If people are hassling you through multiple channels online and getting to you IRL - it really must serve as a lesson to everyone that uses this site (and similar) that internet privacy and security are vitally important, especially if you are disclosing information under an online persona that you want to be kept seperate from other parts of your life.
Don't get me wrong - nobody deserves to be harassed or stalked online, but the world is not always a kind, forgiving place - and it doesn't help matters if you share large amounts of private information on forums such as bluelight that cover all manner of sensitive material such as drug use.
Trusting strangers to keep your personal information private is altogether too trusting.
I am very careful about what i divulge on bluelight.
While I've hung out with and become friends with plenty of other members off the forum - and one or two of my friends know my BL pseudonym - that's it.
I see it as private and keep things as discreet as possible.
Evey, i'm not having a go at your or saying you deserve any of this. But it is pretty risky to be really open about your life online, especially when you are revealing the kind of vulnerabilities and private information as many bluelighters do.
I don't know the full story besides what you have eluded to, but i daresay that jumping off both suboxone and antidepressants at the same time will probably increase - for a while at least - your sense of being in crisis.
Not sure if you have detoxed completely from opiates before, but it can take weeks, and really messes with your sleep, your moods, your digestion - amongst other things - if you do it too quickly.
I've never taken the antidepressant you are on, but know that the withdrawal symptoms from abrupt cessation of many of that class of drugs can be quite uncomfortable as well.
Put simply, coming off your meds will not give you any sense of short-term stability. It is a good thing to aim for and work towards, but there are many good reasons it is not recommended.
Good luck.
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