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***SLR Q & A Thread!***

I've made a few girls squirt - 3 to be precise - 2 intentionally and one I had no idea until the friction disappeared when I was riding her! <3 (awesome)

What percentage of the people you've slept with you would (purely based on the quality of the sex) you not think twice about sleeping with again? - Approximately of course.
 
usually more of a mess than it is sexy. altho if i was with a partner who really enjoyed it, i could prolly deal with it.

have you ever been in a long distant relationship? did it work out? i am curious since this is fourth or fifth time my husband and i haven't been living in the same state. except i plan on remedying the situation sooner than the last one.

its mostly due to one of us being in school and the other having a job somewhere else or vice versa.
 
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Your HUSBAND?!?! Why's this?! Yeah I been in a couple of "long distance" relationships - from between 45 miles to 140 miles - they didn't work out...but this was mainly because they were pretty naive and young relationships (except the last one), mostly not the distance thing.

Have you ever had great sex with someone you didn't actually find particularly physically attractive? Elucidate.
 
No, I've never had sex with someone I wasn't in a serious relationship with (or didn't get into shortly after). Only two guys. I thought my ex was attractive at the time but our sex was only "Meh". My bf is quite attractive and quite good at sex sooo :p

Next question:
Have you ever tried a threesome? Or group sex? (Or something of the sort?) How did it work out? If not, would you like to try it? Elaborate :)
 
Yes, Although it was more group sex than a threesome.

At the beginning it felt awkward for myself (being the 5th wheel with 2 other MF couples).
It wasn't planned or anything, tail end of a weekend of debauchery with everyone coming down horny as hell I suppose and for some reason 2 of the girls were in my bedroom. They were getting real touch feely started kissing etc and both went down on me with their boyfriends in the lounge room. One of them disappeared to grab the guys, I blew as they walked in the door and they had a laugh and it went from pretty smoothly from there.

Everyone was cool with it. Was good times.

I was surprised with my mates bi side that I didn't know about, I don't go that way and we left each other alone.
Amazing what you can achieve when all parts trust and mutually respect each other.

This was repeated again once without one of the other dudes.


What are your thoughts on things like chocolate body paint, whipped cream etc etc
 
^ that was already asked... ;)

like animal_cookie, i'm not into it because A. it's messy and B. (most importantly) i like the way my partner tastes without it. :)

how do you maintain your nether regions (trim, wax, shave, etc)?
 
I waxed once. I loved it, but fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck it hurt! I stick to shaving. I shave her bald. :)

If someone offered you $1000 to cheat on your partner, would you do it? Would you tell your partner? Or would you keep it from him/her?
 
would i be able to tell my husband first? i don't he would care that much unless it was someone i was emotionally attracted to. i suppose it would also depend on what the person wanted to do. but if my husband was ok with it, i guess it wouldn't really be cheating...

what is your favorite non-sexual thing to do with your SO?
 
anything physical (lifting weights, kayaking, hiking etc)


if your partner cheated on you, would you try and salvage the relationship?
 
I'd end it asap. If it happens once, its liable to happen again. I wouldn't take chances with that. Plus it's such a great blow to your trust, I feel like I'd always have doubts about them.

Whats the biggest turn-on for you?
 
I have this really weird attraction to smart men with some kind of power. It's hard to explain, but I've dated some social nerds that are just so attractive to me because they are so damn smart and they are in some position of power. They are probably a little arrogant..ok, maybe a lot..lol but I love it.

Would you rather ok, so-so sex every day or mindblowing awesome sex that only came once a month?
 
mindblowing awesome sex that only came once a month. so-so sex usually just leaves me feeling incredibly frustrated and emotional (in a bad way), and then i start to do dumb shit like start fights or other regretful actions.



have you ever snooped in your SO's stuff? did you find anything? would you be pissed if they did it to you?
 
i have glanced at his email when its open on the screen, otherwise no. tho i think it mildly annoys my husband that i know his passwords. but he has yet to make new ones. i would never log into any of his accounts with the intent to snoop on him.

would you ever watch a porn with your SO? elaborate on your answer :)
 
Would and have, for fun and during sex. Regular videos, chicks on live webcam, etc.

Would you let your significant other piss on you if it was their fetish?
 
lol... uhm, i can't believe i'm admitting to this... :D but i have been on the receiving and giving end of "water works". he's asked me again playfully/half-serious several times since and i doubt i'd do it again unless i'm very inebriated or he's VERY hydrated. the urine smell after a night of heavy drinking was not nice. :\

what are you thoughts regarding anal?
 
anal is only good at the right time. it should never be forced, but when it's right, it works great. i've never asked for anal, i've only been asked to give anal. typically during a marathon, rowdy, amazing sex session where we were both very much at ease with eachother. it was always great timing. guys that beg for anal will only be disappointed with the "end" result.

have you ever finger banged your own asshole?
 
Number one turn-off is finding out the girl has a boyfriend half-way through. This has happened a couple of times now and it's an instant mood-killer for me.

What the hell do people (you) say when you do dirty talk?! That's something I have never done....have tried, but failed as I just found it to be cheesy, fake-sounding and bullshit, regardless of how good the sex was. I dunno....I'd like to be able to say something hot and sexy in a woman's ear before/during bed but I really have no idea. I mean....I have an idea, but I just feel really ridiculous saying it!
So yeah, what's your idea of dirty talk? (hintz'n'tipz plz thx lol)
 
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