractive to you.
7. Never buy them anything of value the first few times you see them. Buying them anything of value could signal to them that you're nice, and is therefore counter productive.
8. No lovie, dovie gestures. It has to be dirty, or again it will show you off as being 'nice', and therefore you will be put into the category of men with which they will not want to have sex with.
9. Write them SMS messages offering SEX(This works a treat everytime).
10. Never give a shit what their friends think of you. It's not them you're wanting to have sex with. They can all be 'fair game' later, if they are good enough looking.
11. When at pubs/clubs you MUST strike early in the night. By that I mean usually before 12am, when the girls have just started to arrive and are still checking out their potential prey(you).
12. If you have the means, a nice car will also do wonders for you sex life. There have been numerous occasions where I have gone to get into my car(Lotus Elise/ Nissan 200SX) which was parked at a McDonalds near a popular club, and girls have been very eager to make conversation, then then ask for a ride home.
13. Always have your business card handy with your phone number on it. You don't always have to give it out, but it's good to have some handy.
14. Always remember that their friends are also 'fair game', and that the person you're actually seeing now can be just a stepping stone.
15. It's not a bad thing to go out with a few friends who you may consider wimps, when it comes to wemen(as long as they too are good looking. you want the girls to actually want to look towards your direction). That way you can stand out in the group, and are almost always successful. You friends will just look at the girls, while you're the only one showing guts, and actually approaching them. This works a treat every time.
16. Last but not least, you must have the guts to actually walk over to them and start the conversation. Don't worry about how they may portray themselves(such as being snobs), All those aspects of their personality will come crashing down quicker than the Iraqi army's defences.
Thats's all that comes to mind for the moment.
Happy hunting.
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