miss apple
Bluelighter
who needs a bath tap?
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miss apple
Bluelighter
hey mods...just a housekeeping post.
can one of you please do me a favour and put all the singles threads that are closed and still in this forum in the archive?
it'd be cool to keep them all.
cheers
can one of you please do me a favour and put all the singles threads that are closed and still in this forum in the archive?
it'd be cool to keep them all.
cheers
PsychoKitten
Bluelight Crew
^^^ plan to
that's a nice pic apples but i still prefer my faucet to my vibes
although with the water restrictions I do have to compromise occasionally
[ 25 February 2003: Message edited by: PsychoKitten ]
that's a nice pic apples but i still prefer my faucet to my vibes
although with the water restrictions I do have to compromise occasionally
[ 25 February 2003: Message edited by: PsychoKitten ]
SupaDiscoBreaka
Bluelighter
Miss KO2:
*sobs*
I thought I knew better than that too. Kinda reminds me of when I was fighting in 'Nam where fb1 pulled me out of the path of a bullet to explain the differences between the simian races. For his helping out with my problem, I owed him my life. Now he saves me from potential embarassment in the singles thread which would have meant I'd never get any again.
fb1: *hi5*
I owe you two now buddy!
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The Double Ended Dildo
*It's a win-win situation!*(tm)
[ 25 February 2003: Message edited by: SupaDiscoBreaka ]
*sobs*
I thought I knew better than that too. Kinda reminds me of when I was fighting in 'Nam where fb1 pulled me out of the path of a bullet to explain the differences between the simian races. For his helping out with my problem, I owed him my life. Now he saves me from potential embarassment in the singles thread which would have meant I'd never get any again.
fb1: *hi5*
I owe you two now buddy!
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The Double Ended Dildo
*It's a win-win situation!*(tm)
[ 25 February 2003: Message edited by: SupaDiscoBreaka ]
punch e punch
Bluelighter
Yeh, I like being single.
It allows me the personal freedom to do all those things I enjoy doing, like walking down the street backwards, or collecting chip packets, or cooking naked (actually I live with my Mum, so I don't get to do that much anyway
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Nobody to complain when I suddenly feel the urge to fart 'The Lords Prayer', or if I want to watch movies in rewind, or if i want to sleep in the linen closet for a change,
No siree, I wouldn't give those things up for any women.
Fuck it, I'm going to bed
It allows me the personal freedom to do all those things I enjoy doing, like walking down the street backwards, or collecting chip packets, or cooking naked (actually I live with my Mum, so I don't get to do that much anyway
)Nobody to complain when I suddenly feel the urge to fart 'The Lords Prayer', or if I want to watch movies in rewind, or if i want to sleep in the linen closet for a change,
No siree, I wouldn't give those things up for any women.
Fuck it, I'm going to bed
Cosmic Mist
Bluelighter
^^Lol! ALthough i do not feel the need to fart the lord's prayer, or sleep in the linnen closet (it's too small,) i do relate to this. Between work, uni, and my other various commitments, it would be REALLY hard to find someone who could capture my attention for long enough for me to be with them and give them the attention that i feel a partner deserves.
If they were worth it though, i would know i guess, and i would probably make consessions if i had to...
But there's no one like that in my life at the moment, so it's all good.
If they were worth it though, i would know i guess, and i would probably make consessions if i had to...
But there's no one like that in my life at the moment, so it's all good.
huxley
Bluelighter
Originally posted by miss apple:
who needs a bath tap?
So how is mr dolphin going anyway miss apple? :D
I was tempted to post another photo I've seem of him recently, but I wouldn't do that to you here
hux.
miss apple
Bluelighter
erm...yeah thanks for that. I thought about posting that photo here myself but...well...nup.
ok I think that's enough internet discussion about derrick
btw hux - the chick who had the photo put in 3d world wasn't me (she's the sushi star this week). so I have no idea who melissa is.
[ 26 February 2003: Message edited by: miss apple ]
ok I think that's enough internet discussion about derrick
btw hux - the chick who had the photo put in 3d world wasn't me (she's the sushi star this week). so I have no idea who melissa is.
[ 26 February 2003: Message edited by: miss apple ]
Its Chaos
Bluelighter
a thread i can post in!meh...to bad its the singles thread.But now ill have lots of time to play on the net cause i got'a use up my time instead of thinking of her,i must keep myself busy cause all i ever did was think of her!
Yes last night i finally came to the conclussion that the last 6 months of my trying to make things better and win back my girl is pointless and had become very draining on me.The only reason i kept on going was because i was still getting love from her but it was all in dribs and drabs.She still used to do special things for me that kept me holding on,but then id get ignored for the rest of the week and id go insane.
Ive never really been out of a relationship and ive always lived with my partner.When i moved out of my folks place i lived with my then girl for 4 years.Then i had a 2 month break and moved in with my next girlfriend for 2 years.
Finally i lived with my last g/f for a year before it went to the crapper and from there its been and cross counrty mountain bike ride(up/down) and honestly i hate cross country!Ive lived on my own now for the last like almost 12 months and in that time we have been seeing each other but fuck all.She lives with someone who hates me,and the lovz returnd there so its a bitch to visit her without flatmate running out of cave yelling at me and her work makes her too tiered to visit me during the week (wank-wank-load of shit)!
Im just not used to life without a partner!Yes i lone for companionship,It rox!Maybe its all im used to and i should geting into this living on my own lifestyle,but that sux!I hate on my own.Yeah i have friends,i have a great bunch of friends ive known since the time i could walk,but when there all toast on drugs,its not much help!I guess thats why ive always loved being with and living with my g/f,cause shes not one of the boyz.
excuse my rant,but instead of sitting here doing my sconez its so much better ranting about it here
Yes last night i finally came to the conclussion that the last 6 months of my trying to make things better and win back my girl is pointless and had become very draining on me.The only reason i kept on going was because i was still getting love from her but it was all in dribs and drabs.She still used to do special things for me that kept me holding on,but then id get ignored for the rest of the week and id go insane.
Ive never really been out of a relationship and ive always lived with my partner.When i moved out of my folks place i lived with my then girl for 4 years.Then i had a 2 month break and moved in with my next girlfriend for 2 years.
Finally i lived with my last g/f for a year before it went to the crapper and from there its been and cross counrty mountain bike ride(up/down) and honestly i hate cross country!Ive lived on my own now for the last like almost 12 months and in that time we have been seeing each other but fuck all.She lives with someone who hates me,and the lovz returnd there so its a bitch to visit her without flatmate running out of cave yelling at me and her work makes her too tiered to visit me during the week (wank-wank-load of shit)!
Im just not used to life without a partner!Yes i lone for companionship,It rox!Maybe its all im used to and i should geting into this living on my own lifestyle,but that sux!I hate on my own.Yeah i have friends,i have a great bunch of friends ive known since the time i could walk,but when there all toast on drugs,its not much help!I guess thats why ive always loved being with and living with my g/f,cause shes not one of the boyz.
excuse my rant,but instead of sitting here doing my sconez its so much better ranting about it here
doofqueen
Bluelighter
what is sad about my life at the moment is that my pc broke down sunday nite and this is the 1st chance ive had 2 go online and im at the libary using their pcs...this is the way i get most interaction with ppl ...forums, msn etc and im so fucking lonely without my pc its kinda scary being a sole parent tho i am stuck at home alot so it totally sux i need real ppl not cyber ppl to talk to i think...not that anyone here isnt real but u know what i mean....i know i know...lets all come over my place 4 a party 
being a sole parent tho i am stuck at home alot so it totally sux i need real ppl not cyber ppl to talk to i think...not that anyone here isnt real but u know what i mean....i know i know...lets all come over my place 4 a party 
SupaDiscoBreaka
Bluelighter
Weeeeeell... Last night I was trying out a few pickup lines (which I'm goign to investigate furthur) and the two ones with the best responses were "You know, you should be a model" and "Hey. My two favourite things are commitment and changing myself"
One of my favorites.
Leaning on the bar waiting to be served, cute girl comes to stand at the bar next to you. Look her in the eyes and smile...
"Hi, having a good night?"
"Yeah not bad"
...(pause)...
Lean over and say in her ear:
"This is where you offer to buy me a drink."
Smile and throw in a wink for good measure.
Never fails :D
Leaning on the bar waiting to be served, cute girl comes to stand at the bar next to you. Look her in the eyes and smile...
"Hi, having a good night?"
"Yeah not bad"
...(pause)...
Lean over and say in her ear:
"This is where you offer to buy me a drink."
Smile and throw in a wink for good measure.
Never fails :D
/\/\/\/\ has my gold stamp of approval.
but it all depends on the delivery if you ask me. you can pretty much say anything, ( besides, "Would you like to try my 13inch cock?")
and if you say it right it will bring a smile.
For the record i am back on the single scene, and hopefully will enjoy using the about comments. The chase is half the fun.
but it all depends on the delivery if you ask me. you can pretty much say anything, ( besides, "Would you like to try my 13inch cock?")
and if you say it right it will bring a smile.
For the record i am back on the single scene, and hopefully will enjoy using the about comments. The chase is half the fun.
katmeow
Bluelight Crew
Plazma's sure fire pick up line:"Walk your piss flaps over here, love and I'll chuck a fuck in em."
but he's such a luvely boy
Here's my addition (tried and tested, stolen from bopgirl)
"I'd really like to kiss you right now"
however, here's the WARNING:the most common setting for using this line is when drunk or pilled up, please keep in mind that the other party may be happy to partake in the "right now" business, but may retract their interest the next day or at a later date, leaving you sorry, embarrassed, and possibly heartbroken
Use at your own risk and if pain persists, vent in the singles thread
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punch e punch:Yeh, I like being single.It allows me the personal freedom to do all those things I enjoy doing, like walking down the street backwards, or collecting chip packets, or cooking naked
werd to that punch!!
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I'm prone to over analyzation (if that's even a word) and I'd like to put forward my latest theory...Over the last couple of years (with a few exceptions) all the people I have been interested in, have been out of reach for some reason or another. You name it, they're on my list, guys with girlfriends, guys who've moved far
way, guys who are gay and a jumble of other reasons not worth mentioning). Wanting what you just can't have? I could write the manual!
I think some of it stems from a guy I was involved with when I was 13-15 who basically used me as his 2nd string girl when ever he was having probs with his gf. I singlemindedly made it my mission to land this guy (and of course I never did).
I'm not trying to lay the blame for my extended singleness on that. As a friend pointed out to me recently, it's gotta have something to do with the people I choose. That said, my question is:
Is it possible to condition yourself to be only attracted to those you can't have?
cos I really think that's the trap I consistently fall into... or maybe I'm just dysfunctional?!?
or maybe I'm just rambling...
or maybe...
onetwothreefour
Bluelight Crew
hoptis, that's an awesome line! i think if i was *ever* gonna try something, that'd be perfect for me. funny is good
now...my single life. well, i've been whingeing through the last four or so incarnations of this thread, and now the opportunity has arissen (how the fuck do you spell that??!) for me to depart...and i don't think i want to.
it's really weird, i finally find someone who i like, and who likes me back, but i just don't think i want a relationship. i'm just going back to uni, and i'm stressed out quite a bit about it, and i think it's just too much effort.
god that's dumb, when it's all i've been wanting for the last year now. i don't get it
now...my single life. well, i've been whingeing through the last four or so incarnations of this thread, and now the opportunity has arissen (how the fuck do you spell that??!) for me to depart...and i don't think i want to.
it's really weird, i finally find someone who i like, and who likes me back, but i just don't think i want a relationship. i'm just going back to uni, and i'm stressed out quite a bit about it, and i think it's just too much effort.
god that's dumb, when it's all i've been wanting for the last year now. i don't get it
miss apple
Bluelighter
Originally posted by onetwothreefour:
god that's dumb, when it's all i've been wanting for the last year now. i don't get it
I hear you.
belisimo
Bluelighter
It's all so confusing
KAt, 1234, Miss Apple:
We are here because of all that psychological mumbo jumbo of wanting what you can't have and then not wanting what you can have. This is why there is usually a love triangle or circle or chain with singles. In which you are all probably a part of.
ahh yes we are human and yes we do suck.
[ 28 February 2003: Message edited by: belisimo ]
KAt, 1234, Miss Apple:
We are here because of all that psychological mumbo jumbo of wanting what you can't have and then not wanting what you can have. This is why there is usually a love triangle or circle or chain with singles. In which you are all probably a part of.
ahh yes we are human and yes we do suck.
[ 28 February 2003: Message edited by: belisimo ]
onetwothreefour
Bluelight Crew
^^^ kat, i think bel just answered our questions
you're right...we suck, but there's nothing we can do about it. we're emotional creatures, and at times we have to let ourselves be ruled by it. other times we don't even have a choice. it's weird, but we deal...
i haven't spoken to the girl in question about this though, that's what i'm currently most worried about! 'cos she's so nice, and it's not like i'm not interested in her, i just don't wanna commit to anything. farken :/
you're right...we suck, but there's nothing we can do about it. we're emotional creatures, and at times we have to let ourselves be ruled by it. other times we don't even have a choice. it's weird, but we deal...
i haven't spoken to the girl in question about this though, that's what i'm currently most worried about! 'cos she's so nice, and it's not like i'm not interested in her, i just don't wanna commit to anything. farken :/
mr_fluffy
Bluelighter
*personal experience*
wanting what u can't have was the norm. i looked at it, and tried to work out why. it's because that is the safe option. i was affraid of commitment, i wasn't sure if i had 'what it takes' to carry on a relationship, i had self worth issues, and therefore by always going for what i couldn't have meant that i could ignore all those and not deal with them. it also reinforced the negative views that i had of myself, and allowed me to stay firmly within my comfort zone.
by wanting what u can't have means that u can stay away from a relationship, and not do anything about the root causes, while at the same time satisfying the longing for love, and seeming to be 'doing something about it'.
i mean, think about it. ur at a club, or party, or whatever. u get two smiles, two conversations, two choices as to who u focus ur attention on. i used to go for the difficult one all the time.
i continually went for the scenario where nothing was bound to happen because deep down i didn't want anything to happen.
the answers are within, u just need to find them. if u'r constantly in that loop, it's time to find the eject button, and that only happens when we know ourselves, and we question our motivations constantly.
wanting what u can't have was the norm. i looked at it, and tried to work out why. it's because that is the safe option. i was affraid of commitment, i wasn't sure if i had 'what it takes' to carry on a relationship, i had self worth issues, and therefore by always going for what i couldn't have meant that i could ignore all those and not deal with them. it also reinforced the negative views that i had of myself, and allowed me to stay firmly within my comfort zone.
by wanting what u can't have means that u can stay away from a relationship, and not do anything about the root causes, while at the same time satisfying the longing for love, and seeming to be 'doing something about it'.
i mean, think about it. ur at a club, or party, or whatever. u get two smiles, two conversations, two choices as to who u focus ur attention on. i used to go for the difficult one all the time.
i continually went for the scenario where nothing was bound to happen because deep down i didn't want anything to happen.
the answers are within, u just need to find them. if u'r constantly in that loop, it's time to find the eject button, and that only happens when we know ourselves, and we question our motivations constantly.