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***SLR Q & A Thread!***

Probably about 10 seconds - I was real excited and seriously embarrassed - I hadn't had that happen in about 4 years!

What kind of language do you use to describe sexual things in everyday life - straight up anatomical, slang, or euphemisms?
 
Jblazingphoenix100 said:
What kind of language do you use to describe sexual things in everyday life - straight up anatomical, slang, or euphemisms?
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Clinical textbook. Eg, my penis is engorged because that girls mammaries giggle when she walks.

Do people kissing in public make you uncomfortable?
 
No! I never really got people who did until I saw that Sex and the City episode where Miranda tries being honest with a guy about how to give her an orgasm and he just doesn't get it, so she goes back to faking because it's just easier! :)

In all honesty - who gives you the best orgasms? Your right (or left) hand or your SO?
 
Well its definitely SO if I'm dating someone. Otherwise its left hand.

Why do women get so self conscious when the guy is thinner than they are?
 
I don't get self conscious. It helps that I am not fat, I suppose. I prefer my man weigh more and have more muscle than me. He should be able to carry me in case of emergency or during sex.

How do you deal with a partner who has a mental illness?
 
Perpetual Indulgence said:
How do you deal with a partner who has a mental illness?
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Getting them help, focusing on making your needs are being met, making sure my partner's needs are met. Being patient and ready to listen at any time.

It is extremely difficult for me to watch a loved one go through psychotic behavior, thoughts, etc. And it is sometimes so devastating all I can do is walk away and collect my thoughts.

wizekrak said:
Why do women get so self conscious when the guy is thinner than they are?
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Because women have a greater expectation on them to be the thin one. It is a normal byproduct of today's fashion and entertainment industries.

Also, because generally, women are typically more physically active later in life, and men are more physicallly active earlier in life.

There may also be a sense of "he is so perfect, I'm not in his league, is he still going to want to be with me because of that?" In her mind. A lot of women have a lot of doubt when it comes to their natural beauty.

Men can go through the same thing thinking "she's perfect, I'll never find another girl/another girl this hot..." but I think these are normal phases people go through when developing a comfortable, suitable self-identity.

lola said:
In all honesty - who gives you the best orgasms? Your right (or left) hand or your SO?
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My S.O. does. Both hands comes in second. =D
 
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Jblazingphoenix100 said:
loved without a doubt - who gives a shit about being wanted if you're not with someone who gets you.

Do you like to be spanked? If so, like how?
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I was just wondering for a long time and still sometimes I would rather be wanted. But today I agree...loved is best....tomorrow now that's another story ;)

I thought I liked to be spanked until my husband started reading about Domestic Displine....it hurts...but I do feel better after. Not as tense and aggravate...it really does help to relief stress.

I like no panties either a T-shirt or skirt/blouse. Bent over his knee. He has never used anything other than his hand to spank me with. He says that way he can tell just how hard the spank was.
 
Lisa775 said:
no thank god I have never had a STD..


If your best friend were to ask you to join them and there S/O would you do it?
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No, jealousy can be an ugly thing and I just don't think certain things could be gotten past...at least with us anyway.

Is it cheating if you have sex with someone of the same gender and you are straight? (I would love love love to try having sex with a girl but I wouldn't want my hubby even watching. I don't think I would be jealous if he wanted to have sex with a man but another girl...whole different story)
 
^ GRRRRRRRRR - QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS!!! I couldn't give a fuck if you agree - stop derailing my fucking thread!

AHEM.

Favourite sex toy? This g-spot egg vibrator - used it on my ex, and wow it made her squirt in less than 5 minutes from dry - amazing. She still got it I found out a few weeks ago.

How old were you when you first had sex? Describe the encounter :p

(Thundercatkp that's hot!)
 
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Oh i'm quite sorry.
I forgot who's thread this was, didn't know that i wasn't allowed to post in certain forums.
probably never gon happen.
 
13yrs old. It was oral 69 in the bedroom at my grandmother's house with the neighbor boy. I had no idea what we were doing but I loved it. We would also go in the back room to play video games in the dark. This time things just moved a little different. I don't remember how but my pants got down and his did too. Lots of licking. He could have gotten me to do anything...I had such a crush on him and he knew it.

How old were you when you started really fantasizing about sex? I think I was aound 6 yrs old...really.
 
4... 3 of which in ltr, the first one a broken heart when I was 14.

Are there any parts of your body your SO isn't allowed near? I think there is nowhere I wouldn't let him lick, nibble etc. but my friend hates anyone going near her feet or belly, so it got me curious.
 
One year and counting, two years in my last open relationship, never been happier and we're very committed to each other and very much in love. My monogamous relationships (5 year and 4 years) never felt this fulfilling. It's not easy and takes a lot of communication, but it can really bring you closer together.

Would you have sex with a distant relative? For example, your uncle's wife (or ex), father's cousin, something like that?
 
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