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How important is being slim?

15 pounds is tough to lose, Hazey420. That's about what I want to lose!

I had my gallbladder removed had to be rushed to the hospital it was about to burst,
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Ouch! I had that too and holy shit that was painful! I've never had so much pain in my life!
 
Hazey420 said:
Over a 20 year period I gained like 15 pounds, at first i was 110 pounds that was when I was younger, but now I had my gallbladder removed had to be rushed to the hospital it was about to burst, after that I gained the 15 pounds, being 5'7 and 130 pounds bothers me and My long term boyfriend, he is all you have a belly now. He says I should exercise and get back to my 110 pounds, I told him to fuck off, ever since I had a hysterectomy for cancer that didnt help also. But when we first met it wasnt about weight for me he made me laugh and we had great times together. Now we are just growing older with each other and our feelings, sex drive, are gone. So boys and girls look forward to growing old with someone and weight really doesnt matter its the person inside that does.
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I've had this happen, too. A couple of guys have declared me 'too fat to fuck' when I was barely a US size 10, and since I'm 5'7 like you, I'm nowhere hear the clinical definition of overweight at that point. Funnily enough, none of the guys who've said crap like that to me were exactly in great shape themselves. I think they get distorted ideas of what women's bodies actually look like from porn and stuff, and then they can't handle the slightest bit of softness on a woman's body; has to be all muscles and angles with two big spherical boobs instead. Even at my heaviest, when I've been as big as a 12, weight doesn't really carry around my middle, so I just get curvier; when I was 'too big' for the ex-husband to take any interest, I was getting hit on more than I ever have in my life, since a lot of guys seem to like the curves.

I get that different people are into different things, but bodies do change over time; if you want a 'partner' whose body stays exactly the same, year after year, you can buy one online and inflate her with a bike pump! ;)
 
i've stuck it in a chubby before... but i had been sufficiently drunk. slim is kind of important to me. fat hanging is a big turn off.
 
Libby said:
I think what's most important to sexual attraction is that you feel comfortable and confident in your body.
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^THIS. Also there is going to be people interested in every body type out there, so regardless of whether you're slim, obese, or in the middle, someone is going to find that hot. The most important things are being comfortable in your own skin, the way you carry yourself, having a great personality, and that mysterious animal attraction. If you are a man, it matters even less if you are a few pounds overweight.
 
I can only fuck slim girls. stomach needs to flat, otherwise i get really turned off. Psychological thing. Generally i like all girls as friends, i don't discriminate. But in bed i fuck slim girls, otherwise i can't get a hard on. A girl's beauty is her body and curves and these curves are best pronounced when she is slim
 
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I know right!!! I got this horriable pain and didnt know what it was it was worse then child birth. Scared the shit out of me!!
 
Lysis said:
15 pounds is tough to lose, Hazey420. That's about what I want to lose!



Ouch! I had that too and holy shit that was painful! I've never had so much pain in my life!
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I know right!! its was the worse pain worse then child birth I didnt have a clue wtf was happening had to be rushed to the hospital scared the shit out of me!!
 
SydneyGal said:
I've had this happen, too. A couple of guys have declared me 'too fat to fuck' when I was barely a US size 10, and since I'm 5'7 like you, I'm nowhere hear the clinical definition of overweight at that point. Funnily enough, none of the guys who've said crap like that to me were exactly in great shape themselves. I think they get distorted ideas of what women's bodies actually look like from porn and stuff, and then they can't handle the slightest bit of softness on a woman's body; has to be all muscles and angles with two big spherical boobs instead. Even at my heaviest, when I've been as big as a 12, weight doesn't really carry around my middle, so I just get curvier; when I was 'too big' for the ex-husband to take any interest, I was getting hit on more than I ever have in my life, since a lot of guys seem to like the curves.

I get that different people are into different things, but bodies do change over time; if you want a 'partner' whose body stays exactly the same, year after year, you can buy one online and inflate her with a bike pump! ;)
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I will agree with your there he does look at porn allot ( doesnt bother me) and all the women are thin I am a size 7 now i was a size 4 and that is never going to happen again, our bodies get older with age, and operations, (that he has never had). And he was 300 pounds at one time and I was still here, and then he got diiabites and lost all the weight he stopped eating the way he was I told him stop eating so much, and never called him a name when he was that fat, so now he weighs 210 he is like 6'3 so he looks good now but since the diabites he dick dont work as of now I guess that is what happens...
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Don't let someone else dictate how you feel about yourself. So one person doesn't want to have sex with you, woop-dee-do I'm sure there's heaps of people you don't want to have sex with either. Don't take it to heart it's frivolous anyway. What matters is how YOU feel about yourself because your body belongs to YOU, and it's the one and only thing that you keep from the time you are born until the time you die, people will come and go in your life. Their opinion has no authority when it comes to your body.
 
^Amen! I find all kinds of body types beautiful, it really depends on the person. Alhought I don't necessarily feel the most attracted to really skinny girls I still acknowledge their physical beauty.

And some people think its a little gay but I can pick out attractive guys too. I'll walk around with my female friends and we'll rate guys and girls together.

Beauty is beauty, ain't gotta lie to kick it!
 
I honestly think the best thing about being slim is feeling more physically healthy. I can tell even a couple pound difference.
 
Its alot worse for a woman to me overweight than a man. I dont mean chubby/curvey just plain fat.
 
i'm 6'3" and when i was in tip top shape i could bang a dime on the dime, i didn't even have to go up to girls sometimes, they would come up to me. now that i'm about 40-50 pounds over weight getting laid is a bitch, i have to talk to at least 5 or maybe even 10 times as many girls to get laid. take what you want from that, being slim is a big deal though.
 
I find that the vagina looks prettier when a girl is slim, it's more attractive and nicely tucked. A chubby chick's vagina looks like a filet cheese steak, it's all over the place with its swollen pussy lips.
 
weekend addiction said:
Well I used to say I dont give a shit but I don't like girls with body image issues. I know pretty girls have them too but hopefully not as bad.
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Pretty girls definitely have them just as bad. I have known gorgeous women, fashion models, and women that totally fit the media's ideals for outer beauty, and they are on average just as insecure as girls that are overweight or otherwise deemed less attractive by the majority. Self-confidence and comfort in one's own body have little to do with outward physical appearance. Of course an individual may feel better about themselves when they feel they are looking at their personal best, although many are never totally happy with their looks, and if someone is constantly made fun of and told they are ugly that can hurt their self-esteem, but beautiful women are by no means guaranteed to be confident, happy, secure in their bodies, or see themselves the way others see them. Self-esteem issues and body image issues are often not correlated with actual physical looks.
 
Swimmingdancer said:
Pretty girls definitely have them just as bad. I have known gorgeous women, fashion models, and women that totally fit the media's ideals for outer beauty, and they are on average just as insecure as girls that are overweight or otherwise deemed less attractive by the majority. Self-confidence and comfort in one's own body have little to do with outward physical appearance. Of course an individual may feel better about themselves when they feel they are looking at their personal best, although many are never totally happy with their looks, and if someone is constantly made fun of and told they are ugly that can hurt their self-esteem, but beautiful women are by no means guaranteed to be confident, happy, secure in their bodies, or see themselves the way others see them. Self-esteem issues and body image issues are often not correlated with actual physical looks.
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It's true for men as well. I've met men who were way more muscular than I am or who looked like the type of guy you see in porn or modeling underwear, and a lot of them had major self esteem and body issues.

I've even encountered or known men who did porn who were handsome, had muscular bodies either naturally or from going to a gym a lot and training, and who had nice penises but thought they were ugly, that they were "fat", and that their penis was "small" or "not nearly big enough" even though it was 7-8 inches long, nicely thick, and they were doing porn.
 
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