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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

and i say its time we start hanging shite on those in relationships...


geez its fun to be able to get home whatever time you want....
if you get home at all...

geez its fun to be able to just go out with your mates if you choose...
or have them over whenever you choose...

geez its great to be able to pick up...

you know, you do get tired of the same body every nite... ;)

it's also great not to have a thumb print on my forehead...
 
Well I am recently single and I really prefer to be in a relationship, although I dont mind being single. I like to have someone to share with. I miss the compainionship and the conversation and the way everything, even cleaning an oven, becomes interesting when you do it together (I might be being slightly idealistic there). I also (the one thing about single life that really shits me) hate the way it seems to make some females treat me differently, as if once they discover I am single all conversation and friendly interaction up till that point means nothing and they are forced to make some sort of life and death choice between fucking me and never speaking to me again (not all girls are like this of course). I will, however, probably soften up to the idea of being single as time goes on, and to be fair, it does already have a few noteable advantages.

I think you have to be a certain type of person to really enjoy being single. I am not realistically very likely to ever take a random I met at a bar or something home, nor for that matter am I likely to even ask. I havent ever had a one night stand that I have enjoyed. Actually I dont really tend to sleep with anyone outside of relationships. Its not that I am against sleeping around, its just that playing the whole angling game is too much trouble.

hrmmm..... Maybe I should try sleeping around.....

soooooo.... ummmm...... muzby..... what you up too tonight? *josh winks seductively*

:) =D
 
lube yourself up dude... ;)

just remember, i dont take....


*note to up all nite - see, its not just the girls who can give the faux bisexuality.... ;)
 
muzby said:
lube yourself up dude... ;)

just remember, i dont take....


*note to up all nite - see, its not just the girls who can give the faux bisexuality.... ;)
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Oh damn muzby, and you told me if I swallowed that I'd be yours forever... You ass.
 
You are his forever. That doesn't mean he can't share the love around, does it?
 
ahh i knew sum1 would start this up sooner or later...
forgive me father for i am single,
it has been over a year since my last girlfriend,
over 6 months since my last pash,

i have a love hate relationship with my single life, i love some things but i hate many others. maybe its just me but i find it extreamly hard to find a girl who appeals to me and who also likes me in that sense. Note: alcohol doesnt help coz im too smart for it which causes me to know that everything i see is not as appealing as it looks.
i've found that most girls that i believe would be perfectly suited i have already become friends with which makes it hard to pursue anything with.

ahh enough about my pathetic single life... whos up for a d & d ball =D heheheh
 
So how do you guys approach women in a way that doesn't make you sound like a pervert/ loser/ desperate fool? And how do the women like to be approached?

Pick-up lines and general 'you're hot' compliments never work for me because I think the guy is either blind, retarded or desperate and therefore I try and steer clear. That being said, I very, very rarely get approached so I have no idea what I'd respond favourably to.

And girls, if you see a guy that you want to approach what do you do? Do guys like being approached or do they see it as their domain and get intimidated by confident women?

I'm so out completely clueless when it comes to this sort of stuff. It's all such a big ridiculous game.
 
pick up lines will never work on me because i expect hours and hours of conversation over two or more dates before i'm going to let a guy move on me. unless he's really hot, and i'm feeling horny... then i use him (kissin and flirting only i mean) and then send him home "hard" with a dodgy number... i usually give him a mobile with 1 number to few, or really badly scrawled so that it is ambiguous as to what iy might read... just to torment him a little.
 
i'd be pumped up if a girl approached me, but then again, i probably wouldn't actually believe that they were interested and thus instantly bail, scared.

regardless i am never, ever, ever approached. how surprising :p

oh, i'm not bitter :)
 
Ah I think that you should just be yourself and see what floats down the river. If you try and look for a relationship too much you will probably pick a bad one but if you just follow your feelings you can't go wrong.

And yer, most guys don't have the guts to approach girls so take it easy on us eh...

But having said that it is good to know that someone, somewhere is thinking about you.

A relationship is a gift and it should be treated like one :) Don't go looking for your pressie, wait till one is in your hands!
 
Well I definitely don't mind being approached by women. It's not intimidating at all. It shows that the girl knows what she wants and I find that attractive.
Although at times I have been caught off guard when women have approached me. I guess, because it doesn't happen all-that-often, it's always an unexpected thing and sometimes I don't recognise it when it's happening.

As for approaching women, it's always a tricky affair. Usually, I like to have something to talk about with them, an icebreaker. And it helps if it's something that we can laugh about.
The other night, a friend and I decided to approach some women that we were eyeing from across the room. A bold move, by my standards.
Our plan was to go over to their table and ask if we could sit with them and chat.
When we got there, we noticed that the women were actually older and, erm, less attractive than they appeared from across the room. So we wished them well and made a "tactful retreat".
The women just laughed at us and I felt like a bit of a dick, but that's always the gamble you take :D .
 
I am so single right now it is not funny and have been my whole life, and i am.... 20 year of age and im not ugly.. well i dont think, its the way it goes for me, i do want something soon i hope!!!! but i aint looking for it, im having way to much fuc just going out and having an absolute ball, yeah i am sexually deprived and probably touch myself... alot, but thats all behind closed doors and only i know the truth ;)
And i didnt post in here cause im looking, just cause i felt like it
hello keej my BIG girl ;) woah :O
 
onetwothreefour said:
wow trip'n'pussy, you sound like a really nice kinda girl, i can't believe that you'd be single!
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what is the mood of your post onetwothreefour? could you please add an emoticon! i was about to say you looked cute in the post a recent pic thread, and wondered why you'd be single too, but then got a little paranoid about what you were really trying to say. but i'll take a chance...
call me some time bigboy 040220!43.


:p
 
I want someone to tell me to shut the fuck up and someone who is smart(highly intelligent) without being arrogant. I dont think that this is even possible.

I dont want a realtionship, quite frankly I am very bitter at the moment and hate the thought of sharing time with someone that could get potenially close and pull away.

I want that friend thing. Yeah that casual thing. God I miss those days of juts being with someone cus it was fun and there was nothing better to do. It seems that if you are with someone these days.. maybe its sydney.. maybe its my age... everyone just seems so seriously entwined in their situations. Me included.

Did everyone forget how old they are ? I certainly have, I forgot that relationships dont have to be all work... they dont have to be a constant emotional strain. They can be fun and lighthearted and most importantly.. pointless. That is what I am after ... but only if it finds me.

I am not actively seeking anything, I feel weird even typing out this post
 
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^ but your hot..... and that was shallow of me to say
Mel baby good things come to bellas that wait ;)

Waits for rich business man with mansion on the harbour to shower her with gifts and buy her plastic surgery then leave her with an unlimited credit card to "play" while he goes O/s on business.. alot :) ;)

*dreamer*
 
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