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lostNfound said:
Yes, Although it was more group sex than a threesome.

At the beginning it felt awkward for myself (being the 5th wheel with 2 other MF couples).
It wasn't planned or anything, tail end of a weekend of debauchery with everyone coming down horny as hell I suppose and for some reason 2 of the girls were in my bedroom. They were getting real touch feely started kissing etc and both went down on me with their boyfriends in the lounge room. One of them disappeared to grab the guys, I blew as they walked in the door and they had a laugh and it went from pretty smoothly from there.

Everyone was cool with it. Was good times.

I was surprised with my mates bi side that I didn't know about, I don't go that way and we left each other alone.
Amazing what you can achieve when all parts trust and mutually respect each other.

This was repeated again once without one of the other dudes.


What are your thoughts on things like chocolate body paint, whipped cream etc etc
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I have utmost respect for you and your friends with the open-mindedness and lack of judgement :)
I can only wish my friend's would be into that but they'd probably be like "ewww homo, the fuck is wrong with you"! I'm not asking a heterosexual male to suddenly become bisexual (I wouldn't go down the bi route) but it would be nice if more people had the open-minded view that you and your friends had.

I have actually had 2 threesomes before , both was 2 males and a gal. I didn't do anything homosexual, but as soon as some of my friends found out they were like "LOL U R GAY NAO" and I just sighed.
Admittedly, I have had fleeting bisexual thoughts as a younger man which I have to admit, did actually scare me and had me panicking for a bit (solely because I wouldn't have been able to accept the judgement, scorn and hassle that would come with my potentially coming out), but I now realise it was merely a young pubescent confused period of adolescent promiscuity. In terms of a homosexual experience, when it comes down to it I couldn't come down on it ;)

MY last question still stands btw in my last post (and in answer to yours, I haven't actually ever engaged in culinary eroticism! I certainly would though, but to be honest it doesn't really do that much for me....i'd rather get covered head to toe and messy in bodily fluids like her cum than chocolate tbh!
 
A: dirty talk
Anything really (texts, on the phone when you're close to seeing each other, or whisper straight up in her ear when you're in public) - that you love to be inside her, or the way it feels when you are, things you wanna do to her - I find a lot of it's in the tone of voice - deep & quiet but masculinely bassy - spoken slowly and juicily, to quickly and energetically, and back & forth til you get all touchy feely - like the action of sex lol.

Q: could you not have PM'ed that??^

lol OK that's not my question - have you ever questioned your sexuality to the point where you think you need to fuck the other sex to find out?? If so, divulge.
 
No, I've had fun with girls when I was younger and occasionally I really fancy a particular girl or fantasise about the way women feel or taste, but I just love men and cock waaay too much ;)

I also wanted to chip in re dirty talk - it really depends on the type of sex - if it's at least slightly abusive/BDSM sex you can always say that she's your gorgeous whore, and tell her how well she's taking that cock, how much she pleases you, say she's a "good girl" for sucking you well, or as you put her on her back tell her you are going to fuck her now, you'll be going slowly but you're not going to stop so she'd better relax and take you in like a good bitch... sorry I'm twisted like this but even typing it turns me on!! Otherwise you can stop while you're eating her and tell her how delicious she is, or what Jblazing says, or if you're into 3some fantasies talk about how one day you're going to do (whatever it is you're doing to her) while making her suck another man, how you'll enjoy watching her, etc.

And my question: have you ever done or fantasised about gender transgression? For example, if you're a man being made to dress like a woman or fucked with a dildo/forced feminised, or if you're a woman have you ever wanted to do these kinds of things to a man?
 
sure. if i was with somebody i loved and trusted, i'd definitely be open to trying that kind of stuff out.

there was a thread in slr a long time ago - it's probably in the archive - asking if guys would let their lady do them in the butt. let me see if i can find it... later... i found it: Ok so how many of you guys would let your woman....

have you ever called a partner by the wrong name during sex? ever been called by the wrong name? big deal or just one of those things?

alasdair
 
No. Hahahaha :) luckily - I would be really pissed off if that ever happened, and embarrassed if I ever did it - just goes to show you probably shouldn't be in bed with that other person, though, aye?

Have you ever gone on the internet forum JUST to meet someone for sex? If so - tell us about it (if it's more than once, well...take your pick of the juiciest - except you Lola ;) just kidding).
 
^ hey, I have to say the only time I went on a "casual sex" website just for me (e.g. not when I go with bf on craigslist to get some guy to join us) I had a terrible not sexy time! Basically met this guy who seemed ok and not bad looking, but when we kissed he had bad breath, and when we go to his I realised he's been holding his stomach in the whole evening and now it was spilling out, and he was also extremely hairy everywhere... yikes! Then he put on some awful music (along the lines of Phil Collins) and I thought to hell with it, I'm here so might as well try to get an orgasm out of this... so I started by giving him head and he came after like 3 minutes... I promptly got my things and left, feeling like I have truly wasted my evening :)

Is there anyone in your immediate or extended family you find sexually attractive?
 
no, i barely tolerate most of my family let alone find them attractive. altho several gay friends have told me that they are attracted to my dad and guys constantly say my sister is hot.

have you ever traded sex (or a sexual act) for money, drugs or some other commodity?
 
Yes, kinda. There was a girl who was obsessed with me for a while and had 7g of nice hash and said "yeah I can give it to you for free if you want babe" but I knew there was obviously a price. We met up, she gave me the hashish and then sat on my lap and we inevitably fucked.
A few times with that same girl actually, she would buy loads of booze/drugs and ask if I wanted to come and hang out with her. I was skint at the time....she was getting what she wanted, I was getting what I wanted so it was all good. We both knew what it was.

Do you like music playing whilst having sex and does it turn you on and set the mood for you? If so, what music do you like most?
 
I like to listen to gangster rap while I masturbate and pretend I am a black man.

Do you find orgasming sober to be a waste compared to while inebriated on your DOC?
 
I prefer sex sober. I have multiple orgasms. It takes me longer to have one if I am not.
I think the sex I had while high or drunk without an orgasm was a waste.

Have you ever used an object other than a sex toy during masturbation or sex?
 
Yeah - many things including bananas, a deodorant bottle, a wine bottle, carrots, chocolate bars, hairbrush handle...yada yada yada - these objects cover both parties.

What's your favourite pain for pleasure indulgence, if you have one?
 
i like most any pain mixed in with sex. i really like having my nipples bit, pinched and twisted the most. but i also like other sensations like hair pulling, spanking, whipping and so on.

what do you think of women (or men) who after having sex, decide to "take back" their virginity and refer to themselves as virgins again?
 
animal_cookie said:
what do you think of women (or men) who after having sex, decide to "take back" their virginity and refer to themselves as virgins again?
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Call the cops on fakers. That should be illegal.

Should people be forced to track and submit to monitoring of sexual activity to prevent the spread of disease?
 
No. It's nobody's business but theirs how they deal with it.

If they give a disease to someone else without knowing - shit happens, if they have a disease and have sex, then we should presume they're honourable and will take proper precautions to prevent transmission.

Otherwise we are not free, and natural selection is taken out of the picture.

Have you ever had an STD?
 
no thank god I have never had a STD..


If your best friend were to ask you to join them and there S/O would you do it?
 
Jblazingphoenix100 said:
Yeah - many things including bananas, a deodorant bottle, a wine bottle, carrots, chocolate bars, hairbrush handle...yada yada yada - these objects cover both parties.

What's your favourite pain for pleasure indulgence, if you have one?
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I love when I'm bend over, spread wide and stretched with a strong mans fingers and fist. A few slashes with Cat o' nine tails just to insure I'm a "good little girl" is always nice.


Would you rather be wanted or loved?
 
^Not generally, but every once in awhile. I don't get into that much, but with the right person, it can be pretty hot - especially if they pull my hair. :)

What is your greatest unrealized sexual fantasy? Details, please.
 
having sexual intercourse with a woman.

What was your most disappointing fantasy you ever realized?
 
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