Am actully against the use of any psych drugs, even legal ones, the exception being antipsychotics.
If your depressed, change your life not your brain, am a firm believer that no one is born depressed or ADHD, but that the environment is mismatched with their psychy.
Whether or not people are BORN with depression or anxiety is less the issue IMO.
If you have it, you have it.
Of course overall the most healthy thing is to deal with them without overuse of drugs, but drugs can still be extremely helpful.
I have an anxiety disorder, and whether or not I was born with it, Klonopin is very helpful for me and I can be more productive when on it in confronting anxiety producing situations and can't see how it could be considered wrong to ever use it to help me through them.
To be 100% dependent on ALWAYS taking something like that to face life is of course bad, but SOME usage for that reason is totally understandable IMO.
I don't think we should come down on the OP so hard for wanting something to help him with lifes stressors.
Most of us here have used a drug for to deal with stress, anxiety or depression at one time or another.
Also, you say 'if you are depressed change your life not your brain" but many times changing your brain is necessary to change your life.
Many of us can use substances to confront new situations, which then changes our life which changes our brain and then afterwards lower the dosage or the drug or not take it at all and have an improved life at that point.
Also, as far as not being born with mental illness, certain mental illnesses have been scientifcally proven.
Bipolar/Manic depression for example, is a scientific and medically proven FACT which is barely challenged by anyone anymore, and results in a difference in brain activity and needs medication to treat.
http://www.mhanp.org/mayoclinic.bipolar.html