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what does make someone a man ?

Being a man is taking responsiblity for your actions no matter what situation you are faced with. Being a man is being honest, sensitive and caring when need be. A man can also be anyone who will stand up and fight for what he believes in. And i dont mean fighting to fight, i mean fighting for a just, or moral cause. A man is someone who will never give up when faced with death, and who doesnt leave a friend behind to save his own skin. There's alot more to being a man these are just a few things that i consider make a real man.
 
realm said:
Being a man is taking responsiblity for your actions no matter what situation you are faced with. Being a man is being honest, sensitive and caring when need be. A man can also be anyone who will stand up and fight for what he believes in. And i dont mean fighting to fight, i mean fighting for a just, or moral cause. A man is someone who will never give up when faced with death, and who doesnt leave a friend behind to save his own skin. There's alot more to being a man these are just a few things that i consider make a real man.

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Basically to be a real man, is the same to be a real woman, im most ways.

To be a adult about it.

but it has a truer meaning when you say "be a man" because it is much easier to undersatnd than "be a adult" cuz adult is, what, 18 years old?
 
What makes a man? In my opinion it is when you learn to get beyond your childish egocentric condition and begin to display some or all of the following virtues in your everyday life:

- reliability
- honesty
- compassion
- strength (mental and physical)
- generosity
- responsibility

I'm sure there are more, but those are the most important off the top of my head. I'm sorry to say that real men are in short supply these days, but I like to think I'm a real man, or at least I am trying to become one.
 
^^^^ Yeah, it really is that simple but some people never evolve/mature especially the ones I meet when the bars are closing. After all you do for them they still think of other ways to fuck you over.
 
what makes a man?
knowing the dues you must pay for past actions
knowing what you do is from your own doing and not throwing blame.
being yourself instead of trying to fit into a costume that doesnt even fit.
^in other words being yourself and not someone else.
respect to others. not out of obligation but because that's how it should be.
to each his own
not fucking questioning everything and just going with it.
 
If you can kick ass when appropriate.
If you like to drink beer.
If you don't let no biatch control your whole existense
If you can fuck like a race-horse
and then do it all over again....

id say your manly enough for me
 
Jamshyd said:


It is my opinion is that man created woman in order to have some thing other than himself to blame for his state of being.


but if a woman is xx and a man is xy,couldnt it be possible the xy is a mutation from xx? isnt it possible that woman created man?

i like to think of the male species as mutants.considering the dumbest fucks in the world are all male and so are the smartest.this might get some peoples "panties bunched" ,but in school for my whole life the girls got pretty much the same grades,there was less of a gap between the brightest girl and the slowest.

look at lets say,dog the bounty hunter and then steven hawking.one guy thinks he is "manly" and sure many redneck hicks would agree.but steven hawking can fart blackholes.suddenly im really not impressed with mr dog.

and thats the thing,where are the female steven hawkings.they dont happen that much,because males are a mutation of females,so we have a bigger chance to go to the extreme one way(stephen hawking supergenious) and the extreme opposite(dog the bounty hunter uteer moron)

in order to be a man you need only a penis.all of the things everyone have attributed to a "man" are completely sexist as any female could have those qualities as well.there is nothing a man can do to make himself less of a man.there is only things he can do to make OTHERS feel that way about him.in which case he could just as easily offer them to suck on that which what makes him a man.which i invite most of you to do here:)
 
IF

If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you
But make allowance for their doubting too,
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream--and not make dreams your master,
If you can think--and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings--nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much,
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And--which is more--you'll be a Man, my son!


--Rudyard Kipling
 
When I know, or strongly feel im right about something. I do what I feel is true, and I let know others exactly how I feel. I would say the average female lacks this kind of candid interaction.

Girls can be pretty nasty to each other socially.
 
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