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How important is being slim?

I think that anyone who eats a heathy diet and exercises sufficiently has a "good body".
Some people will be slim, some will be heavy, some will have a broad chest and very thin legs, others will have thick, muscular legs but be slim on top, based on their type of exercise and DNA.
I can appreciate all types of beauty, as long as the person eats right and exercises.
Those who let their bodies go to hell are harder to appreciate, for me...
 
treezy z said:
ya i got my risperdal cut in half a month ago and have dropped 8lbs.
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nice. Even on anti psychotics u can lose weight. I know they make u super tired but u gotta push urself. You could look exactly the way u were in the past, but it's all about mind over matter.
 
I find men who are slightly/moderately overweight attractive and hate lanky guys. However, being thin is very important to me and i am not any more since i drastically cut my stimulant consumption and went on bipolar meds that slow my metabolism and increase my appetite. Boo. The only good thong is that for the first time in my life I have tits!
 
i wanna note that for a man, overweight with muscle is a hell of a lot better looking than overweight without muscle. since i've starting lifting a year and a half or two years or whatever i haven't lost a huge amount of fat but i look a hell of a lot better with the muscle i've put on.
 
transit012 said:
I find that the vagina looks prettier when a girl is slim, it's more attractive and nicely tucked. A chubby chick's vagina looks like a filet cheese steak, it's all over the place with its swollen pussy lips.
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I like to eat Philly cheese-steak almost as much as I love to eat pussy, but I don't think I could ever mix the two...
 
At the end of the day its not what other people think in regards to how u look, its how u feel toward yourself. Confidence is the key, women have a 6th sense for it and when u have it they seem to flock to you, i know this because ive been on both ends of the scale confidence wise.Took a big hit recently since breaking up with long term gf but slowly moving on and up!
 
transit012 said:
I find that the vagina looks prettier when a girl is slim, it's more attractive and nicely tucked. A chubby chick's vagina looks like a filet cheese steak, it's all over the place with its swollen pussy lips.
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To me, a swollen pussy would be the silver lining to a woman's being overweight. As would full, round tits. I enjoy an in-shape woman but am not going to ignore beautiful body parts. Also, if she has a sexy personality, I would pick her over a woman with a great body but a sour personality.
 
Many people have different tastes, I enjoy thin women but not unrealistically so, I don't expect them to be thinner than I can be. Id feel ridiculous demanding a stick-thin girl while I sit around eating cheetos and gaining weight. I'm probably 10 pounds over my ideal weight, but my ideal weight is clinically unhealthy. I like girls with a similar body type to mine, I feel that if I can do it, so can they. Not that I have anything against a few extra pounds, in a long term relationship it's the person that counts. But for a one night stand? Definitely a slender guy or girl.
 
SydneyGal said:
I think they get distorted ideas of what women's bodies actually look like from porn and stuff, and then they can't handle the slightest bit of softness on a woman's body; has to be all muscles and angles with two big spherical boobs instead.
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IDK, some guys may like this, but I think most guys prefer at least a bit of softness.
 
To me, as a male, incredibly so.
Every pound I drop I for some reason associate with beibg happier. I never truly am happy with losing the weight, but I continue to go days without eating every now and then.
 
Meh. Well I've been with a few thin guys and none overweight but I dunno, at the end of the day I'd take the charming one over the one with the amazing body.

Also, I weigh about 50 pounds more than when I was at my absolute skinniest a few years ago (well, anorexic-skinny) and I have to say that during all the stages of my putting on weight again, I never got hit on nearly as much as now that I am what one would call 'voluptuous'. :)
 
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Shouldn't you want to be healthy regardless what a girl wants?
 
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