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~Da LaVa LoUnGe~ (SLR Social Thread)

I only date Aliens - love the feel of that scaley skin & claws;)

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Wow! Could easily have ended up fucking my drug dealer's girlfriend. Nothing in that direction even happened, but I'm pretty sure it could have. Good thing I wasn't too fucked up, I don't want to be involved with anyone who's committed to a monogamous relationship - especially if that person happens to be my drug dealer. That falls hard in the "shitting where you eat" category.
 
Oh mah god, I am sooo damn bored everybody! I need to find a girl who's comfortable with psychedelics and doesn't mind just kicking back. I love going to raves, hanging with friends, but I'm ready to chill with someone cool. No idea why I decided to post this in here, but there you go.

What's everyone up to tonight?
 
djstrip said:
Oh mah god, I am sooo damn bored everybody! I need to find a girl who's comfortable with psychedelics and doesn't mind just kicking back. I love going to raves, hanging with friends, but I'm ready to chill with someone cool. No idea why I decided to post this in here, but there you go.

What's everyone up to tonight?
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It's morning here. :D

I really want to try psychedelics and wish I had someone I trusted a lot to try them out with. (No, this is not a subtle "hay hay!" post lol). I did them when I was younger, and I don't think I appreciated them. I want to do them now when I'm older, because I think I would appreciate them more.
 
Lysis said:
It's morning here. :D

I really want to try psychedelics and wish I had someone I trusted a lot to try them out with. (No, this is not a subtle "hay hay!" post lol). I did them when I was younger, and I don't think I appreciated them. I want to do them now when I'm older, because I think I would appreciate them more.
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Lol, no worries Ly, I know what you mean. I want to find someone who's open like myself and isn't just trying to get over on someone (the girls I've attracted in the past). I didn't get into psychedelics till after I turned 18. Actually I take that back, I experimented extensively with nitrous, salvia, and dxm in middle and very occasionally in high school. I learned what I could from those and moved past them, didn't really mess with any other substances till after high school.

Took my first shroom trip when i turned 18 or 19, started great ended horribly. I failed to plan out a good set and setting, although myself and my ex had a sitter for the two of us. I think the playlist I had on my ipod is what sent the trip down the drain. One song in particular that I forgot I had added to the list. Sounds of helicopters, sirens, gun shots, airplanes flying overhead, etc..ROFL sent my brain into a massive panic. It was terrifying at the time, but I laugh now :!

Yea, it's funny I always seem to end up talking to you when I reconnect with BL.....either that or I just see your name on random threads I read, lol. Back to meeting someone, I'm honestly really excited to meet someone who understands the reason I enjoy tripping and if they reciprocate those reasons that would be even better. For me it's spiritual, a lot of people I encounter out and about trip because they want to get away from their problems. I trip to go deeper into them and see them in a way I couldn't before, allows me to understand them and move past them. Yes the visuals are beautiful and the genuine laughter that comes with it are an awesome addition, but for me it's so much more then the aesthetic part of psychedelics for me.

I'm sure we'll both find what we're looking for as long as we keep living our lives

Nothing but love <3

-djstrip
 
This is one hell of "social thread", started almost 3 years ago! Then again, this is a sight with lots of antisocial drug-using people on it...so go figure!

So let's do something fun! Like a dating dictionary!

Abstinent = under 9 years old

Anal Sex = Bluelight's favorite sexual activity

Available = In a relationship/Married

Bad Boy = attractive loser

Confident = apathetic (see Gay)

Douche = anything that disturbs the naturally occuring bacterial colonies inside a vagina

Needy = single person who simply wants to recieve a little affectionate companionship

Nice Guy = unattractive douche

Spends more time with same sex friends than me = Gay

Strap-on dildo = part of every Bluelighter's (Male and Female) anal sex fantasy

Upset when asked to take an STD test = has genital warts
 
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Be Honest, man. If you don't love her/ trust her/ want to be exclusive with her, don't tell her you do. If your relationship is based on fucking, it is probably best to admit it, both to yourself and her. If you don't want to be tied up, let them know.

It not only makes it easier when you do break up, it makes the time you will spend together better also.
 
“There are great industries of psychotherapy that address our difficulties in 'relationships' -- that pallid, pseudoscientific word, the very timidity of which makes substantial attachments impossible. One has to have a tin ear to describe one's great love as a relationship.”
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-Alan Bloom
 
i need to be self pitying somewhere.

it's been a month since i have seen or talked to my boyfriend. i only know where he is because his family member told me he is in jail. (i do not have a cell phone right now and neither does he). i am getting more depressed with time, not getting over this at all. i only knew him for like a week before we were together. i don't normally do stupid shit like that, at all. hell, i knew my ex like a year and a half before we were together. i thought that's how i'd always be. and besides the ex, i would say he is the only one i've ever actually been "IN LOVE" with. he's gorgeous and very smart and constantly hilarious and so odd. i had no qualms with rushing into anything, it didn't feel like rushing.

anyway, everything reminds me of him and i'm missing heroin more (last time i used was months ag. i have that falling into a black hole, distorted reality sadness feeling. and there's nothing to be done. but drink. and talk about him too much. GODDAMNIT it's insane how many times a day something reminds me of him. i hate love. i hate this. i'd rather be high all the goddamn time than feel this way but i'm broke anyway.
 
Jean-Paul, it sounds like you are experiencing PAWS - Post-Acute Withdrawal Syndrome, which is common in opiate users, especially long term. If you would like more info on it, check my forum, Other Drugs.
Basically, you need to eat well, exercise (both body and mind) and cut out as many other substances, including alcohol and cigarettes, as you can so that your body can start repairing itself and balancing its neuro-transmitters.
 
mostly towards the women: if you had a nickname for a boyfriend in the past, would you call a different boyfriend (eg. 5 years later) the same nickname?

don't know why, but that sort of bothers me... :o
 
I had a really intense sex dream last night. The only thing is, its only made me feel depressed, and here's why:

1.) I havent had a sex dream in ages
2.) It was about the man I was in love with for a while of my life who no longer wants to speak to me because im an asshole

The whole thing really upset me and ive been horny and upset all day. :(
 
Ah the "gay" lifestyle. So many men to use and take for granted, so little time. ;)

Seriously though. At worst you know how not to treat someone whom you would like to stick around. :) <3

Me? Apparently my penis looks bigger on television, because a recent lay brought Magnum condoms to our funtime.

They fit better than the Durex one's I picked up.

:p
 
This one is for all my SLR peeps, past and present, lovers and haters:

Gus Gus - Over


I believe in the transformative power of music.

*much love and booty butt slaps to each and everyone of you perverts*
 
well, i found out what jail he is in. i am going to write him letters.

i was a hanson fan & backstreet boy tard back in the day and my friend says my boyfriend looks like he should be in a boy band. i think i really only care about drugs, art, and BEAUTY. i'm intelligent, but so superficial...could explain my andy warhol tattoo.

oh, feeling sad inside. the knots in my back are getting worse. thank god i have a friend to massage it sometimes since i donj't any muscle relaxers right now. how do i know i'm crazy? well, my psychiatrist prescribes meds he shouldn't because he feels sorry for me.........
 
i have not and will not ever admit this to people i know, but i kind of wished he had knocked me up. he came in me a couple of times without protection. i DO NOT want kids EVER and i HAVE had abortions, and do not feel bad about it at all. well maybe a litle, but not seriously. i just cannot breed, being how i am. but i wished he has knocked me up. what the FUCK is up with that shit? i have NEVER been this in love.
 
CHiLD-0F-THE-BEAT said:
Have you spoken to him recently? Time can be a great healer, and people do change. <3
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The last conversation we had went a little something like this:

Me: "Youve spent 6 months away, have you come out yet? If so im DTF. Hope youre doing well"
Bryan: "Youre an idiot"


This whole situation is such a long story, but ill give you a summary so you dont just think im a dick (though I guess I sort of am - teehee). I met bryan through a then mutual friend, and after just a few times being with him I knew I had feelings. Bryan and I became business partners, in a sence, and through the time we spent together I not only fell in love with him, I was convinced he was gay. The thing is though, I wasnt the only one convinced, pretty much everyone was. His friends, my friends, his girlfriend, strangers who met us together, my parents when they met him, pretty much everyone. I could go into grave detail as to what led to these thoughts, but ill save you the time.

Anyway, after about 6 months working together and about a year of knowing each other/being friends our friendship and business together came to a really abrupt end when he started treated me like dirt. We spent the next 8 months or so not taking to each other, and when it was clear my shot had ended completely and we would probably never see each other (im no longer friends with the mutual friend or really anyone he was close friends with), I decided id just go for it and ask.

I dont know when ill be over him, but I hope its soon.

Noodle said:
Ah the "gay" lifestyle. So many men to use and take for granted, so little time. ;)

Seriously though. At worst you know how not to treat someone whom you would like to stick around. :) <3
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Too true
 
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