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***Singles Thread*** A kit kat chunky stole my relationship!

Should this and shouldn't that.. to each his own I say, how about just appreciate the day for its ambience and the message it sends (love your partner/buy them things) and enjoy yourselfs =D

Having said that,

V-Day strippers & blackjack was fun!
 
How many people have asked someone out within minutes of meeting them? I'm talking about complete strangers you meet on public transport or through some sort of business transaction etc. that you would only spend five or ten minutes with otherwise.

I get the feeling I should be doing it but I'm not comfortable being that forward in such situations.
 
Doppelganger said:
^ No... chicks find that creepy.

Very creepy.

Unless you're really hot.
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I went on a date with a guy I met on a train! I liked him! We were totally different but it was kinda fun anyway. I think 3 hours of drunk conversation in a bar is comparable to five minutes of sober conversation on a train.

Maybe I'm just desperate for dates. :D
 
That's why most of us singles are in this thread, and the others (not mentioning any names ;)) are here to pride themselves on their marital status!
 
up all night said:
Oh wait, I am.

That makes my comment much less humorous. :(
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I'm gonna disagree with that :)


I love being the one with the exotic accent, it almost makes it to easy to be fun ... almost
 
Doppelganger said:
^ No... chicks find that creepy.

Very creepy.

Unless you're really hot.
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During my single periods, I didn't find it creepy. I met a guy at a cafe once, he was sitting alone as well, at the table next to mine. We got a-talkin' and he asked me on a date, at his table. :D I moved tables, and we had our date! It was fun.
 
gher said:
How many people have asked someone out within minutes of meeting them? I'm talking about complete strangers you meet on public transport or through some sort of business transaction etc. that you would only spend five or ten minutes with otherwise.

I get the feeling I should be doing it but I'm not comfortable being that forward in such situations.
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I thought about this SO many times. Just sitting across from someone, my heads going WOW your cute... I'd love to ask you out, but on a train?? kinda dumb and stalk'ish..
 
I was going to ask for the phone number of this really cute waiter at a restaurant I was at last weekend...but realised it would be a little gauche to do so in front of my date.
 
I wouldn't treat a genuine request for my number from a random as anything negative. :)
As long as it's not like this;
Boy: {Stare, stare, stare.}
Girl: {Shifts uncomfortably.}
Boy: 'Uh... can I have your number? I'd like to take you out sometime. :)'

I'd prefer if they made an effort to speak to me a little at first, to see if we click at alllll. There's nothing worse than making an effort for someone who you don't really know, and finding out everything about them irritates you. :\
 
Maybe it's just my bad luck, but the only guys who've ever tried to pick me up on trains are some pretty bad seeds.

If a good catch were to come along, I'd be all for it - but the problem is all the bad catches don't seem to realize that they're bad. And the good catches often don't need to hassle themselves - they often, but not always, have a regular flow of options.

This leaves me with the opinion that picking up on P/T is mainly not cool.
 
Flashback to singeldom: I found it fifty-fifty. Sometimes, the random - like VERY random - pickup was incredibly flattering and if the guy had some sort of general charm I'd give it a go. I mean, I respect that sort of bravery. At the very least, a coffee.

Other times like Doppleganger I found it quite repulsive. It's all to do with the man behind the approach, rather than the approach itself.. IMO. And it's pretty easy to quickly pick up the man behind the approach. It's particularly obvious with the ones who do it several times a day, to anybody, anywhere. That's very off-putting :\

Some guys can pull this sort of thing off with aplomb and it's a really extraordinary moment in your day when it happens... other times you just want to recommend they wear deodorant. YKWIM?
 
Doppelganger said:
Maybe it's just my bad luck, but the only guys who've ever tried to pick me up on trains are some pretty bad seeds.

If a good catch were to come along, I'd be all for it - but the problem is all the bad catches don't seem to realize that they're bad. And the good catches often don't need to hassle themselves - they often, but not always, have a regular flow of options.

This leaves me with the opinion that picking up on P/T is mainly not cool.
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Me too! LOL ive never really come accross anyone decent on PT. It was usually 15 year old guys in groups catching the last train home, pissed as maggots slurring oi! can i have ya number
 
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