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***Singles Thread*** - WE LOVE IT.

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It's selfish of me to want a bf AND a gf isn't it? Even is she is all cool with us seeing other people?

"I love you and my first priority is to make sure you're happy so if that's what you want then go for it"

^^^ man that just makes me feel worse.

I so don't think i'm a lesbian... I really thought I was for a while there *sigh*
 
doofqueen said:
I so don't think i'm a lesbian... I really thought I was for a while there *sigh*
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i can see my brain right now
that's just how far back my eyes have rolled
right into the back of my head
 
m4dd0g said:
Single life means:

a. Freedom to follow the flow and whatever it throws in front of you. Go out, stay in, random call to an old friend for half the night, work late, drive up the coast and vanish for the weekend
b. Dont justify your actions to anyone (unless you still live with your parehts). Decide and do whatever you feel is right for you
c. When the world is too much, retreat and relax in guaranteed solitude at home with the certainty that nothing can interrupt your night
d. Check out, chat up, take home that random amazing person you see out. Even if you dont its still the option that adds a splash of magic
e. More time to spend how you want to (without compromise). Your Family. Your Friends. Your Entertainment. ... without guilt
f. Your life is not predictable, you'll socialise more and meet/converse with a lot more people many of whom will change how you see the world forever

<3 the singles

PS. The title? Really gahy
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Am I wrong to think the perfect relationship should be like this? Except the chatting up and taking home. Altho, maybe a little bit of chatting up.
 
^ Not at all.
But you are crazy thinking there is such a thing as a perfect relationship
 
doofqueen said:
I so don't think i'm a lesbian... I really thought I was for a while there *sigh*
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Me:
"oh my god guys, I think I'm a lesbian."
"Wait, no, false alarm."
"No I think I am"
"No no, maybe not"

"Oh for fucks sake. Who cares, its just sex."
"Though come to think of it..."

*snort*
Its called 'confusosexual', its so hot right now. ;)
 
Innocuous said:
Me:
"oh my god guys, I think I'm a lesbian."
"Wait, no, false alarm."
"No I think I am"
"No no, maybe not"

"Oh for fucks sake. Who cares, its just sex."
"Though come to think of it..."

*snort*
Its called 'confusosexual', its so hot right now. ;)
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that sounds like me in the last few months. i have always been quite comfortable with being bi since i was 14 (so the last 14 years) and never thought i would 'cross over' and then i did... or so i thought. I really thought that not wanting to fuck/date men again while still being capable of being attarcted to them asthetically i would be 'lesbian' (even if things with my current gf didn't work - i thought i would just want to be with another girl) now i don't fucking know. I don't know who or what i am and i don't want to be asexual and bi is so damn common and doesnt even MEAN the same thing to everyone and and and well i hate being confused with my sexuality cos i thought i had myself fucking worked out being so near to 30 and all too... gah!

and thats my stoned rant for the day

thanks and good night =D
 
doofqueen said:
i don't want to be asexual and bi is so damn common
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awesome, sexuality as a means to differentiate yourself from everyone else, rather than the pursuit of physical affection

as each day passes, my mind is boggled at the fact that you're raising a kid
 
you have no idea what i mean obviously... especially seeing as you took my comment and the disected it so you could use it for what you think i said. Try again.... read slower maybe?
 
I think that there's too much emphasis being put on labels, personally. What it boils down to is just do what you want.. and who you want. ;) Men, women, noone, do what feels right at the time.

Why do people have to even "be" something?
 
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