crazy_160_
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starfalls69.....sounds like I coulda written your post exactly.....
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Bluelight Singles thread "Living without justification" Part 2
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up all night
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Sir Unsquare: Lets make bluelight babies and sell them for 16 love nests and a night on the town. I'll give you my sunglasses in exchange for a cowboy hat and a pea shooter.
jimbu
Bluelighter
i've been lurking in this thread for years ...
well, i hooked up with my best friend and it seems to be working out really well .. so i guess i'm kind of out of here for now.
well, i hooked up with my best friend and it seems to be working out really well .. so i guess i'm kind of out of here for now.
Now thats interesting jimbu, that can be a great situation when you just realised that your great for each other after being blind to eachother for so many years. Or you could come out with no friednship at all (not being negitive on your situation at all)
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neverwas
Bluelighter
crazy_160_ said:
*hands you a pickle* we can share if you want
things with my relationship stakes still havent changed. I havent talked to my security guard all week hopeing this might cause the drift i want to use as an excuse to cool things off...but it hasnt. he msg'd me last night saying he missed my smile at work
![:\](https://bluelight.org/xf/BL_Images/Orig_Emoji/wrygrin.gif "wry grin :\")
it seems like an innocent msg but i dont want to drag him along for a ride when i want off it. it wouldnt be fare.*sighs*
*watches a tumble weed roll across the ground*
so tonight i am hoping to explain it all to him. he knows somethings up and i havent been in a good head space all week. i just hope its not going to cause troubles at work eg: awkwardness etc and he hasnt got attatched...yet...
-PSychiK-
Ex-Bluelighter
^ The sooner you tell him the less bullshit you will have to deal with.
So I totally embarrassed myself on friday..
scenario: This chic I've had a "crush" on for quiet a while (i see her like everyday) asked me to go out with her and her friends on friday which she has asked a couple of times now, and of coarse I took this as a positive sign. So, drinks flowing and much flirting and so forth to be had... Come about midnight, I decide to give up hope and catch the train home. Sitting on the train, it's not departing for another 15mins. I get up and go back to the bar. Deciding I'm going to go in for the kill....
I walk straight up to her, and say "I want to kiss you!", her "Ohh, thats soo sweet of you, but I can't" Me: *Ultra sad face of disappointment* Her: "I hope your ok"
*plane crashes in ball of flames*
Tail btwn my legs, I walk away
DAMMIT!
scenario: This chic I've had a "crush" on for quiet a while (i see her like everyday) asked me to go out with her and her friends on friday which she has asked a couple of times now, and of coarse I took this as a positive sign. So, drinks flowing and much flirting and so forth to be had... Come about midnight, I decide to give up hope and catch the train home. Sitting on the train, it's not departing for another 15mins. I get up and go back to the bar. Deciding I'm going to go in for the kill....
I walk straight up to her, and say "I want to kiss you!", her "Ohh, thats soo sweet of you, but I can't" Me: *Ultra sad face of disappointment* Her: "I hope your ok"
*plane crashes in ball of flames*
Tail btwn my legs, I walk away
DAMMIT!
Mary Poppins
Bluelighter
^
sorry to hear that, hey.
i have found myself in a strange position lately...normally i have this little list in my mind of my crushes....(i develop crushes...errr...too easily probably) but lately it's almost disappeared for various reasons, most of them my own nonsensical neuroses and illogical fussiness.
One example - went out on friday night and one of my crushes was out...he'd rung me that morning to check i'd be going and so it was all looking positive. We spent the whole night talking and stuff and we were progressively getting drunker. Basically he came a bit late so he was playing catch up --- so for the first while of the night i was much drunker than he was, then he succeeded in catch up, and was much drunker than me. Once he was that drunk, for some reason, I really didn't find him attractive anymore...no idea really why, he wasn't particularly a hideous or uncontrolled or annoying drunk, I was just like...meh....
Especially annoying as of course, as is the way, something would have definitely have happened if i'd wanted it to.
So yeah, I'm kinda floundering without my little list....anyone who wants to be my crush let me know, it's relatively painless and you don't even have to have a crush on me...in fact i'll probably like you a lot more if you don't
sorry to hear that, hey.
i have found myself in a strange position lately...normally i have this little list in my mind of my crushes....(i develop crushes...errr...too easily probably) but lately it's almost disappeared for various reasons, most of them my own nonsensical neuroses and illogical fussiness.
One example - went out on friday night and one of my crushes was out...he'd rung me that morning to check i'd be going and so it was all looking positive. We spent the whole night talking and stuff and we were progressively getting drunker. Basically he came a bit late so he was playing catch up --- so for the first while of the night i was much drunker than he was, then he succeeded in catch up, and was much drunker than me. Once he was that drunk, for some reason, I really didn't find him attractive anymore...no idea really why, he wasn't particularly a hideous or uncontrolled or annoying drunk, I was just like...meh....
Especially annoying as of course, as is the way, something would have definitely have happened if i'd wanted it to.
So yeah, I'm kinda floundering without my little list....anyone who wants to be my crush let me know, it's relatively painless and you don't even have to have a crush on me...in fact i'll probably like you a lot more if you don't
crazy_160_
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ahhhhh a little list of crushes, I was trying to think of a term for that today, and here it is, thanking you very muchly.
Because I've found myself in a similar position......I've always had a fair few fellas I like, who I flirt with, some of who I may hook up with from time to time, and when I have a major crash, i.e. when I am rejected *sob*, its nice to play through my "list of crushes" in my head, and know that someone there would definitely make me feel better, even just by running into them at the supermarket and saying hi, giving me that little "ohhh he is sooooooo cute" high... And sometimes, its nice to have on that list the guy who is completely unattainable but its fun to run into him at the pub, and then ring all my mates and tell them word for word the conversation (and to think I am in my early thirties, and not a teenager.....)
Well......today...I realised there is nobody on that list anymore. I thought 3 boys were still on it. But over the weekend, I saw all 3 and there was just no feeling there at all.....nothing, infact seeing one of them pashing and groping some hot blondie didn't even bother me like it normally would. WHATS GOING ON?
It makes the whole idea of Friday night drinks at the pub a little less exciting now.
Because I've found myself in a similar position......I've always had a fair few fellas I like, who I flirt with, some of who I may hook up with from time to time, and when I have a major crash, i.e. when I am rejected *sob*, its nice to play through my "list of crushes" in my head, and know that someone there would definitely make me feel better, even just by running into them at the supermarket and saying hi, giving me that little "ohhh he is sooooooo cute" high... And sometimes, its nice to have on that list the guy who is completely unattainable but its fun to run into him at the pub, and then ring all my mates and tell them word for word the conversation (and to think I am in my early thirties, and not a teenager.....)
Well......today...I realised there is nobody on that list anymore. I thought 3 boys were still on it. But over the weekend, I saw all 3 and there was just no feeling there at all.....nothing, infact seeing one of them pashing and groping some hot blondie didn't even bother me like it normally would. WHATS GOING ON?
It makes the whole idea of Friday night drinks at the pub a little less exciting now.
Mary Poppins
Bluelighter
^ you sound just like me in that respect
i could have easily written that post!
i want a new list dammit!
i could have easily written that post!
i want a new list dammit!
anna!
Bluelight Crew
You can both borrow some of my list. Being married sucks for crushes 
anna!
Bluelight Crew
I'm getting a two year itch
Not that I would ever act on it. But damn.
Not that I would ever act on it. But damn.
Mary Poppins
Bluelighter
^ you got five more to go before you can put on a sexy white dress and stand above drafty grates anna! heh. 
xcididum: why? because you want to fuck other people or because of issues with your g/f?
does the itch ever really go away?
xcididum: why? because you want to fuck other people or because of issues with your g/f?
does the itch ever really go away?
anna!
Bluelight Crew
Eep
I think it depends on the person. I'm sure my elderly grandparents don't have the itch. I know my dad doesn't, but I think my mum probably does.
I think it depends on the person. I'm sure my elderly grandparents don't have the itch. I know my dad doesn't, but I think my mum probably does.
Rubber_Duck
Bluelighter
hrmmmm
i always get the itch when im in a relationship, but once im out of it, its like i cant be bothered, like there's no "itch" so to speak.
I guess when you are single the "itch" is like a scratch, you have to act upon it. You have nothing to loose!
Where as when u are in a relationship, you have your crush list but you know you have someone to fall back on, sort of thing.
Not that i ever condone to cheat!
i always get the itch when im in a relationship, but once im out of it, its like i cant be bothered, like there's no "itch" so to speak.
I guess when you are single the "itch" is like a scratch, you have to act upon it. You have nothing to loose!
Where as when u are in a relationship, you have your crush list but you know you have someone to fall back on, sort of thing.
Not that i ever condone to cheat!
hhc_king
Bluelighter
i'm lovin being single atm .... it rawks
both....kinda. Well not so much fuck other people, but do my own thing, and not have another person to consider. Sounds selfish I know, but I don't think I'm being a good boyfriend anymore, which hurts me, because it hurts her. (not physically, BTW, emotionally).Mary Poppins said:
I love her to death but I think I want to be single again. I really don't know.
I'm not sure if I'm Okay with being in a serious relationship anymore because it feels like we've come to the end of our road, like nothing is getting better and nothing is getting worse.
I fear I got in this one far too quickly from my previous one.
Lust is an addictive feeling.