This one actually woke me at 3am. Well, with the help of my bladder:
A spooky connection.
First you dreamed about Sinead O connor.
>>> Inflo was woken up by vivid dream, involving your dream about Sinead.
>>Now you are woken up in the same way by another related vivid dream.
Sammy_G said:
I'm getting married (yes, I know, but it's a fucking dream), and I'm at a gathering which I guess is some kind of semi-subdued sort of stag night. Without the daft stuff, but with more booze.
I didn't actually see my wife-to-be at any point, but I know she was called Lavinia. Toward the end of the night, when the booze had made me sentimental, I started to panic about the whole thing. I didn't want to get married after all, and didn't really love poor Lavinia. The only reason I could think of for marrying her was that I loved to say her name in tortuously drawn-out fashion: 'La-viii-nnnyah', or 'La-vin-ee-ah', depending on the occasion. I ended up in tears at what a bastard I was, but still pleading with my unimpressed mates "Don't you understand? 'La-vinnnn-yah'. See?".
Make sense of that one, raasy. I fucking well can't.
EDIT: And sorry, Lavinia. Just wasn't meant to be.
Sammy, your dreams fascinate me because they are all intrinsically connected. Sadly that connection always seems to involve you being some kind of bad influence to woman. I hope you don't find me judgemental in my interpretations, but there's simply no other way to interpret you telling nice girls like Rihanna to have "bad sex and drink ale", lying about marriage, lecherous sinead etc etc the theme is always the same.... you never have dreams where you're being a real saviour to woman, now do you? if they did, my interpretation would suggest as such.
The meaning of this latest dream is very striking for me. Again, connected to the other dreams you posted to paint a clearer picture of your problem.
In this dream, marriage symbolises a spiritual relationship - something special, spiritual, religious even. You didn't see your wife to be, because this spirituality doesn't exist in you. The booze represents truth, and drinking it exposes the truth. The truth is then revealed, that this spiritual relationship is insincere.
This dream is citing your relationships with woman - where you try to be caring and uphold spirituality, as somewhat a sham and insincere. Even though you are trying to be sincere in the dream (Commiting to marriage) the truth comes out, that it simply doesn't work with you... and you only care about trivial issues such as the pronunciation of her name.
If we can regress, then connect this to your other dreams, we can look for causes to this eventuality:
Sammy_g said:
rihann -
. She was really lovely to me and (this is how dreams distort things) very intelligent and articulate. The locals were unaware of her star status, and I taught her all about real ale and bad sex.
She was lovely, intelligent, articulate... you were teaching her about bad sex / ale. This portrays you as a bad influence; a disturbance to womans spirituality.
Sammy_g said:
The first one: I reach to pick a lighter up off my bedroom floor, and discover that the floor is covered in an inch of oily blue liquid. I was still semi-conscious during this dream, so the dread of having to attempt a clean-up operation was still with me when I awoke
The house/bedroom resembles you, the oily liquid is some kind of guilt inside of you - accrued from your spiritual disturbances to woman. Your dread of clearing it up, shows that you are unwilling to face up to it
And then...
Sammy_g said:
The only reason I could think of for marrying her was that I loved to say her name in tortuously drawn-out fashion: 'La-viii-nnnyah', or 'La-vin-ee-ah', depending on the occasion. I ended up in tears at what a bastard I was, but still pleading with my unimpressed mates "Don't you understand? 'La-vinnnn-yah'. See?".
Then. because you have not cleared this "oil" (Sin, ill-desires) relationships you form with other woman, are void of the care you should have (Marriage representing care/sprituality here) . You're semi conscious here, because you are being shown the dreams symbolisation to be a relevance to real life, as they cross over.
The dreams are saying to you that there is shame and guilt you must clear, and without facing up to it... it is effecting your relationships with all other woman. The relationships are all shams - Like your supposed marriage.
This is not a good state to be in, symbolised by your friends condemning it: "
still pleading with my unimpressed mates "Don't you understand?"
Face that wrongdoing, and clear it. Else all your future relationships will be void of spirituality.
Sammy_G said:
EDIT: And sorry, Lavinia.
.... Lavinia. "Love in you"...? Is that what its getting at?
