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My girlfriend doesn't want to do anal..HELP!!!

sometimes the girls snatch gets lil loose.... so you knock next door for something lil more snug...
 
hey man, some girls just don't like it. but if say.. it were very greazy, and one fell in, what's the harm in that? if you get smacked, you got smacked, and chances are you'll be even better off with a nice swift ass-kicking.
 
GoddessLSD-XTC said:
I don't blame her 4 not wanting anal.

My question is: Why do U wanna do it?!
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Perhaps he feels that it would be enjoyable for both of the involved parties.:)
 
I think I orgasm quicker when he plays around there with his finger. It makes the sensation sooo much better. That could be a start if she lets you touch there while you're having sex (i always like being on top if my boyfriend was going to do that). Just get her more and more comfortable with it and make her realize that it DOES feel good, then go for the gold baby. ;p
 
Anal sex is a high-risk activity, even when practiced with a condom, and can lead to things BESIDES STDs like parasites and anal tears. It is utterly unappealing for a lot of people, and with good reason: it's unsanitary, unnatural (as in our assholes are meant for excrement to come OUT, not having things shoved in there), and can cause pain and even loss of tone and anal incontinence with repeated exposure (for those who argue, I've seen it and it ain't pretty).

If it's uncomfortable for her and you press the issue, one of two things will happen: she'll shoot you down and grow to resent you for nagging her to do something she finds repulsive, or 2, she'll relent and it will be an awkward, painful experience for her that she never wants to repeat. There is no third outcome. If someone is dead set against something like this, there's no chance they'll enjoy it and want to repeat it. The whole "don't knock it til you've tried it" thing doesn't always apply.

A person knows their limits. The anus is a very private area and is off limits to a lot of people as far as sex goes, because it simply wasn't meant to be a sexual port of entry, if you will. That's not to knock those who do like it or have a fetish, because to each his own, but I think it's far more reasonable and prudent to respect the person who wants no part of it than to give in to the one who does.
 
Lady Codone said:
Anal sex is a high-risk activity, even when practiced with a condom, and can lead to things BESIDES STDs like parasites and anal tears. It is utterly unappealing for a lot of people, and with good reason: it's unsanitary, unnatural (as in our assholes are meant for excrement to come OUT, not having things shoved in there), and can cause pain and even loss of tone and anal incontinence with repeated exposure (for those who argue, I've seen it and it ain't pretty).

If it's uncomfortable for her and you press the issue, one of two things will happen: she'll shoot you down and grow to resent you for nagging her to do something she finds repulsive, or 2, she'll relent and it will be an awkward, painful experience for her that she never wants to repeat. There is no third outcome. If someone is dead set against something like this, there's no chance they'll enjoy it and want to repeat it. The whole "don't knock it til you've tried it" thing doesn't always apply.

A person knows their limits. The anus is a very private area and is off limits to a lot of people as far as sex goes, because it simply wasn't meant to be a sexual port of entry, if you will. That's not to knock those who do like it or have a fetish, because to each his own, but I think it's far more reasonable and prudent to respect the person who wants no part of it than to give in to the one who does.
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Okay there Ann Landers.

For the op you should try using your finger a bit first work your way up there are lots of girls who just don't know what they are missing and it isnt until they have expereinced it they realize that the stigma is just that.
 
GoddessLSD-XTC said:
The only "girls" I know who do it are pre-op transsexuals & prostitutes . . . not all prostitutes will do it either.
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Weird. I haven't found many who don't do it. But hey, I guess that's just us chocolate loving Germans. Then again, amybe it's just me who hasn't even met many women who don't love being violated.
 
Well, I suppose if u'r the kinda guy who stays hard for hours and she gets tired after enjoying it, as a favor she may let U finish there.

I did it once 'cause I knew the guy wouldn't leave until he was satisfied . . . it hurt for 3-days.

She may also do it to keep U from leaving.

My goal is to satisfy the customer and then show him the door. (My slut daze are over.)
 
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Snatch being an unattractive word is just your opinion. It doesn't offend me or repulse me in any way. My girlfriend says it all the time. not any more offensive than "pussy" or "dick" or "cunt".

Why is it unnatractive to you? Are you just sensitive? It's ok if you are I'm not trying to insult you, just wanna know.

I am confused as to why you even said that to me, after quoting what that lsd person posted. Did you mean in a "take that!" type of way?

For her to say only pre trannys and hookers do anal is completely untrue. I mean does she not live in the same world as the rest of us? ALot of people like anal sex, obviously not her but a lot do.
 
I'd like to see a poll of how many women enjoy, tolorate or dislike anal sex or giving BJ's. It's probably my age too . . . been there done that (used to be a semen vampire) and now it's time to move on to a real relationship.

How 'bout U WideI is your guy one of those who never gets tired and U tolorate it?

EDIT: The OP hasn't been back after the first 8 posts, with the exception of #46.
 
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