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The singles thread v 'Your VD really scares me'

I've been finding myself in some seriously odd situations lately. On Saturday night I left one awkward scene only to walk straight into another which culminated in being lost in the inner west at 8am and having to call my friend to assist with a sentence that started with, 'OK, I'm really sorry about this, but I'm totally lost. These are my cross streets. Not 100% on the suburb. Please direct me out of here. Also, although I am totally disgusting right now, I just saw a bird eating vomit.'

Funny that, I got lost in the inner East when it was pouring rain one day. And I had a fresh chicken in my backpack... WHAT a coincidence! :D


True story!
 
NickyJ, you'll be OK. As we discussed earlier, you need time to grieve and process your emotions. Mums, chocolate, ice-cream and shitty films are stellar for helping out. <3

You know I'm always here champ'. You'll get back on the wagon eventually.
 
nicky, as your friend (who will use the good china) I'm happy to start spreading rumours about how AMAZING you are in bed and how ENORMOUS your penis is.

Just let me know when you think the T-ville ladies are ready for your jelly and I'll hit the hype button.

<3
 
In all my time on BL I was never really phased about being alone, til now, but being single really is shit.
 
^ If you're unhappy in yourself being alone, do you think you would be happy in yourself if you were in a relationship? Would having a partner be the answer to your problems?
 
exactly what I found... ^ right now I'm pretty happy with myself...happier than ever before..of course I slip up sometimes but yeah - pretty happy.
I'm not up for a relationship really, still getting over my ex, but wouldnt mind a fling or justa snuggle partner lol
 
I get tired of being single all the time. Never had a long term girlfriend ever, and I'm 28.

You have to be able to rely on yourself for the rest of your life though, doesn't matter who is around you. It's a nice thought to think that having a partner would make you feel better but there is still lots of other influences that effect your mood and emotions :)

Being able to keep yourself occupied and happy is a skill.
 
^ so true..I'm training myself in the art right now...good friends help alot but you do have only yourself to fall back on if everything goes tits up...

3 parties happening this weekend - cannae wait!! (PS Klue is your name Lucian or something along those lines?) Gonna see if I can get with this woman from a few weeks back, fingers crossed she gets invited...mmm
 
Well I don't hate myself. I'm just tired of being single.

I think when your single it's pretty normal to feel that. There are people who are happier flying solo and enjoy everything that comes with the single life and then there's others who long for a special someone and thinks everything would be better if they had someone to share it with. Neither is unhealthy if your being honest about why you want it.

It is very important to be happy alone but sometimes that gets old.
 
nicky, as your friend (who will use the good china) I'm happy to start spreading rumours about how AMAZING you are in bed and how ENORMOUS your penis is.

Just let me know when you think the T-ville ladies are ready for your jelly and I'll hit the hype button.

<3



You're awesome :D
 
NickyJ, you'll be OK. As we discussed earlier, you need time to grieve and process your emotions. Mums, chocolate, ice-cream and shitty films are stellar for helping out. <3

You know I'm always here champ'. You'll get back on the wagon eventually.


Mind if I replace chocolate, ice cream and shitty films with boutique beer and fresh Australian seafood? Awesome :D


In other news, the 1st few days were horrible but I'm not doing too badly now. I'd have to say it was a relatively friendly break up and I think that has helped a lot.
 
^ Sex isn't all its cracked up to be anyway matey, you will get there don't stress. There are lenty of things about being in a relationship that are a lot more fulfilling than sex.
 
Don't treat your virginity like a burden and throw it away, then you'll have to carry the memory of losing it in less than ideal circumstances as a burden instead. Best to keep it in your favourite cookie jar in the pantry, until the right cookie monster comes along to crack it open.
 
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:D
 
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