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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

I would like to take a moment to stand up and applaud UAN for her tremendous effort at staying in this thread this time around *stands and claps*
 
katmeow said:
An amazing thing happened today. I was at my family Christmas party for no less than 7 hours and not one person asked me whether I had a boyfriend yet.
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lol yeah same here but my sister is pregnant so she got all the attention.


when I finish my course I'm seriouly thinking of leaving Sydney.

Melbourne look out!! ;)
 
haha thanks for the support girls. What ever made you doubt me?!?! ;)

So my first real sojourn into the singles world was a bit of a train wreck.

Went to a fantastic pool party last night and met lots of new people. One of these was a guy who apparently went to the same school as me [lets call him B] and we spent most of the afternoon/ night talking and beating each other up with inflatable swords while on inflatable dragons. We had lots of fun and he's the first guy in ages who I've thought was really cool. Anyway, the whole day people were giving him shit about a girl and when she called he was doing the whole my-girlfriend-the-ball-breaker act although he never said it was his girlfriend.

Fast forward to later that night when I'd woken up from being passed out and was still pretty out of it. I was in the pool and this guy that I'd only been talking to for a bit kissed me. It took a while for it to compute and then I said, 'um, yeah no thanks.' I went straight back inside to get another drink and B was there so I asked him if he wanted another. He acted really shitty and said, 'so you and him, hey. Did you kiss him?' I laughed and said that was a weird question to ask and he replied, 'yeah well I was trying all day and got nowhere. So good on him.' then walked off.

Not long after he left the party and I've been thinking all day that if he was actually single I would like to see him again.

My question is:
a) Is it too stalker-y to ask the host of the party if B has a girlfriend [they're good friends] and if he doesn't, get his phone number?
b) If he thinks I got together with the other guy would he want to see me, anyway?

Maybe I should just leave it because it really was nothing. It's just rare I meet someone who I click with straight away.
 
'yeah well I was trying all day and got nowhere. So good on him.'

oh where is shakespeare when you need him?
what a fucktard
 
no way is it too stalkery! :)

then again...
maybe i'm not the best person to ask!

he quite clearly likes you so it's not like it's unsolicited attention!

i'm sure (if it even comes up) that if you explain the situation with the other guy then it will be problemo solved!
 
up all night said:
My question is:
a) Is it too stalker-y to ask the host of the party if B has a girlfriend [they're good friends] and if he doesn't, get his phone number?
b) If he thinks I got together with the other guy would he want to see me, anyway?

Maybe I should just leave it because it really was nothing. It's just rare I meet someone who I click with straight away.
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My answers:-

a) Personally,I don't think it is.But,if it's seen that way,I think they are too judgemental.The worst they can suggest is an AVO,he,he,he........... 8o .

I say go for it.I especially think it would seem ok coming from a girl,guys are mainly seen as 'SCARY STALKERS!!!!' if they do an approach like this.

b)Don't know.Only one way to find out..... GO FOR IT!!!!!!! ;)

Good luck Up All Night :),sometimes it can be hard to find someone that you can really click with(It does for me :( .) .You NEVER know could lead to something fun and/or nice %) .
 
UAN: you didnt ask 4 advice, but, take a break. its not easy, but well worth it for sorting out what you want.

peace out (i feel like such a hippy saying that) %)
 
^^^ i'm with the take a break team (who so far only has two members ;)). distraction can be good, but if done to soon it usually only leaves you feeling empty, not to mention craving the sense of connection you once had with your ex.
 
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I think you two are right, really. Although I am a dweller and I can dwell and reminisce for waaaay too long so sometimes distractions are great. As I said to Miss P earlier tonight, it was just great to meet someone who I found interesting enough to want to see again. Even just knowing there is the possibilty that I'll be attracted to someone else was really reassuring.

Anyway, I'm going to stop posting in this thread now I promise. ;)
 
Up All Night,of course do what you think will make you happy.But,don't lead on or hurt anyone.
 
I love it when a chic comes up to me and says she used to have the biggest crush on me... Then you wake up in the morning next to her ;)
 
So the other day, I read this book in which a character declared his love after 5days of knowing someone. Then I happened to watch Garden State on the same night, where the same thing occured again.

Besides the fact that this is unrealistic tripe, I think the storylines of popular fiction mediums such as these are designed to make us feel guilty about being single.

Thoughts?

Anyway, I'm still here. I just need to get laid, and soon ;)
 
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