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Say something you can't say to their face

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^ I can't believe you said that. I happen to know someone who knows precisely everything that went wrong because she writes it in her calendar. Literally ~ date and hour. Not the same thing, I got that..
 
I used to write down dates of certain moments of my life. Not really anymore. I just know when certain things fell apart.
 
This started to be a problem as when you write it down you settle your mind right then that you won't forget.
You don't want to. So forgiveness comes with a high price.
 
Erikmen said:
^ I can't believe you said that. I happen to know someone who knows precisely everything that went wrong because she writes it in her calendar. Literally ~ date and hour. Not the same thing, I got that..
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Holy! I was worried I was OCD/worrywart for a sec.
 
Get the hell out of the podium and let the winner take her place!!
Come on, don't spoil the fun. You'll get it next time!
It's was your turn to host. It seems you can do it all.
 
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Dear SM.

I am letting u think I believe all your lies because currently having your trust benefits me.
No matter what u say I know CB and that psycho bitch SS are closer friends of urs than you try to have me believe and I have no doubt they are getting u to be their spy to get them all the dirt on me and BG.
How do I know this?
It wasn't hard dear.
I may not be a world class detective but you are absolutely terrible at covering your tracks and commiting to a cover story.
The first hint was that night u got drunk with me and kept constantly bringing CB & SS up, saying over and over that ud always choose me over them and that SS wasn't really a friend as u only met her twice and hated her onsite. The way u kept on about it even when I told u it didn't worry me, it was like you really wanted to convince me of this idea.
I had my doubts then and there but my doubts were definately confirmed when the next day I happened to find numerous comments on SS's facebook page...some as recent as that day and all complimentary such as "beautiful hair babe", "I love you xx", "cool chick".
Not a friend hey?

And now that BG and I are moving in together you've been very abrupt and confronting about wanting to know where we move and I will do everything in my power to stop you ever finding out. SS will be the first person u tell and this will enable her to come harass BG & me allover again, hindering whatever chance we have at a fresh start together.

Your a 38 yo wife and mother for godsake....I really thought u were above those two crumbs and their highschool mean girl mentalities but in actual fact ur worse.
At least CB & SS make it known they want to make my life hell....u continue to carry on this double life, lying to my face but then expecting trust and friendship.

ZK was right when she warned me about you!
 
you smacked me with your car door because you knew i would end up fucking you up. too bad you cant walk anymore. enjoy that wheelchair.
 
I love you, but I hate you. I want to be with you and make things work, but you are showing no change. You don't even believe you need to. I know. You told me you think you'd be the best husband and father. Really? I mean, really? Maybe for someone else... but I don't see you as a great husband or father. I just told you this. You are the king of denial. You feel like I'm beating you up everyday? Maybe you do need to get beaten up for a little bit, so you can rebuild yourself. When you do, you'll be even stronger. I know this, my parents used to beat me up everyday and now look at me now.

The longer we are apart from each other, the more I think we're not meant to be with each other. I tell you when I want, over and over again, yet you do nothing different... you do the same things... isn't that the definition of crazy? Doing the same things over and over again expecting different results?
 
Pretty_Diamonds said:
IDK why you can't tell that to their face!
It's so positive. :)
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Yes, but ...

Pretty_Diamonds said:
I love you, but ... (I don't want you to know that)... my comment in parenthesis
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To be very clear, she's a very deared friend at work. Not romantically though.
We share so many things and she really gets me both at work and how my life really is.
I don't want us not to feel as spontaneous as we are. And if she misunderstands my feelings we'd both be hurt.

I'm on my 45's and to have gone through all I have during the past years having a (one) loyal friend is more than I can ask for. I do have lots of colleagues but I discovered that real friends (after you get sober) is quite difficult to find.
I think you would be able to understand this differently as you are from Island, so you know how Scandinavians are.

It's a great advise, thanks!! Under other circumstances I'd not hold back.
 
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Erikmen said:
I'm so glad you are back.
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Is something you can say to a friend....! A co-worker...! A lover... :)
After reading your explanation, even MORESO I believe you should tell her that you're glad she's back! It'll brighten up her day and make her feel appreciated and cared for. :) Which you obviously do! :D Just say what you posted, no need to go into detail. ^o^

Do itttttttttttt. xP
 
You better do it Erikmen!! :P I'm watching you. :shifty:

But seriously, life's too short to hold back saying the little things. :)
 
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