You did it!
Hope you're having a great day sweetie. I'm experiencing a small cold
Today was better. But for me, emotionally, night-time is always the worst.. so we'll see. Sorry you're sick, sweetie. I hope you feel better soon.
You did it!
Hope you're having a great day sweetie. I'm experiencing a small cold
Just want to mention, the support from this thread and others, gave me the courage to reach out to someone for my problem. Went to a meeting last night for the first time, had a great heart to heart with a close family friend who has been through a similar situation. Just wanted to say thanks!
thanks bro! It is indeed. Feelin just as hopeful on day one as I do now. So fuckin stoked to be free of these chains.That's awesome, @pmczilla! I'm so glad to hear it. Sounds like a big weight off your shoulders. Congrats.
thanks bro! It is indeed. Feelin just as hopeful on day one as I do now. So fuckin stoked to be free of these chains.
Oh yes.. the guilt.. I can relate to that 100%.That is an amazing feeling. I know for myself, the moment I was able to let go of all the shame and guilt I felt reborn. I don't know about anyone else, but I always felt an intense amount of guilt in using. Now that I don't use, I only feel guilty for existential nonsense with the way I was raised.
I am almost 30 days (23 to be exact) clean from a nasty opiate habit. I quit cold turkey with no help, just moral support. Minus body aches, I'm basically past all of the physical withdrawal symptoms. But I am FUCKED mentally. I was depressed with extreme anxiety before, but this is a whole new beast. I'm on depression medicine and anxiety medicine.. but I still have this horrible, horrible feeling inside. I'm sad. I'm pissed off. I want to use. I feel like I have no purpose. Etc. Etc. Etc. It comes and goes, but is dominant in my life.. especially at night. I DON'T want to relapse, but my mind is telling me it's the only thing that will help. I know an adjustment of my medications may be the answer but obviously that isn't what my mind is telling me. Help.. How long will this last? What can I do? I feel like my family is getting tired of me; I heard my sister make a nasty "she's always so pissed off" comment yesterday. I'm just.. Sigh..
to the OP- this feeling you are feeling... its what I would always experience after getting clean and would be the reason id relapse, countless times it would happen
unfortunately the depression will not go away for months, actualy many people say after 2 years is when people simply start to feel A LITTLE BIT BETTER
Im backon suboxone maintenance so I don't have to deal with that crippling depression, believe me Ive tried so many times but just couldn't live. What kind of life is being depressed 24/7? Just think "oh it get better some day" fuck that thats no way to live imho.. so OP just my personal advice, get on a suboxone maintenance program
I hope so..^^^It so does erode the sanity. It took me a solid year to start having motivation again. Even now at a year and a half I still have days that the anxiety and fear gets to me. It does get better so hold on!
i hate to admit it but this was true fr me as well when i quit methadone..16 months after i quit and i was still tired, depressed and just lifeless..i was being told to just keep fighting it and im like ugghh..feeling like that just erodes your sanity..
It's not all bad but my good days are only when I am able to accept that my new reality is this deflated, unmotivated, anhedonic world.. I am finding it harder and harder to just accept this reality everyday. I need somebody... Words of encouragement... Hope... a pat on the back.. I don't know? I really need a window soon. Love you guys...
-Somni
Acceptance is key somni. It is going to take a while to get back to being motivated, as well as finding enjoyment without drugs. Think about it. It took twelve years of balls to the walls use to get you where you were. It is going to take more than a year to get back to where you want to be. I will say this though, I have a year and six months and I am quite a more motivated man than I was six months ago. It gets better with time and hard work. One thing that has really helped me is doing something I love everyday. Having the routine of doing things you dislike (working, dealing with exes, paying bills etc) is only acceptable when you get into a positive routine (working out, watering a garden, writing a journal etc). Having the time in the morning that is just my own, in which I stand in my garden and recognize the beauty I have fostered lends happiness and motivation to my days. I do my gardening between five and seven AM, and it sets me up for a good day.
Just keep plugging along and it will come to you. You are incredibly smart, and compassionate, these traits will aid you in becoming whole again.
-chef
Something that seemed to help me was when I came to terms with the fact I loved drugs. I am not suggesting that will woek for you, because it was the way I came to terms with it that seemed to help, not simply the realization I loved drugs (cause that was pretty obvious already). But taking the steps to ensure I could continue using, just as long as it was in a safe, externally regulated way that held me accountable (in my case, it was a really anally strict methadone clinic, which as you may imagine eventually drove me crazy with all their rules, but ut kinda worked out because it motivated me so strongly to get off of it). What is your DOC again?
Basically what I am trying to say is try and find some external support system and motivation, and in the mean time try your best to be kind and gentle with yourself until then.