Generally speaking, in all serious realtionships I have encountered and have been in, me and the guy i was dating have almost always has undeniable chemistry physically mentally and emotionally and moved way too fast in all areas. These relationships never worked out because I was not taken seriously, and me and the fellows were not on the same page when it came down to what we wanted in the near and later future.
How do I hold off with sex in relationships, take it slower, and still let the guy know that I want to take it seriously, and I want sex (when it is to come, to be cherished and respected) and not just given. Is that too much to ask for as a young female seeking a male in his mid twenties, and how do I let men know this once we pursue something more serious without coming off too harsh and scaring them away knowing that they will not get to "hit it" as they some may say.
Basically I am asking how to let a guy know what it is I want from him, and how to compromise with him, without getting to attatched too soon.
I want to make note that I do not have a problem with sex early in the relationship, but it seems to spoil the possibility of a long term relationship if we get involved too quickly into it. Guys tend to think I am slutty and not girlfriend material, although I want to somehow let them know I am looking for a relationship
How do I hold off with sex in relationships, take it slower, and still let the guy know that I want to take it seriously, and I want sex (when it is to come, to be cherished and respected) and not just given. Is that too much to ask for as a young female seeking a male in his mid twenties, and how do I let men know this once we pursue something more serious without coming off too harsh and scaring them away knowing that they will not get to "hit it" as they some may say.
Basically I am asking how to let a guy know what it is I want from him, and how to compromise with him, without getting to attatched too soon.
I want to make note that I do not have a problem with sex early in the relationship, but it seems to spoil the possibility of a long term relationship if we get involved too quickly into it. Guys tend to think I am slutty and not girlfriend material, although I want to somehow let them know I am looking for a relationship
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