thanks jamshyd.
eDDe9, I have some issues with you just generalising about women of a particular ethnic background as if they were cattle. I am a heterosexual male and probably a chauvinist pig deep down, but I do what I can not to let it dominate my actions... anyway i think one cannot generalise.. sure, some thais aren't that beautiful, but others are. perhaps vietnamese faces are generally a bit sharper and narrower... generally... but I find that once I love someone, looks become secondary and to me they're the most beautiful person, and it's an energy thing. Like... some bargirls, for instance, are STUNNING looking.. but if I get close to them and and feel their vibe, I just feel like naaaah, no thanks. I'd have to be well off my face on stims and alcohol to enjoy the presence of most of those, that's how soulless they are.
anyway, I am writing to recommend a book to you, if you are so into Vietnam and Vietnamese women:
it's called "Fall to Grace" ... stunning reading, I couldn't put it down, and this happens to me only rarely. Touches something deep inside of me, this book, so much so that I ordered a few copies for the school library where i work to make it available to teenagers in my country.
www.falltograce.com