The singles thread v 'Your VD really scares me'

[UnSquare]

Thank You

Oh babe, that's horrible. I hope you guys can have a proper conversation and talk things through. The way she's left things sounds very up-in-the-air and will leave you confused for a long time to come. You need to be given the chance to heal and understand where it went wrong for her.

Busty and I send all of our love and support. You're an amazing person with or without her. Remember that, B.

Thank You Both.
Means heaps

But I pretty fuckin' sureshot she's out.

Once she's made a decision...
...an' she did talk...

I'll still get the 5-7 month holla...
An' turn away.

It's so predictable it's epitaph.


UnS

 

[Benefit]

I think I shall go out an' fuck a random.
Or a friend that'll hand out benefits.
No, not James.

We can just cuddle if you're not ready for the next step.

Sorry to hear about all that, etc.

 

[preacha]

Yeah, I shouldn't have bumped this thread.
Sorry dude.

 

[Samadhi]

I'm so sad to hear that, B.

I'm sending all my to you across the airwaves.

 

[IXinX]

^ deecee & unsquare


x2


stay %)

 

[Doppelganger]

hmmm... guess I have to reluctantly add myself to the list of recent bluelight break ups too

The new year is not off to a good start.

 

[m4dd0g]

Wow - sorry to hear all the bad news peeps

Things really are very back to front. Im actually quite infatuated with a girl which happens once every 5 yrs or so for me

...but singles thread die hards dont panic! It all comes to a screaming halt in a few weeks when i leave the country for good

 

[ashstorm]

hey guys n girls, still single, but met an absolutely Kick ass BLigher in Brissy on NYE, she ticks quite a few boxes.

Only a few....

/glare

 

[Innocuous]

...but did you get to put a tick in her box?

 

[blind_injustice]

Yea, we had to go to the doctors to get it removed though...... :S

 

[ashstorm]

Just the idea of that is making me flinch

 

[zephyr]

hallo singles, hows it going?

Being single is pretty scary at times, when you know what you want especially and that is to be eventually with someone you are compatible with and get married and have kids etc etc.

Having been married, I can say that that is what I want, minus the drugs and general non healthy bullshit that ended my first attempt.

I am going to have to admit to being a bit lost at how to achieve what I want and cant really make things happen the way I want without an agreeable partner.

I know what I dont want and thats a series of short term bullshit relationships with people who I know deep down will not end up being permanent. Its annoying and heartbreaking.

So without further ado, I got engaged to a complete stranger called Allan whom I have not met and we are getting married as soon as we do meet. Saves the bullshit, cant be bothered with the "getting to know you" rubbish dating actually is only to find out months later he was not the person he was portraying in the beginning anyway.

Cant wait to tell my mum and Ill just chuck on my old wedding dress.

:D

 

[deeCee]

Im petty sad.. don't know why I did it.. But yesterday I texted my ex asking if she got what she wanted from breaking up and that it doesnt have to be like this.

how much more pain do i want to put myself through, it was bad enough meeting one of the most physically attractive people I have met on the weekend, only to say I cant go back to her place cause I need to go home. *WTF?!?!*

The ex replied, she doesn't want to be in a relationship and she still hasn't got the time to herself she wanted.

 

[fortehlulz]

I lived with my ex/fiance for 2 years. We broke up as I was putting in long hours at work, and she wanted to party more... so she left me, and promptly did party more. Partied so hard she was pregnant within two months. She's still with the guy, last I heard, he was unemployed and living off her. I saw a pic of her the other day. She's aged about 10 years in the 18 months since I've seen her.

Recently, after 18 months of self imposed single exile after previous heartbreak, I sorta fell for someone again, after 9 months of cat and mouse. We are both at very different places career wise and yet we click, big time. However, owing to issues both of us have, its not happening at the moment, and probably won't. I've sort of descended into a little bit of a self destruction spiral over the last couple of weeks. Heartbreak again. Win.

Now I remember why being single works for me.

 

[up all night]

I'm trying to work out if I need to tell him I previously dated someone in his extended group of friends. Actually, I'm really trying to figure out if it matters. Would you guys bring it up?

 

[kryalkastleE]

UnSq - thats so terrible to hear i missed this thread when it happens. Hope your is healing quick.

And Deecee - i know your poor heart is broken, i hope that this is for the best, im so sad because you guys were so cute together, but i know you will find someone and make them very happy

 

[drugfukkdrockstar]

Would you guys bring it up?

I personally would, as it's always good to start a relationship being up front. Also it saves them finding out through someone else and then feeling confused on why you never told them.

 

[zephyr]

god you people have no imagination. Except Unsquare.

 

[drugfukkdrockstar]

^Why's that?

 

[NickyJ]

Yeah, tell him Yarn Balls. It doesn't matter, but some people might think it does for some strange reason so just go ahead and deal with it straight up.