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How important is being slim?

Thankfully my girl is a lean mean sex machine w curves in all the right places. For me personally I like em thin. I mean who wants to have sex with a cow? A lil meat is OK but anything over a size 8 waist is a no go for me!!
 
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Thankfully my girl is a lean mean sex machine w curves in all the right places. For me personally I like em thin. I mean who wants to have sex with a cow? A lil meat is OK but anything over a size 8 waste is a no go for me!!

Over size 8 is a cow? Dude no offense but you're a bit of a jerk
 
Not really, I'm a size 6 myself but just saying, I've seen beautiful women who were over an 8 :)


Sorry didn't realize u were a chick based on u calling me "dude" and I didn't say over a size 8 is a cow either. I just said I wouldn't be w a cow and over a size 8 is a no go for me. 2 different things. My girl happens to be a size 8 and she knows not to got to a size 9 either lol
 
The human body is a canvas and we're all artists. I'm attracted to people who understand this and put some thought into how they want to express their individuality/creativity in their physical form. I prefer to diet and exercise so that I can achieve muscle mass with limited fat as one part of the look I am going for, but I can respect other people if their own goals don't involve something with limited bodyfat. What turns me off the most are people who are just boring. People who only accept certain hairstyles, look down on tattoos, assume that people who work out hard are doing it for the wrong reasons, or just want to look like carbon copies of other people. So I would almost surely date an overweight person who wasn't afraid to express herself as her own person before I would some skinny girl who was otherwise boring and molding her physique so that she better fit in. With that said, I'd prefer to be with someone who appreciates eating well and exercising, because I think two people into those things can be positive influences on each other.
 
Sorry didn't realize u were a chick based on u calling me "dude" and I didn't say over a size 8 is a cow either. I just said I wouldn't be w a cow and over a size 8 is a no go for me. 2 different things. My girl happens to be a size 8 and she knows not to got to a size 9 either lol

All right, fair enough then. I misunderstood you.
 
We should define thin vs fit. I believe fitness is one of the most important things in life, but being skinny to me is not attractive. Maybe it's because I'm just too big, but a tiny 5'2 110lb girl is just way too small for me. I thi I everyone should go to the gym, you're wasting yourself if you dont and it's bad for public morale.

As far as men go, being a male myself, I don't think it looks good too many women to look emancipated or weak. I'm so tall 6'4 that I naturally look big, so it's imperative that I maintain a high level of muscle mass. It's hard for me to get fat though. Being so damn lanky, 83 inch wingspan for an idea, I need the muscle or I'll look very disproportionate. I'm working on gaining weight right now, I'm trying to get up to a lean 230 but I've been stuck at 195 since I got reinjured. Believe me, you've gotta have muscle to get the ladies with my frame. I dropped to 155 lbs last year and I just looked like death. You can pick up any good looking ladies like that. I literally had to work my game 10 times harder just because I was slim.
 
Sorry didn't realize u were a chick based on u calling me "dude" and I didn't say over a size 8 is a cow either. I just said I wouldn't be w a cow and over a size 8 is a no go for me. 2 different things. My girl happens to be a size 8 and she knows not to got to a size 9 either lol

Umm babe first off your being mean and did you say you wouldn't be with someone over a size 8. No comment
 
Thankfully my girl is a lean mean sex machine w curves in all the right places. For me personally I like em thin. I mean who wants to have sex with a cow? A lil meat is OK but anything over a size 8 waist is a no go for me!!

I don't think you even know what a size 8 is. A size 8 is not a waist size. It's a general dress or clothing size, which can vary greatly from person to person based on their height, proportions and each store or clothing brand. A US size 8 is supposed to be around 5'6" with 34" bust, 26" waist and 37" hip. Being bigger than that in any of those dimensions would not make someone remotely overweight.

My girl happens to be a size 8 and she knows not to got to a size 9 either lol

She knows not to?!? Or what? You'll leave her? 8)

I get that different people are into different things, but bodies do change over time; if you want a 'partner' whose body stays exactly the same, year after year, you can buy one online and inflate her with a bike pump! ;)
Agreed :)

A girl's beauty is her body and curves and these curves are best pronounced when she is slim
You've never heard of inner beauty? ;). And it seems like the vast majority of slim girls are less curvy, so what you said doesn't make sense to me.

Take Christina Hendricks -
Here she is at 115 lbs at around age 23:
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Here she is at 155 lbs now:
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Can you honestly say she looked more curvy when she was thinner???
 
Important in what sense? I don't see it as that unhealthy if you have a bit of a belly, but in the sense of getting pussy it's a *massive* downer. A few years ago while studying I was doing heaps of bar-work (like 12 hour marathon shifts) coupled with taking speed to get me through the shit. I lost an insane amount of weight but also gained muscle tone, and proportionally my sex life exploded. Girls I never dreamed I could get were trying their hardest to sleep with me (sorry if that sounds like bragging but it was true).

BUT after stopping the bar work and stimulants, I put all the weight back on quickly, and although I've never been obese or anything, you're just simply not attractive if you have a chub all over you.

Thankfully I'm losing the weight again, but still sexless.
 
How important is being slim, huh? Well, for me, for my own self, I prefer to be on the slimmer side, and so I try to keep an eye on my weight. I sort of have the whole lanky, nerdy thing going on, which seems to work all right for picking up girls.

But how important is it that my significant other be slim? Eh, not very, and I actually prefer a woman with a bit of meat on her. There's something about a girl who's too skinny that just turns me off; I just imagine a skinny woman siting on my dick and her rib cage working as a cheese-greater against it -- not that my dick is long enough to reach the inside of her rib cage, of course, just being silly. lol

So, eh, I don't think that being slim is all that important.
 
Fat people are disgusting. Being overweight and the thoughts of anything pertaining to sex is vomit inducing in the extreme.
 
I don't mean super thin and slender- Just slim. How bad is it to have a bit of a belly? Like being 10-15 pounds over your ideal weight. I am a man and it's not a big deal for me if the girl is a little chubby. In fact I prefer it over skinny. What do you think?

Girls would probably think you were a lot cooler if you didn't stress about your little belly. It makes you sound like a woman.
 
Not sure if this is meant to be a question about guys or girls. I'm a guy that could lose a few pounds, not a lot, but I would like a flatter stomach. As for the ladies, I prefer a woman to have curves, I don't like them to be all skinny and shit.
 
Honestly, I've been attracted to all body styles, male and female, except for super-skinny. I had a short fling with a tall skinny dude recently, and his body was unexpectedly sexy to me. It's all about how you present yourself and how ergonomic your body is for cuddling, chillin on the couch (while watching movies of course ;)) and shit like that. I'd rather be with somebody with a little bit of padding than super bony, it all comes down to body comfort from a physical standpoint.

For me, I prefer to be a bit more toned than what I currently am, but I have been speed-skinny before (94 pounds), and feel much better when I eat more than once every three days, even if it means that I weigh 117 atm. The problem for me has never been weight but rather muscle tone, I'm 5'1 and my body is a very visual reminder of how i've been taking care of myself. When I regularly and eat well it radiates out of me, and that is when people seem to gravitate towards me. It's all about the positive vibes, man...
 
For girls I prefer brown/"ethnic" girls of any type with ass and curves. Skinny white girls don't really do it for me most of the time. My taste in men is different though, I only really like slim guys. Someone told me that nothing tastes as good as being skinny and I kind of agree. Being at a certain weight makes me feel better about myself.
 
Nothing beats a hard, toned body IMO. It's obviously a personal thing, but tight bodies definitely do it for me.

However, my boyfriend is a bit "soft," but I'm still more attracted to him than I have ever been to anyone. He is very good looking overall though, so admittedly that helps. Now he definitely prefers bigger girls (he loves his chubby porn stars), whereas I am petite and toned. I guess as long as there's that spark and you're both sexually compatible, it works regardless.
 
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