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Is Bluelight dying ?

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Yea I get that, shambles was saying the poor welcome and lack of responce was due to my whinning personality. I had only made ONE post at that point.
I've given an opinion on a thread asking is BL dying and instead of discussing it mods would rather make sneidy comments and blame the new member.
Just so you know for future the welcome and responce a new member gets will affect their attitude towards the site, shit welcome likeley to get a shit attitude.
 
Does it come as a surprise to you yhat someones first experience with something will affect their attitude towards it?
 
I've been reading Blue light threads for years now and finally signed up a month and a half ago.. To be honest it's a little disappointing to have a lot of questions go unanswered.. 98% of the people that I know don't know about my drug use and I thought I had finally found a place where I belong.. But once I started posting my own threads I noticed I wasn't getting many responses.. (and I've posted in a few sections I thought were popular).. I'm not a hardcore drug user.. Mainly MDMA, weed, alcohol and recently contemplating cocaine use... I've shared my experiences with other drugs I've tried and offered advice based off of my knowledge and usage of other drugs I've done.. But I don't seem to be getting the same in return.. ??

In EADD it is a customary tradition to post a tit pic before you're accepted....unfortunately that's true :(.
 
20 pages.... Jesus christ

If you all made this many contributions to all the other threads it might seem busier in here :D

Along with the PMK vs whatever threads the majority of the discussion in this place is a bit dry and it's lost a few characters, but you also get out what you put in.... Post more replies, start more threads, welcome people & be nice (!!!) and don't worry if it's quiet and all will be well :)
 
I've given an opinion on a thread asking is BL dying and instead of discussing it mods would rather make sneidy comments and blame the new member.
Just so you know for future the welcome and responce a new member gets will affect their attitude towards the site, shit welcome likeley to get a shit attitude.

I wasn't aware that I had made sneidy comments.I know I wasn't mentioned personally but I am part of the sweeping statement of "mods" I'm willing to take on board any suggestions you have to make people feel more welcome when they join. I hope that what seems to be your first impressions isn't the same for everyone and one that isn't a lasting for you. For the most part people get on with one another and I hope that to be the case with you too and any other new people. Constructive criticism is always welcome. <3


Lol.. Nice try..

HAHA Arnold, Nae chance. Everyone loves a chancer but you've got no chance mate xx You'll do well 'round here Loozer ;)
 
Sorry Sadie, I should have said some mods. You haven't made any sneidy coments, in fact the opposite is true, you seem very friendly and level headed and it's just a shame some other mods aren't like that.
Others have said the same as me in this thread but some mods just ignore that and would rather start some shit with me over my opinion and blame me. That's fine Im a big boy and can handle it but it don't solve nothin.
 
Sorry Sadie, I should have said some mods. You haven't made any sneidy coments, in fact the opposite is true, you seem very friendly and level headed and it's just a shame some other mods aren't like that.
Others have said the same as me in this thread but some mods just ignore that and would rather start some shit with me over my opinion and blame me. That's fine Im a big boy and can handle it but it don't solve nothin.

Thanks.

Like I said before, Everyone is entitled to their opinion. It's how that opinion is dealt with that can make all the difference in the world. Open minds make changes. I don't always listen to my own advice but I do berate myself silently when I don't.
 
Sorry Sadie, I should have said some mods. You haven't made any sneidy coments, in fact the opposite is true, you seem very friendly and level headed and it's just a shame some other mods aren't like that.
Others have said the same as me in this thread but some mods just ignore that and would rather start some shit with me over my opinion and blame me. That's fine Im a big boy and can handle it but it don't solve nothin.

It's funny how you play all innocent.
Looking back at your welcome thread, it seems your whole grudge is based on not getting a response for two days.
You ended up with a more interesting new members' introduction thread than most.
I'm not sure what the anger is hoping to achieve, but as Mentes says above, you get out what you put into a forum.

The harm reduction focused sections of the forum are still busy, and that's kind of the thing i most value about the site.
Yes, community is a really important thing, and socially-inclined subforums serve an important HR role too. Especially for socially isolated or marginalised drug users...
It might seem troubling for people to feel that they're being ignored if nobody checks their intro post in NMI - but we are staffed entirely by volunteers, and unfortunately that section is not at the top of all of our priority lists. I try to look in there when i can, which is far from regularly. Having said that, the mods in that section are really good - but they have lives outside of the site, and contribute what time they can.
I can assure you that people invest a great deal of time and effort into helping keep bluelight running - including (especially) the folks that moderate the new member introductions - so if you think you're getting snide remarks from me, it may just be because you're so aggressive and critical.

I'll see if we can get a letter from the Queen and a ticker tape parade down the high street sorted for the next forum you join =D
 
Other forums staffed entirely by volunteers too but wouldn't go days without a reply. That thread is probably the first place to keep an eye on if your interested in harm reduction.
Maybe an idea to get a volunteer or 2 to check it at least once a day, they could then get an idea if a new member is in any danger.
Just an idea.
I got no anger over anything at all, especially not you.
 
If Gibberings ain't broke, don't fix it.

chat.tripsit.me takes care of live chat better than BL ever could/will IMO.

Considering what goes on in tinychat and what has happened in the past, it's really in the best interest for everyone involved to keep all information on the site.

Doesn't hurt to learn a lesson here and there.
 
^ well put.


Other forums staffed entirely by volunteers too but wouldn't go days without a reply. That thread is probably the first place to keep an eye on if your interested in harm reduction.
Maybe an idea to get a volunteer or 2 to check it at least once a day, they could then get an idea if a new member is in any danger.
Just an idea.
Thank you for the feedback.
 
If Gibberings ain't broke, don't fix it.

chat.tripsit.me takes care of live chat better than BL ever could/will IMO.

Considering what goes on in tinychat and what has happened in the past, it's really in the best interest for everyone involved to keep all information on the site.

Doesn't hurt to learn a lesson here and there.

I very much agree with that statement. Well put x
 
Shambles
You think you could tell my personality from my one and only post on the site?? Fuckin bell end.
What was whinning about my introduction post?
Read my second introduction post too, pretty much sums it up.

Winning vs Whining - Look it up it'll change your life and maybe even your basic comprehension skills.

That aside, my comment was based purely on your posts in this thread where you have come in, called out a longterm, popular and prominent member as being a paedophile, before going to bitch and whine in the most pathetically entitled manner I've seen in a very long time.

FWIW, it was over a year before anybody acknowledged a single post I made when I became a member here. I hated the cliqueyness that once reigned supreme around this forum and have gone out of my way for the best part of a decade to try to change all that. Are things perfect now? Definitely not. But a chip on your shoulder this big because you weren't immediately acknowledged?

Get a grip.

And don't call people paedos.
 
You Prob haven't changed shit, your just part of the clique now.

I misread what you put but my point remains the same, my personality was unknown from my one and only post, the post which Ive been on about the whole time. Not posts in this thread of any other thread. My personality was not the reason there was such a poor response, it might make you feel better to think that but it's not the case.
 
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