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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2

I found this on another board and thought it was an interesting topic to bring up.

So you meet someone but the question is

If your partner didnt believe in sex before marriage how long would you last?
 
it really depends on how you feel about the partner

for me i would be fine with it if it was one girl i like, but if im just with the person for an attraction that is mainly physical then i doubt it would last as long.

you've really got to ask yourself why you are in the relationship before you can answer that

-dee
 
Pseudo G said:
I'm single and I hate it. I don't necessarily want a girl friend or sexual partner, just someone to be close to. Someone to speak completely honestly to without fear of being judged. A person I can be completely open with and enjoy spending a lot of time with.

Then again a little bit of dirty rumpty pumpty wouldn't go astray either :D

Totally agree here! Nicely put :D
 
Hmmm, currently coming up on 3 years in singledom penitentiary.
Of course there's been a share of conjugal visits along the way,
but i would like to get out and stretch my legs in the relationship world.

Seems that being single has just become a way of life at the moment. I think i am so used to it i sometimes forget to look, or place as much energy into changing the situation as i probably should. It just isn't a driving force
at the moment ans so i find myself being quite content in the company
of friends.

Having said that , it would be great to find someone who can make you
forget you were ever single for that long in the first place, who's company you adore, not just simply abide.


:)
 
My mood/opinions on things can change hourly but at this very moment I enjoy being single. Because I haven't found anyone thats worth going out with for a while. I can take lots of drugs and not worry about what my partner thinks. I don't want to have to pay attention to someone, I just wanna dance!!!
 
Firstly....So true. If i had the choice between dancing to an great track and talking to a glamour, I choose the dancing.

Secondly...that is one thing I dont miss about being single - the worrying about your partner in a club etc. I'm horrible at that, always concerned for friends, and even more for loved ones.

Thirdly... im seeing a model right now and couldnt be happier. Will be seeing her in melbourne also. :)
 
ive always looked at it this way:

when ur single: u do all the things possible that you can't do when ur not!

when ur commited: you do all the things u cant do when ur single!

i figure that aslong as i experience both thru out my "youth" (turning 20 soon), i would have experienced the best of both worlds!

ONTOP of all that: i think ive fallen for this girl at UNI, she is just so cute, guna ask her out this wednesday when i see her again! she will probably be the first real "stranger" that i'll ask out!

"stranger" as in spoken to her and just recently spent a little more time with her during a tute at uni but i really dont know her at all!
 
well everyone, although i have been merely a lurker in this thread... the time has come for me to leave.

Bloss is no longer single. nor is she no longer bored. and in particular is no longer lonely!

i really like this one!!! :)

wish me luck! its the first *official* relationship in about 3 years... =D

*runs away to go snuggle with her boy!*
 
^^Damn you and your obvious non-singleness. This thread is for pathetic whining singletons only. How dare you soil it with talk of happiness, love and other such evil lusts of the flesh. You didnt even try to sound bitter in order to blend in with the general tone!

;) ;)

Nah I'm just kidding. Congratulations, I wish you much happiness and loads of good times. :) :)
 
hahaha nice one bloss :) happy for you!

i've just started seeing someone new whos the most amazing girl i've ever met but i live in syd and she lives in canberra so we'll see how that goes. shes worth it so far! =D
 
Cpt.Caveman said:


i've just started seeing someone new whos the most amazing girl i've ever met but i live in syd and she lives in canberra so we'll see how that goes. shes worth it so far! =D

It's a long, lonely drive on the way home from canberra.

Good luck, LDRs can be hard work!
 
i'm currently seeing someone in sydney, its been around 1 and a half years now. so yeah, i'm getting laid as much as you single people.

cant wait till i move dammit.
 
*stretches and reclines*

I can no longer be fucked thinking about relationships or sex.

In fact, I think I've resigned myself to be that odd person out everywhere I go for the remainder of my life.

meh :\

- moe
 
Just in response to marcs... I don't think you have to stop doing anything when your single OR in a relationship, why would it matter to your partner if they are accepting who you are or your life (which is part of who you are) what you do? as in they should not expect you to give up anything that you do ....

oh my date went really well friday night...be seeing him again next week :)
 
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