I'm adamant that I didn't do any stalking today, facebook or real life. When I had a crush on a girl that worked in one of the outlets at the place I work too and I knew her name from her name badge someone from my work seriously suggested looking her up on facebook and messaging her that way, maybe in this modern world it's more acceptable.
I wouldn't have sent a message to charity girl if I hadn't been egged on here this afternoon. Was probably a mistake, maybe she will see it is a joke or something when she sees that my profile picture is me in a Jester hat 8)