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The singles thread v 'Your VD really scares me'

So in the last weeks, I have heard about 2 mates engagements, 2 people setting a wedding date and been asked to be a best man. Sometime I think maybe I should be getting into all that shit myself.. Im not getting any younger.. but then I turn to my cider and know things will just be fine :P
 
heheh I could of posted in here over such a long period (i'd even bet longer than pretty much anyone. people had more of a problem with it than I did) tho not the case these days. these days being bout nearly 10 months now. as much as I love being in a relationship, I sometimes think about how I miss being single, certain aspects of it (like more free time/time to yourself).
enjoy singledom and the time it allows you to spend with #1 (i.e yourself :p), just go with the flow and with time someone will come along fitting for you <3
 
Oh the muthafuckin hilarity!!! :p


Those are wise words Miss 2 Shoes.
 
I've been fucking crap today but once I go back to work I think I'll be fine.

I'm also drunk and highly sedated right now. Pity it's given me the hiccups.

Good night my beautiful single friends! :D


P.S Except for Kat, I didn't mean to say goodnight to her.
 
OK so - yesterday I went to a Halloween party at my local pub with burlesque dancers, fire performers (which I missed! :( ) and DJ's, bandfs and poets...

Twas a alright night - wasn't in a very good mood but got in the mood for dancing at 1am, then this kinda round but sassy gal started dancing with me, so I kissed her..that was cool..then I worked out I just wasn't that into her, bit too round for my liking...

Then a complete surprise happened - a new-ish friend of mine Vikki - well we were talking at the party outside..and she said she wanted to jump me, but that her bf who had split up with her like a few horus earlier as still hanging around pissing her off, so we waited til he was gone, and mmm she is great! Went back to hers, and was really tired, (I did some 2C-I earlier in the evening so was a lil fried) and just kissed and snuggled...been snuggling all day...not sure where that will go - there's been chemistry between us for a while... But she did just break up with her bf, so I'm just seeing what happens.
 
Serious question here guys. How much of an age gap is too much of an age gap?

Of course over 18 still and appears/acts a lot older than really are. But still... Is seven years too much?
 
and then divide that by a bakers dozen but mind the omelette, i'm sure the oldest member of the couple could cook more than just omelette even if it took two tribes of seven dwarves to win the golden ticket.
 
miss_goody2shoes said:
heheh I could of posted in here over such a long period (i'd even bet longer than pretty much anyone. people had more of a problem with it than I did) tho not the case these days. these days being bout nearly 10 months now.
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*points*

You can't post in here!

BUT, you guys are pretty adorable... but not vomit-inducingly so, which is commendable.
 
^hahaha. yeah we'd never be that kinda couple I think, not our style

age is only an issue if you if you feel so/make it out to be. don't worry about what other people think- if you guys are happy and have really connected- that's all that should matter rite?
 
just under the "recommended dietary age difference" by a year.

BUGGER IT.

Well actually that's what I intend to do regardless. Mmmm Buggery
 
Klue said:
^ If you're unhappy in yourself being alone, do you think you would be happy in yourself if you were in a relationship? Would having a partner be the answer to your problems?
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That's it right there hey. People think they are lonely and want someone to complete them but no one can really. Someone maybe able to compliment you though which is totally different. Most relationships fail cos people don't love themselves and don't have self approval so need someone else to give them that (even if they are not aware of it on a concious level) thats also how relationships end up failing ... when that other person can't meet all the emotional needs that you need to learn to meet yourself... I'm so happy i'm 100% fully aware of this concept now.

I am kinda sorta seeing someone on and off.... in a "label free" connection. He writes me amazing poetry (which is a little full on) , respects me, always puts me first, is talented, sincere and genuine with just a truley lovelt soul but has all these self issues that he needs to deal with and sort out and everything inside me screams to rescue and nurture but i cant and wont do that anymore cos i cant fix anyone cos i'm only 100% responsible for me.... hence us being on and off all the time... its difficult...

He's definitely potential salmon but my past says thats what they all were... always seeing the potential and wanting to fix and help... well i aint a doctor, just a humble fisherman these days... and i throw the small ones away so they can grow on their own ...
 
IXinX said:
Serious question here guys. How much of an age gap is too much of an age gap?

Of course over 18 still and appears/acts a lot older than really are. But still... Is seven years too much?
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I think sometimes it's just a number but at the same time when you are quite young (under 20) and date someone over 5 years older than you it can be a BIG difference.... then again some younger people are alot more aware of things than others so it's really quite an individual thing. <3
 
Lots happened since I was last in here...

Met 2 ladies the other night at my friends house party...

around 35/40 both of them...one black one white..

now they both seemed to take a shine to me - the white one saying she wanted me to dance for her in her living room when she was doing whatever hehehe...big compliment.

I was more interested in the black womaaaan so I showed it...

then everything got a bit balh...was tripping on liberty caps hard..so the rest of the night was spent melting into inanimate objets and ting...then she left, saying sorry we couldnt have that dance...

Just took it that she wasnt interested...but then I found out the white one of hte 2 is my good friends sister...and so went round to hers yesterday for a bit of a smoke with my friend and the big black mama >WAS interested!! :D so she's hooking me up...yumz <3

ONa more serious note though - I have decided I want to be with Vikki.
So until I've tested the waters with her again, and elucidated to my real intentions, I'm going to have some fun with miss BBW ebony ska singer woop!
 
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