IMO
IMO - humans themselves have separated the sexes (in all forms)
of course we all have the potential to be multisexual
if there was no stereotypes or stigmas (not possible at this point of our evolution) - ...we wouldnt divide men and women into categories ....
we were born without bias - and should live as such
too bad brainwashing gets the better of us
"we're only behaving better than the monkeys cuz we bathe!"
in my ideal world ... any ONE person could have ANY relationship with another human being without being categorically denied access to other potential relationships or even judged/rejected by others for their choices
before ="keep it under the sheets" - as not to alarm the neighbours 8)
now = If I do not want what you want, please try not to tell me that my want is wrong.
Or if I believe other than you, at least pause before you correct my view.
Or yet if I act, or fail to act, in the manner of your design for action, let me be.
I do not, for the moment at least, ask you to understand me. That will come only when you are willing to give up changing me into a copy of you.
I may be your spouse, your parent, your offsping, your friend, or your colleague. If you will allow me any of my own wants, or emotions, or beliefs, or actions, then you open yourself, so that some day these ways of mine might not seem so wrong, and might finally appear to you as right -- for me.
To put up with me is the first step to understanding me. Not that you embrace my ways as right for you, but that you are no longer irritated or disappointed with me for my seeming waywardness.
And in understanding me you might come to prize my differences from you, and, far from seeking to change me, preserve and even nurture those differences.
-by David Keirsey (please understand me)