^ Living is about living (death is inevitable)- it's a fleeting and short life, we just feel like we are in control of time but its an illusion. Make the best of yourself, learn how to love yourself and those you love.
Humans have the capacity to be benevolent and maleficent and everything in between, imho.
Don't let your capacity for autonomy be hijacked by individualistic or, collectivistic nonsense - go for what really is true for you; its not fixed, its dynamic and you learn and you learn ...