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How many people have you had sex with?

30
Female
Bi
Females - Around 20
Males - Minimum 300 (that’s lowballing) I lost count when I was 14
3somes - Minimum 10
4+- 2
 
Male 29 Years old
Its is the 30s somewhere, maybe 40 or so. Im not about to sit down and write it all out to figure it out.

Most was from 26 going forward. Used craigslist to get laid once before then (RIP Craigslist personals), but got more hooked into that and then the apps at 26, almost 27. Im a sloot.
 
tired of crap said:
33/m
Only 10

And the last one was like 3 years ago... wtf am I doing with my life lol
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i have a harder time remembering if people are male or female without an avatar my apologies

don't feel bad about your #'s, sometimes quality over quantity

if I could go back and only choose ~ 10 people, I could easily do that

take the best leave the rest
 
tired of crap said:
33/m
Only 10

And the last one was like 3 years ago... wtf am I doing with my life lol
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"only" 10. :P

It shouldn't matter. From around 2011 to 2016 I was in a serious relationship so I only slept with 1 person in that 5 year period from when I was around 22 to 27. If you've had committed relationships your number will be lower. And I'd say that's far far better than a higher number full of meaningless encounters.

Sex is kinda overrated anyway. And the number of people someone's slept with strikes me as completely meaningless. Though for some reason a lot of men seem to think of it as important.
 
JessFR said:
And the number of people someone's slept with strikes me as completely meaningless. Though for some reason a lot of men seem to think of it as important.
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Men are on a biological mission to disperse their genetic material with those that appear to be fitting contributors to that genetic amalgamation 🤣. And as many possible. That sums up the reason in the, "for some reason" question.

Women have far more limitations and far less incentive to produce a large number of offspring for obvious reasons so mens heightened impulse in this regard may be hard for women to understand.
 
@JessFR aye, I was in a 10 year monogamous relationship.

And I was only joking, kinda, about the only part - it was relative to some of the others listed here.

@negrogesic women may have less incentive but ime they have an easier time getting laid. Joe Rogan even does a bit on it “who wants to get laid?” Lol
 
negrogesic said:
Men are on a biological mission to disperse their genetic material with those that appear to be fitting contributors to that genetic amalgamation 🤣. And as many possible. That sums up the reason in the, "for some reason" question.

Women have far more limitations and far less incentive to produce a large number of offspring for obvious reasons so mens heightened impulse in this regard may be hard for women to understand.
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So basically, men are dogs. Needing to pee on everything. :P
Yep, sounds right to me.
 
Less than ten, two. That was at university. I've made out with a lot of girls and wouldn't really call that sex. I just don't feel motivated to pursue sex. Too much commitment

I guess there's a possibility that a female approaches a male and he doesn't have to do anything, but that's never happened to me
 
madness00 said:
Yeah, neither would i.

I don't like making out too much but my first time doing coke i hooked up with 3 girls at the same party. IIIRC at least one had a boy friend.
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Pro-tip all girls have a boyfriend. At least past a certain age, haha ;)
 
female 35 years old
Up until the start of the year had only ever been with the one guy, my kids father.
Now a total of 4 men
 
Jenna11713 said:
female 35 years old
Up until the start of the year had only ever been with the one guy, my kids father.
Now a total of 4 men
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nice one - respect to you - nice thing to read with my late-morning coffee

(not that I disrespect anyone putting it about in any way whatsoever - I really don't)
 
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