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The singles thread v 'Your VD really scares me'

m4dd0g said:
omg, so awesome. Yarni: will you marry me?

...i mean that in a totally non-physical, non-legal, non-committal, non-geographical, non-communicative way of course
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Promises without the commitment? Sounds perfect.

I'm so glad we can stay mildly interested in each other's lives.
 
up all night said:
If you're not getting laid isn't watching porn like being Oliver Twist standing out the front of a lolly shop, except there's no chance of you getting a golden ticket with that particular candy bar?
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Actually I think that's more Charlie (and the Chocolate Factory) then Oliver Twist (?) =D




So I've been single for almost two years or more I think. I don't enjoy it, I don't loath it either. I get lonely, I admit to it, and face up to it till it quietly goes away so it can rear its ugly head again. Feeling lonely is part and parcel of being single and I don't want to kid myself into thinking it doesn't get to me. But I don't think I'm really bothered by it, in a lonely depressed way. More like, it's there, it's natural to feel like that sometimes.

I'd also like to think there's a time for these things, so I don't feel an urgency to rectify it. But sometimes, it feels like there're all these emotions and affection bottled up in me with nowhere to go.

And then you think about or try to imagine fitting someone into your life now, it's also odd to cater your life to another's person's whims and whishes after you've been single for so long.

So I don't dwell on the issue anymore because if every single person could think this through, work it out, and come up with a convincing answer that stops us from feeling a certain way or wishing for something else, we'd all be very happy people.
 
^ Such an awesome post. Thanks vurtomatic

The feeling of 'lonely and incomplete' when you're single also has its parallel in relationships: confinement, indifference, predictability and limited horizons. Obviously you can embrace either situation and make something of it

I like not having an 'easy avenue' for bottled up feeling. I believe this is where growth, creativity and self exploration all come from. Something i see very little of in my long-term-relationship friends

In the end it depends how heavy it weighs on you. Me? I'd rather be hungry than content
 
vurtomatic said:
Actually I think that's more Charlie (and the Chocolate Factory) then Oliver Twist (?) =D
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I should probably go to hell for mixing Dickens and Dahl.

maddog: It's a brave person who says they would prefer to be hungry than content. I definitely wouldn't fall into that category. I think most single people would probably rather be content than dissatisfied- which is why they're single.
 
Hungry is where its at. Go grocery shopping when you're starving and see what your mind does to a simple parsnip. Motivation, inspiration and creativity. God, im kinda hungry right now and its made me think some kind of white sauce, diced parsnip, and sun dried tomatoes with penne pasta

I believe love, relationships and sex are the same thing except a much bigger reality fulcrum.

(im now copy writing the term 'realty fulcrum', if you want to use it you have to pay me 10c - kthxbye)
 
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I am hungry and I am eating the white trashy classic of pasta with tomato sauce. As in ketchup. Also when I go to the supermarket hungry I buy way too much, and the wrong things.
 
Tonight I met a 33 year old I had been chatting with on MSN over the last week or so. When I originally messaged her I had my reservations, mostly about her reservations on dating someone ten years younger. But a couple of weeks later we met in person, which is a first for me and the internet.

As I had expected she rejected me on account of my age. Yet I can't shake this feeling of disappointment. The fact that I haven't had a cigarette since yesterday might not be helping either.

In spite of all this, she's a cool person and certainly worth keeping around. She has hot friends. I just hope her friends closer to my age are just as hot.
 
When I go to the supermarket hungry, I only ever get what I need in that moment, and usually stuff I shouldnt be eating. No regard for eating in the future !
 
I proved to myself again last night that I am a total sucker for a guy wearing glasses. It increases their hotness by about a million percent.

edit: And as of 20 minutes ago I have a date with aforementioned thousand percenter on Saturday. Must. Go. Shopping.
 
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We have a Birthday ball on Sat night for our work. 10 years. Woo.

Anyhow I have a major crush on this guy so i'm planning my attack! We dont work in the same area so its sort of ok. A few champers and i'll be right.. I hope :\ <3
 
up all night said:
I proved to myself again last night that I am a total sucker for a guy wearing glasses. It increases their hotness by about a million percent.

edit: And as of 20 minutes ago I have a date with aforementioned thousand percenter on Saturday. Must. Go. Shopping.
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I'm glad you're good with words; your numerical skills suck :p
 
up all night said:
I proved to myself again last night that I am a total sucker for a guy wearing glasses. It increases their hotness by about a million percent.

edit: And as of 20 minutes ago I have a date with aforementioned thousand percenter on Saturday. Must. Go. Shopping.
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did you go or were you still sick?
 
I rainchecked. Didn't I reply to your message? I thought I did. It sucks, but I'm such a sulky sick person it just wouldn't have gone down well. I need to hide my sulk-fests until at least the fourth date.
 
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