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The singles thread v 'Your VD really scares me'

I dont know if maybe its different where I go out, but even if you dance with a guy they automaticaly expect something out of it.. I kissed a guy out the other weekend, he fucking called my house phone a week and a half later!!! I remember I gave him my email which has my last name on it, i also gave him my spare mobile number. Then me and the girl i was with RAN AWAY from them accross the street cause we thought they were trying to get us to go back to their place and i was slightly scared..
So a week later i answer a call at my house and the person on the other end asked for Lisa, close, but no cigar, he said he met this girl out and he was looking for her blah blah, he lost his phone but remembered some of the email address. So he LOOKED THROUGH THE FUCKING PHONE BOOK AND CALLED ALL THE PPL IN MY AREA WITH THE SAME SIRNAME!!! WTF is with that.
Seriously I attract weirdos! I cant win single or in a r/s
 
Aishas Star said:
I dont know if maybe its different where I go out, but even if you dance with a guy they automaticaly expect something out of it.. I kissed a guy out the other weekend, he fucking called my house phone a week and a half later!!! I remember I gave him my email which has my last name on it, i also gave him my spare mobile number. Then me and the girl i was with RAN AWAY from them accross the street cause we thought they were trying to get us to go back to their place and i was slightly scared..
So a week later i answer a call at my house and the person on the other end asked for Lisa, close, but no cigar, he said he met this girl out and he was looking for her blah blah, he lost his phone but remembered some of the email address. So he LOOKED THROUGH THE FUCKING PHONE BOOK AND CALLED ALL THE PPL IN MY AREA WITH THE SAME SIRNAME!!! WTF is with that.
Seriously I attract weirdos! I cant win single or in a r/s
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Lol... Sounds like sometime away with friends in the Snow next to a fire place with hot chocolate is in order.

The quote "looking for love in all the wrong places" comes to mind.
 
deeCee said:
Do what I do a a fair bit.. Just got out a snog some random people while out dancing, with no real intention of actually going home with someone.. Sometimes you find one that you actually do go home with.. Then you find out she lives in England... Yeah, that was my saturday night
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I think I've fallen into this pattern here. Except the part about England. I seem to have better success with women in Victoria than in Sydney, but then I don't find many Sydney women particularly interesting. I've long harboured the notion that I live in the wrong city, except I happen to have everything I need in this one.

The ex and I broke off contact a couple of weeks ago now. It was time. We parted on good terms. I think I only kept her around because I wanted someone to lavish that kind of attention on, but she wasn't the only one. And now I haven't done it to anyone since and I haven't felt particularly lonely because of it.
 

The plot to steal Sydney women

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Acting the part ... the Sydney stereotypes include (from left) Omar the muscle-bound party promoter (Daniel Garofali), Hamish the banker (Lachlan McWilliam) and Caleb the fashion type (Michael Price).

Caroline Marcus
May 31, 2009

STEALING the most eligible women in NSW is the aim of an underground campaign funded by the Victorian Government.

Tourism Victoria's bold new message is that single Sydney females should head south if they want to meet men with style and substance.

The viral online campaign, titled Melbourne Match, features videos of actors playing four Sydney stereotypes "auditioning" for dates with women.

There's a surfie who hoots and toots about wanting a long-term relationship over winter, a muscle-bound big mouth still living with his mum, an effeminate fashion worker who likes being "out" and a corporate stiff obsessed with status symbols.

The last of the casting calls, named Hamish and wearing a shiny tie, sells himself as such: "I think a woman should be like a good portfolio - diversified and resilient to depreciation."

They are the creations of "brand experience" agency Play Communications, which Tourism Victoria has enlisted to entice NSW women.

The concept also involves eight high-profile Sydney women, including radio jockette Bianca Dye and The Sun-Herald's own Shelly Horton and Glynis Traill-Nash, flying to Melbourne for cultural dates with 10 creative types, including an art director, a freelance journalist and cafe owner.

Campaign publicist Belinda Aucott said the idea was a light-hearted play on the perceived "man recession" in Sydney.

"There is definitely an inference, especially across the viral campaign, that there tends to be a higher gay population here in Sydney and that the men here can tend to be a little bit more focused on business and finance," Ms Aucott said. "Without making blanket statements, there is a feeling in Melbourne that conversation is a bit deeper."

Tourism Victoria communications manager Laura Cavallo would not disclose the cost of the campaign, while a spokeswoman for NSW Tourism Minister Jodi McKay said Ms McKay thought it "inappropriate" to comment.

The ratio of single men to women in Melbourne and Sydney is nearly equal. In 2006, there were 238,355 single men aged 20-34 in Sydney, compared with 217,059 in Melbourne. That equates to 0.88 men for every single Sydney woman, while further south, the ratio is 0.89.

Dye, who split from boyfriend Alex Dean a year ago, said she became so disillusioned with Sydney's dating scene she accepted a date from her taxi driver: "You date enough dickheads in a row, you think, 'Someone out there has got to be normal."'

Sun-Herald columnist Sam de Brito laughed off the idea Melbourne men were more creative.

"Isn't that an analogy for he's never done a push-up and wears a skivvy?" he said.

While Sydney men may be accused of harbouring an obsession for money, job postings on employment website mycareer.com.au show Melburnians actually earn more.

The Age
 
Melbourne can have our women. About 80% of them fall into similar categories. If their women aren't good enough for them they can send them our way.

Sydney - city of superficiality.
 
gher said:
Melbourne can have our women. About 80% of them fall into similar categories. If their women aren't good enough for them they can send them our way.

Sydney - city of superficiality.
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Spoken like a true, bitter, twisted Singles Thread dweller. :D

I like the men in Sydney. Well, the ones I know. Well, some of the ones I know. ;)

I was having a few drinks Saturday afternoon with my friend who is thinking about moving to Melbourne because, 'The gay scene in Sydney is full of gay people and I like wearing jackets.'

Sage words, my friend, sage words indeed.
 
Whilst trying to find somewhere to drink at 5 in the morning we went into a gay club on Oxford Street and I got my arse touched like 14 times after walking a few metres. Why the hell can't I grope chicks like that at a normal club?
 
I've been single for a few months now, had an on and off relationship with a friend. Pretty complicated, hard to work out, but stupidly enough, she still likes me and I'd probably go back for more :S She is my ideal girl except for her problems. Smart, laughs at my lame jokes, better taste in music than me, loves to party but also loves to stay in, and cuddles are a guarantee... Though, she is leaving to travel overseas for the next year.

Though, I'd like to find something uncomplicated for once!
 
lostpunk5545 said:
Whilst trying to find somewhere to drink at 5 in the morning we went into a gay club on Oxford Street and I got my arse touched like 14 times after walking a few metres. Why the hell can't I grope chicks like that at a normal club?
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You probably wouldn't want the chicks who would let you grope all their arses at straight clubs. What the hell kind of straight club lets that happen?

deeCee said:
Bah, the previous mentioned lady that lives in England has 3 kids!
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I'd go a single mother, as long as she was emotionally stable.
 
I think she is pretty sane, just need to find out what the baggage exactly entails.. and also how many fathers am I dealing with lol!
 
Well i always said this was my favorite thread... be careful what you wish for hey - just had the most vicious breakup ive ever experienced (and ever will) in my life... so many lessons learnt and so much growth... if it seems to good to be true it probably is ... hi :)
 
Hi mate. <3. Things always get better in time. Or so my folks say. Being so far away from loved ones stinks. :p. Its ok for a while but not forever.
 
Back in this thread after leaving it only a few months ago, having not had a partner in 2 years.

A bad few weeks... bad noise, screaming, trust destroyed on both sides. Not helped by a traumatic experience we both went through having a lot more impact on both of us than we had realised.

It culminated in us trying to go out as friends (after she drinks a lot of Vodka)... so we get to dinner, she's nearly passed out, we order... she's absolutely gone, food arrives, she manages one bite before I have pay the bill, take her home and put her to bed.

She is, and always will be, the love of my life. However, she has some serious psychological issues which she needs to deal with before we can entertain the idea of a relationship again (her call in that regard, not mine... I love her and want to support her anyway).

So yeha... I'm back to being alone again.
 
I got the lets just be mates off this girl from work... well.. one down, 3 more still on the run ;)
 
Is there a prize for being single for ten years? O HI I JUST WON IT :D

It's cool, fucking is good. Being single is horrible when your head's not in the right place, but it can be the best thing ever when your head IS in the right place. :)
 
I just got a call from my sister, whose mate had just finished building a beautiful house with her husband. She has a daughter who is 16 from a previous marriage. She had raised the daughter with no child support from the father in all that time as he "officially" had no income.

First, the daughter moved into her real dad's house as he let her stay at her boyfriends overnight and her mum did not let her. So the dad now is going for child support from the mum and will get away with it as she has a legitimate job. Hardly fair since he never put in a cent in 16 years.

Then, turns out her current husband has been having an affair for the last 3 months, confessed and just wants to be friends.

Things get bloody difficult when shit goes down in established, long term relationships.

Being single like Raz does sound like a better idea than the whole nuclear family and white picket fence thing. :\


I would not want to be my sister's friend right now, what a pile of crap she has to deal with. :p
 
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