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Advice Pussy too loose?

.. No need for THAT expression Xd

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Some background info: I’m a 44 year old female, and have given birth 3 times. My youngest is 14. I started smoking meth a few times a month back in May. I’ve heard and read about how great the sex is with it. I finally gave in and hooked up with a friend last night because he’s been constantly telling me how great it would be. Wrong!

He no sooner got it in and asked me ā€œHave you been using your toy a lot?ā€ I said yes and asked him why. He said ā€œI can tell. You’re just really loose.ā€ I was shocked, embarrassed, and offended. I don’t have a dildo, but a clit suction toy.

He’d been drinking hard liquor and was high also. He kept pulling out and saying he couldn’t stay in because he was going soft and I was too wet. In the middle of this he starts watching porn on his phone while trying to fuck me. I called it quits. I was so turned off.

My question is how do I know if I’m too loose, and more importantly how do I fix it?! I’ve only had sex with 4 other men and none of them have ever said that. I know that I was really wet because in the beginning I was super turned on. Every other time in my life I’ve always had to use lube. He made sure to tell me as I was leaving this morning to do some exercises to tighten up. I feel disgusting and embarrassed. It just blows because I was so excited about it! Please help.
Sounds to me he was just too high to stay hard, that and/or small penis.
 
Are u implying uve got a 5 inch dick,? šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚
I'm guessing you're having a go because of the bloke's username, which would lead anyone to think he's bragging about 8 inches upwards. But apart from that 5 inches would be a very respectable average.

'Size doesn't matter' isn't quite true and generally only said by underendowed men, or women who want to spare their feelings. (Speaking as the disgruntled owner of an appendage insufficient in every way.) But from what I get girth matters more than length, because the greatest concentration of nerve endings is in the first third of the vagina, and the feeling of being 'filled' is important. Any women here correct me if I'm wrong but that's what I've been given to understand.
 
Some background info: I’m a 44 year old female, and have given birth 3 times. My youngest is 14. I started smoking meth a few times a month back in May. I’ve heard and read about how great the sex is with it. I finally gave in and hooked up with a friend last night because he’s been constantly telling me how great it would be. Wrong!

He no sooner got it in and asked me ā€œHave you been using your toy a lot?ā€ I said yes and asked him why. He said ā€œI can tell. You’re just really loose.ā€ I was shocked, embarrassed, and offended. I don’t have a dildo, but a clit suction toy.

He’d been drinking hard liquor and was high also. He kept pulling out and saying he couldn’t stay in because he was going soft and I was too wet. In the middle of this he starts watching porn on his phone while trying to fuck me. I called it quits. I was so turned off.

My question is how do I know if I’m too loose, and more importantly how do I fix it?! I’ve only had sex with 4 other men and none of them have ever said that. I know that I was really wet because in the beginning I was super turned on. Every other time in my life I’ve always had to use lube. He made sure to tell me as I was leaving this morning to do some exercises to tighten up. I feel disgusting and embarrassed. It just blows because I was so excited about it! Please help.
He was covering up for having erectile dysfunction doe to the drinking and meth use. He's a fucking asshole.
 
I'm guessing you're having a go because of the bloke's username, which would lead anyone to think he's bragging about 8 inches upwards. But apart from that 5 inches would be a very respectable average.

'Size doesn't matter' isn't quite true and generally only said by underendowed men, or women who want to spare their feelings. (Speaking as the disgruntled owner of an appendage insufficient in every way.) But from what I get girth matters more than length, because the greatest concentration of nerve endings is in the first third of the vagina, and the feeling of being 'filled' is important. Any women here correct me if I'm wrong but that's what I've been given to understand.

Yeah the very worst dicks I've had are long and thin. Total dick to cervix contact and that pain is something else.

However, I've had problems with width too. Only one but yeah.

Anyway, it doesn't matter now I've switched. No men are dominant enough for me and younger guys are hotter and more interesting 😊
 
Yeah the very worst dicks I've had are long and thin. Total dick to cervix contact and that pain is something else.

However, I've had problems with width too. Only one but yeah.

Anyway, it doesn't matter now I've switched. No men are dominant enough for me and younger guys are hotter and more interesting 😊
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