^^^Well said.
I drink. I am a pot person too nephil, but I like my drink at the end of the day just like I like my men... good and stiff.
I have made an absolute buffoon out of myself while drinking. I have been pretty good since coming to CA, with one exception, but when I lived in FL and was drinking heavily every day, all day (except for work) I had some rough nights.
Yet I have still gotten more out of alcohol than it has gotten out of me.
The good time I had the night I fell down the stairs and skinned the shit out of my knee was worth it. (I took a cab that night.)
The night I had a breakthrough and told someone to fuck off who had it coming for years after 3/4 a bottle of Absolut Vanilia and soda was worth it.
Hangovers are evil. Alcohol does have calories, but I tend to stick to liquor and diet or club soda. I drink good liquor and I don't usually get hangovers. Most importantly, I'd rather crash on your couch than get in a car and try to drive.
If you can't use in moderation, don't use. That applies to any drug.
I am having Caesar salad and a nice bottle of Pinot Grigio tonight.
Try some good wine with a good bowl one night, nephil, with people who don't act like idiots when they drink. I guarantee you'll enjoy yourself. :D