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what does make someone a man ?

Being a man is taking responsiblity for your actions no matter what situation you are faced with. Being a man is being honest, sensitive and caring when need be. A man can also be anyone who will stand up and fight for what he believes in. And i dont mean fighting to fight, i mean fighting for a just, or moral cause. A man is someone who will never give up when faced with death, and who doesnt leave a friend behind to save his own skin. There's alot more to being a man these are just a few things that i consider make a real man.
 
realm said:
Being a man is taking responsiblity for your actions no matter what situation you are faced with. Being a man is being honest, sensitive and caring when need be. A man can also be anyone who will stand up and fight for what he believes in. And i dont mean fighting to fight, i mean fighting for a just, or moral cause. A man is someone who will never give up when faced with death, and who doesnt leave a friend behind to save his own skin. There's alot more to being a man these are just a few things that i consider make a real man.

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Basically to be a real man, is the same to be a real woman, im most ways.

To be a adult about it.

but it has a truer meaning when you say "be a man" because it is much easier to undersatnd than "be a adult" cuz adult is, what, 18 years old?
 
What makes a man? In my opinion it is when you learn to get beyond your childish egocentric condition and begin to display some or all of the following virtues in your everyday life:

- reliability
- honesty
- compassion
- strength (mental and physical)
- generosity
- responsibility

I'm sure there are more, but those are the most important off the top of my head. I'm sorry to say that real men are in short supply these days, but I like to think I'm a real man, or at least I am trying to become one.
 
^^^^ Yeah, it really is that simple but some people never evolve/mature especially the ones I meet when the bars are closing. After all you do for them they still think of other ways to fuck you over.
 
what makes a man?
knowing the dues you must pay for past actions
knowing what you do is from your own doing and not throwing blame.
being yourself instead of trying to fit into a costume that doesnt even fit.
^in other words being yourself and not someone else.
respect to others. not out of obligation but because that's how it should be.
to each his own
not fucking questioning everything and just going with it.
 
If you can kick ass when appropriate.
If you like to drink beer.
If you don't let no biatch control your whole existense
If you can fuck like a race-horse
and then do it all over again....

id say your manly enough for me
 
Jamshyd said:


It is my opinion is that man created woman in order to have some thing other than himself to blame for his state of being.


but if a woman is xx and a man is xy,couldnt it be possible the xy is a mutation from xx? isnt it possible that woman created man?

i like to think of the male species as mutants.considering the dumbest fucks in the world are all male and so are the smartest.this might get some peoples "panties bunched" ,but in school for my whole life the girls got pretty much the same grades,there was less of a gap between the brightest girl and the slowest.

look at lets say,dog the bounty hunter and then steven hawking.one guy thinks he is "manly" and sure many redneck hicks would agree.but steven hawking can fart blackholes.suddenly im really not impressed with mr dog.

and thats the thing,where are the female steven hawkings.they dont happen that much,because males are a mutation of females,so we have a bigger chance to go to the extreme one way(stephen hawking supergenious) and the extreme opposite(dog the bounty hunter uteer moron)

in order to be a man you need only a penis.all of the things everyone have attributed to a "man" are completely sexist as any female could have those qualities as well.there is nothing a man can do to make himself less of a man.there is only things he can do to make OTHERS feel that way about him.in which case he could just as easily offer them to suck on that which what makes him a man.which i invite most of you to do here:)
 
IF

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you
But make allowance for their doubting too,
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream--and not make dreams your master,
If you can think--and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings--nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much,
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And--which is more--you'll be a Man, my son!


--Rudyard Kipling
 
When I know, or strongly feel im right about something. I do what I feel is true, and I let know others exactly how I feel. I would say the average female lacks this kind of candid interaction.

Girls can be pretty nasty to each other socially.
 
Pain is your answer. I don't agree with it but it is how it is.

The answer of God is that you pay for conforming, eternally
 
Pain is your answer. I don't agree with it but it is how it is.

The answer of God is that you pay for conforming, eternally
What about the pain of childbirth while being identified at birth as female ? By conforming to your female body through this pain do you become a man?
Why or why not?

How was this answer revealed to you by God ?

Why do you agree or disagree?
 
Pain is your answer. I don't agree with it but it is how it is.

The answer of God is that you pay for conforming, eternally
Pain is a necessary part of life.

Every adversity carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit. The best lessons I’ve learned never occurred to me when it was easy and I was comfortable. It was during times that were the most difficult. The greatest clarity never came when things were easy. It was after a storm had hit so hard that I had to decide whether to sink or swim. So I finally just decided to start anticipating the good in the bad.

You gotta train your mind to say…this pain is preparing me….this failure is redirecting me….this delay is protecting me. That’s how you become unshakable and impossible to defeat. It’s hard to defeat someone who just gets stronger every time you hit them lol.

We’re never really a victim of circumstance. We’re just victims of however we choose to respond. Thats why two people can face the same setback but each have different outcomes. It’s because one became bitter while the other just became better. It’s about perspective and attitude. When life slaps us across the face we get to decide how we respond. Do we let it curse us or do we let it bless us with whatever it can teach us? We can become resentful or we can become wiser. We can’t always control what happens but we can always control what it becomes. Having this mindset doesn't remove difficulty…it just redefines it. It doesn't stop the storms from coming…it just teaches you how to walk through them with purpose.

I think some people are addicted to mediocrity. They've made a habit out of hopelessness. Surround yourself only with those who speak life. Avoid those who feed your fear.

Tell me who your enemies are and I can tell you who you are becoming. Tell me who your friends are and I can tell you the limits of your future. Environment is stronger than will. If you spend all of your time in darkness you’re not gonna see any light.
 
Conformity is what adolescence should rebel against. Conformity in this day and age is evil. A destruction of the individual innocence which leads to great sins of killing. Or a hive mind blindness.

The great dragon of adolescence: Satan declares war on the idiocy of squandered adolescence itself. Resisting society in a group. A pathetic contradiction. Only the individual can know God and Satan. Only one who learns to be alone will meet God. There is a choice in adolescence which I have chosen. An easy choice of following your heart against the robotic machinations of societal slavery.

God is fed up with darkness males. darkness females and ESPECIALLY darkness adolescents. Your great father has given you the greatest gift ever given. And know his servants judge you to be unfit to become his peace. All because of an unregistered fear you were allowed to let carry on. Now I say it starts SOONER as it would have benefited me better instead of figuring it out on my own in too much time.
 
The pathetic covering up of anxiety when it is the only way to reach the true art.

You should see where darkness mankind is headed
 
Conformity is what adolescence should rebel against. Conformity in this day and age is evil. A destruction of the individual innocence which leads to great sins of killing. Or a hive mind blindness.

The great dragon of adolescence: Satan declares war on the idiocy of squandered adolescence itself. Resisting society in a group. A pathetic contradiction. Only the individual can know God and Satan. Only one who learns to be alone will meet God. There is a choice in adolescence which I have chosen. An easy choice of following your heart against the robotic machinations of societal slavery.

God is fed up with darkness males. darkness females and ESPECIALLY darkness adolescents. Your great father has given you the greatest gift ever given. And know his servants judge you to be unfit to become his peace. All because of an unregistered fear you were allowed to let carry on. Now I say it starts SOONER as it would have benefited me better instead of figuring it out on my own in too much time.
There are several interesting ideas here, but they’re difficult to follow because they aren’t clearly connected. Could you explain what your main point is in a few sentences? I’d like to understand what you’re trying to communicate before responding.
 
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