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Bluelight Singles - from begining to end! don't we love the merge feature!

Originally posted by onetwothreefour:
hoptis, that's an awesome line! i think if i was *ever* gonna try something, that'd be perfect for me. funny is good :)
now...my single life. well, i've been whingeing through the last four or so incarnations of this thread, and now the opportunity has arissen (how the fuck do you spell that??!) for me to depart...and i don't think i want to.
it's really weird, i finally find someone who i like, and who likes me back, but i just don't think i want a relationship. i'm just going back to uni, and i'm stressed out quite a bit about it, and i think it's just too much effort.
god that's dumb, when it's all i've been wanting for the last year now. i don't get it :|
dude!!!!
GO FOR IT!!! you only live once, you've got absolutely nothing to lose... a relationship if its a good one will HELP your uni, not hinder it... :)
don't think if its right or wrong, don't look for excuses!!! GO FOR IT!!! DO IT!!! LIVE!!! :D
:D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D :D
sometimes we need to be pushed... and here is yours...
*PUSH*
;)
Cohaa.
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Ok, i have several things to say...
1234 & Hoptis: I would be really sketchy about using that line if i were you - i don't know anyone who would go for someone stingey enough to demand someone else buy them a drink - let alone a complete stranger. ;) :P
Mr Fluffy: Not only perfectly worded, but perfectly timed as well - sometimes we all need a bit of a wake up call, and for me that time was now. Thanks. :)
 
You can lie to the people around you, and you can lie to your friends.
But you can never lie to yourself.
Don't know what my point is but I just wanted to try and sound wise and all knowing.
Truth is I don't know shit.
But I do know how to have fun.
 
cohaagen: well...i didn't read this in time, and i went the other way. in hindsight, i still think it was the right thing to do; there's just too much pressure with uni, debts and all that kinda shit.
it still sucked though, i've never really been in a situation of liking someone but still saying no :(
cosmic: if i were to try that line, i wouldn't be serious! i'd make it pretty clear that i wasn't *really* asking for a drink, just that it's a funny thing to say :)
 
Originally posted by onetwothreefour:
it still sucked though, i've never really been in a situation of liking someone but still saying no :(

when the time is right, it will happen...
trust me! :D
but the time has to be right... and you will know... there will be no barriers, it will just all happen like magic, and from one minute to the next you would have any idea how you got there, and you won't care... its all a blur...
if it didn't feel totally right, then you made the right decision... trust me, when the time comes you won't have any say in the matter, it will just happen. enjoy the ride dude! :D
Cohaa.
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Bluelight singles..........
I fear I've stepped into something from which I'll never return......pAhhh well, perhaps a nice change from my usual haunt, the heated realm of CE&P
Too bad I don't even know any of you - I wonder how many times I've talked to BL'ers at clubs and shit, and not known about their secret identities. Anyone been to 3D? Anyone rock the Virus parties? ----> I'm in Melbourne, 20, male, and thankfully single. I think casual sex is more than a bit of fun, it's a way of life!
Go hard, think free
 
1234: heh heh, i know - it's aaaaaaall good. :)
As for me, well, i want to know what it is with people being overly flirty all night, and then suddenly going "no, i have a girlfriend". Those guys are bastards. I mean seriously, if you have someone that you're fully into, you shouldn't be flirting with other people, you should be friendly, but make sure that it's clear you want nothing to happen.
Grrrr...
 
Originally posted by Cosmic Mist:
1234: heh heh, i know - it's aaaaaaall good. :)
As for me, well, i want to know what it is with people being overly flirty all night, and then suddenly going "no, i have a girlfriend". Those guys are bastards. I mean seriously, if you have someone that you're fully into, you shouldn't be flirting with other people, you should be friendly, but make sure that it's clear you want nothing to happen.
Grrrr...
Actually what I want to know why chicks are overly flirty with me, even when I show no interest in them. They then give the 'pissed off' look because they feel rejected. This happens upwards of a dozen times each time I'm out. I'm not kidding. I swear some of them end up thinking to themselves 'He must be gay'. Always the damn blondes. :)
When I'm out rolling the last thing on my mind is 'picking up'. I just wanna dance. Is that so hard to understand??
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^^^ p_p, you are now banished from this thread! you're not allowed to come in here, obviously. the only people allowed are those whingeing about how hard it is to pick up. saying things like that is just going upset all the other people you know, you really should know better.
only ugly people or losers may enter!!
will reply to other stuff later.
[ 02 March 2003: Message edited by: onetwothreefour ]
 
Originally posted by Pill_Poppa:
When I'm out rolling the last thing on my mind is 'picking up'. I just wanna dance. Is that so hard to understand??
Wh0rd up, but not when I'm rolling... just going out in general. The last thing I have on my mind is picking up, I just wanna have a good time that night.
Mainly because when I've been out and thought, "Hmm, mebbe I should do something...", I've always had a shite arsed night.
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Wh0rd ta that, going out purely to pick up is like going to a whorehouse, where instead of playing the fuck game purely with money, it is played with a combination of booze, money, drugs and cheese dick cornball lines and pathetic flirting, you wanna fuck that badly just pay for it. Still don't understand how people form meaningful relationships with such a base platform, guess that's probably why i've only had 3 relationships which crumbled into the excremental base upon which they were formed anyway. My love life at the moment is non-existant, every girl i know is either got some fatal flaw that although i like them i know if i pushed it further i'd just end up getting hurt. I don't go out to pick up, not that it matters anyway, nobody even seems to notice i'm there. Ah well can't say it bothers me that much i've looked after my serotonin levels and have begun uni again my life is far too busy anyway for a relationship.
 
Originally posted by onetwothreefour:
[QB]^^^
only ugly people or losers may enter!!
Yeap a thread finally made for me, i think im one of those people who are meant to be single for life, I never seem to have any luck with the opposite sex. I've given up looking now, just going to take things as they come.
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Originally posted by Dante:

Wh0rd up, but not when I'm rolling... just going out in general. The last thing I have on my mind is picking up, I just wanna have a good time that night.
Mainly because when I've been out and thought, "Hmm, mebbe I should do something...", I've always had a shite arsed night.
I can't agree more with this. I hate all the pressure associated with "picking up", i mean i think going out is all about having fun and if you happen to meet new people then so be it. It shouldn't have to be an effort. I used to always view going out as being an opportunity for meeting a potential girlfriend but now i don't think about it, and enjoy myself a lot more as a result. I'd rather meet someone through work, or through friends where they're able to observe the real me.
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thanks for all the advice cohaa :)
and in relation to the picking-up at clubs, or just going out in general thing i totally agree. due to my fairly bad run of 'luck' with the ladies, i'd still often prefer to be able to pick up out than not at all, but if you're looking to build an actual relationship, i think it's pretty damn obvious that you have a better chance if you know the person beforehand.
when someone is going out to pick up, personality is most often going to take a backseat to looks, confidence and style (which is definitely my problem :) ). thus, if you want more, don't even bother!
 
Hmmm... picking up... meeting girls in clubs... what can I say. The type of girl you meet depends on the club/night/scene but for the most part, you can't ever meet someone at a club with any real expectation that it'll go anywhere. If you get a pash, I say be happy with that, when you meet someone you *really* like, get a number and follow up.
That's what the girl I met on Saturday night did. Now she has a date with me tonight. :D Muahahahaha
 
I went to the local pub last thursday nite, or the "Tav" as its known. Its really not my scene but i thought i'd give it a shot (only the 2nd time i've been).
Whoa, lemme just say there was a fucken abundance of talent there, however i am positive that there would be a VERY small minority that i could actually be interested in on more than a physical level, and since i wasn't drinking, i took to a 'enjoying the scenery' type of mode, before feeling ill from the dense cloud of ciggarette smoke that filled the joint (and the pub accoustica rock - Go CHISEL!)
But yeah, its simple - Alcohol makes you horny and want sex. Put a bunch of ppl of opposite sex in one place and feed them alcohol, you have a bunch of people wanting to hook up (not find meaningful relationships). Alcohol facilitates this 'picking up' type of mentality and i feel unless you are a generally smooth and 'picking up' type of person, its kinda hard to do without alcohol. And being that i'm not a huge fan of alcohol/pubs, i have like barely ever picked up.
MEH! I'd prefer to meet some fine lookin women at uni (like i have already done in the few days so far ;) )
mmm, ramblings
Adikkal
 
Sad to say, I pick up a fair bit when I go out .. but nothing ever lasts. You have your fun etc etc .. but nothing is ever going to eventuate (considering most of the guys I meet are at clubs).
I keep getting told I'm looking in the wrong places .. hell yeah! I know that! But where do I start looking?
www.findbopadate.com :)
For now I'm giving up on looking, he can find me eventually. Until then, I just wanna have fun!
WOO YEAH!
 
Originally posted by Adikkal:
I went to the local pub last thursday nite, or the "Tav" as its known.
That wouldn't be the castle hill tav by any chance? I haven't been there in yonks, but from what i remember it was quite the meat market. I think another visit could be in order haha
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