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everyone is bisexual

chrissie said:
I've heard theories that there is a scale from 1-10 for your sexuality. 1 being totally heterosexual and 10 being totally homosexual and that most people are somewhere in between. The idea is that if you can see someone of the same sex as being attractive, even though you yourself are not fully attracted to them, then you are slightly bisexual because you can see the attractiveness of that person. Make sense?
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what she said :)
 
What she ^^^^ said times two. I woudn't call myself bi-sexual, but I have kissed a girl. I found it pleasureable but it didn't feel sexual. I couldn't imagine touching her down there or anything. It was just like hugging a close friend. I'd kiss all my girlfriends if I had it my way. Actually, I'd kiss everyone!
 
most everyone i know can admit to attraction to both sexes... ;) it isn't hard to find something beautifully attractive in everyone
 
CDMills said:
How could you justify a bisexual getting married? A bisexual man married to a man, but having urges to be with a woman, for instance. Doesn't make sense to me.
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any married person can have urges or attraction to others. being married doesnt change that. what changes (usually) is if you act on those urges.

- a married bisexual
 
I'm a transsexual. (sorry didn't see that one here yet) lol.

I'm hetero (or gay depending on how you look at it) & my girlfriend is bisexual (wouldn't she have to be?) and likes my combination of male and female.

I'm pretty sure my cat is a metrosexual.
 
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^ I'd agree with that. The reason I slept with women was due to social pressures - everyone was doing it. To be honest, I never really enjoyed it - it was just odd and a bit repulsive. I'm definitely not bi - I know I like worshipping women in a fetish sense but actually engaging in anything sexual is beyond me these days.

Although that photo of fairnymph with the kitty confuses me a little bit ;)
 
IMO

IMO - humans themselves have separated the sexes (in all forms)

of course we all have the potential to be multisexual

if there was no stereotypes or stigmas (not possible at this point of our evolution) - ...we wouldnt divide men and women into categories ....

we were born without bias - and should live as such

too bad brainwashing gets the better of us

"we're only behaving better than the monkeys cuz we bathe!"

in my ideal world ... any ONE person could have ANY relationship with another human being without being categorically denied access to other potential relationships or even judged/rejected by others for their choices

before ="keep it under the sheets" - as not to alarm the neighbours 8)

now = If I do not want what you want, please try not to tell me that my want is wrong.
Or if I believe other than you, at least pause before you correct my view.
Or yet if I act, or fail to act, in the manner of your design for action, let me be.
I do not, for the moment at least, ask you to understand me. That will come only when you are willing to give up changing me into a copy of you.
I may be your spouse, your parent, your offsping, your friend, or your colleague. If you will allow me any of my own wants, or emotions, or beliefs, or actions, then you open yourself, so that some day these ways of mine might not seem so wrong, and might finally appear to you as right -- for me.
To put up with me is the first step to understanding me. Not that you embrace my ways as right for you, but that you are no longer irritated or disappointed with me for my seeming waywardness.
And in understanding me you might come to prize my differences from you, and, far from seeking to change me, preserve and even nurture those differences.
-by David Keirsey (please understand me)
 
I'm omnisexual...

Seriously I've just never been 1 bit attracted to a man, nor can I ever see myself being so.
 
Fundamentally, we're all pleasure-seeking creatures.

Therefore, I've always thought that we're all bound to seek out pleasure as we can and that it is just a matter of how far our social conditioning and circumstances allow that to go.

It thus always seemed pretty logical to me that underneath it all, we all have bisexual urges... it's just a matter of allowing ourselves to acknowledge their existence.
 
I actually don't believe *everyone* is bisexual. I think a small percentage - maybe 5-10% actually are purely one way or the other.

A hell of a lot of people would like to put themselves in that extreme who aren't, however ;) Life experience throws up many curve balls.
 
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