Markomarkh
Bluelighter
- Joined
- Jan 18, 2013
- Messages
- 510
This is an idea I’ve had for long time, I wouldn’t say I’m an incel (involuntarily celebrate) but I am love shy and have social anxiety.
But I hear a lot of grief and pain from the incel communities, I don’t believe they are all virgin terrorists, just a modern phenomenon that some men are having problems getting laid or getting girlfriends, we are painted with this lie that the ‘one’ is out there or soulmate or twin flames, if that was true everyone would of found their perfect partner by now, truth is no such thing as perfect partner and not everyone needs a partner or will get a partner and I don’t really believe in monogamy either, I’ve fancied two girls at once in a room years ago ( polyamory) I think marriage has failed too for 60% of the population. What I believe is there are some right partners for you and majority of wrongens and just chat to girls and boys you get on best with rather waiting for the soulmate or perfection because you could be waiting forever! Don’t chase or try making it happen as that’s forced love and always fails, thats why dating sites a majority a failure because you can’t really commercialise love.
The solution to loneliness and incels is a national love service which is 3 old ideas run by the government instead of money paid incentive which ends in a con most the time when it comes to dating. 1. You could have a room where singles meet, chat and have tea coffee together a real dating situation. 2. You could have a room for real sex education, intimacy coach and legalise prostitution in a safe environment to train men to be confident with women. 3. The last option is talking therapy to unravel the bullshit the media has been telling you for years about love and sex and help you think straight about relationships and love. Simple really this could be done in 2020 and beyond.
Maybe I’m being an idealist, I’ll shut up now.
What you think?
But I hear a lot of grief and pain from the incel communities, I don’t believe they are all virgin terrorists, just a modern phenomenon that some men are having problems getting laid or getting girlfriends, we are painted with this lie that the ‘one’ is out there or soulmate or twin flames, if that was true everyone would of found their perfect partner by now, truth is no such thing as perfect partner and not everyone needs a partner or will get a partner and I don’t really believe in monogamy either, I’ve fancied two girls at once in a room years ago ( polyamory) I think marriage has failed too for 60% of the population. What I believe is there are some right partners for you and majority of wrongens and just chat to girls and boys you get on best with rather waiting for the soulmate or perfection because you could be waiting forever! Don’t chase or try making it happen as that’s forced love and always fails, thats why dating sites a majority a failure because you can’t really commercialise love.
The solution to loneliness and incels is a national love service which is 3 old ideas run by the government instead of money paid incentive which ends in a con most the time when it comes to dating. 1. You could have a room where singles meet, chat and have tea coffee together a real dating situation. 2. You could have a room for real sex education, intimacy coach and legalise prostitution in a safe environment to train men to be confident with women. 3. The last option is talking therapy to unravel the bullshit the media has been telling you for years about love and sex and help you think straight about relationships and love. Simple really this could be done in 2020 and beyond.
Maybe I’m being an idealist, I’ll shut up now.
What you think?