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Don't do it being a cuckold is the worst thing ever. Eventually your manliness is going to come out, and you let some one fuck your girl . No respect for self or her. She'll. ever love you again o matter how small your cock is it's still yours so work with what you have. Everything in your life woll deteriorTe if you cuckold, I was asked to fuck another mans wife because my cock is 9 a real 9. In porn world I'd be 11. But I didn't . Learn how to pleSe your woman . There is no better esteMe builder than making your girl cum. Read karma tantric or something you will feel like king fucking kong making her cum. The intamacy and love will be indescrible.
 
What these fantasies may mean is that your girlfriend doesn't know how to treat you as if you were the No. One Big Man in her life: she frustrates and hurts you and as a result your sexuality seeks a situation which your self-confidence will accept-- i.e., being cuckolded. My husband had these same fantasies. He had no self-confidence about his performance and little by little these fantasies dominated his imagination. Try as I might, I could never get him to believe that he was really quite good in bed. He wanted to believe that I was "insatiable" and a "powerful lover." (I interpreted this as his laziness; he wanted me to be so active, himself to be passive). He enjoyed fantasies of spanking. He wanted to see me spank first a woman, then a man. So he went to a swingers' website and had a married couple come over for me to spank both of them. He couldn't imagine himself in the position of the powerful dominating one. I advise you to stop these passive fantasies of yours and instead become the pleasure-wielding powerman with stamina in the bed that most women actually desire.
 
What these fantasies may mean is that your girlfriend doesn't know how to treat you as if you were the No. One Big Man in her life: she frustrates and hurts you and as a result your sexuality seeks a situation which your self-confidence will accept-- i.e., being cuckolded. My husband had these same fantasies. He had no self-confidence about his performance and little by little these fantasies dominated his imagination. Try as I might, I could never get him to believe that he was really quite good in bed. He wanted to believe that I was "insatiable" and a "powerful lover." (I interpreted this as his laziness; he wanted me to be so active, himself to be passive). He enjoyed fantasies of spanking. He wanted to see me spank first a woman, then a man. So he went to a swingers' website and had a married couple come over for me to spank both of them. He couldn't imagine himself in the position of the powerful dominating one. I advise you to stop these passive fantasies of yours and instead become the pleasure-wielding powerman with stamina in the bed that most women actuall


Be a man dude only whore skanks judge a man on cocksize. Get some counsling eventually you will divorce her . And get a kind loving woman .
 
Human mind gets turned on by most twisted things they can imagine. Some people might deny it and try not to think about things like that and it works until you let your mind have crazy fantasies. Also people have different idea of crazy (some might feel really dirty and sick about things that are normal for some), but the main point is that the dark corner in your mind turns you on. Many times traumatic people or people who had not so safe childhood are more easily getting turned on by sick sexual fantasies - that does mean that "there's something wrong with you", but the thing that is wrong is not your fantasies or anything you should be ashamed of.

Just realize that it's normal to fantasize even about really sick things, and remember that:

1. Having a fantasy doesn't mean you want to do that in real life - you have choice.

2. Usually it's better to keep more hardcore fantasies away from real life, most of the time it will not play out well.

3. Everybody fantasize! Every person you have met today have fantasies, many of them really sick ones.

4. Don't stress too much about what kind of things turn you on. I've had fantasies about teachers, friends mom, sister, girlfriends little sister, getting humiliated, getting cheated, being controlled, old women, black women, asian women, young women, too young women, raping women, abusing young ugly insecure girls, getting raped, transformation, transsexuals, being dominated, dominating submissive women and so on, almost every "fetish" they have, I have tried in my mind. Some stick and some goes away with time. I don't care and neither should you.

5. If your fantasies still bother you, remember that more you try to stop fantasizing about something, more it turns you on usually. Just accept that it's just how our minds works, nothing about you as a person.
 
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