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Best Advice You've Ever Recieved?

Upon going into relationship with man of different faith my father told me:
"Shiksas are only for practice"

Upon ending same relationship my father told me:
"You can love some who's good just as much as someone who isn't. Pick him better next time"
 
If just by being around her doesn't make you try to be the best possible human being you can be, she's not the one.
 
*Theres always going to be people that hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful who you trust next time around.

* A wise person will learn more from a fool than what a fool will learn from the wise.

* If you think its everyone else then its not them it's you. Instead of trying to change the world, make your world a better place, and everything else will fall into place. (this was the best advice that i really needed to hear at the time)

*Know the difference between your pride being hurt and your heart.
 
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"Own your shit."

-My friend Ric discussing how you should know - to the best of your abilities - who you are and what you want. Because of this, according to Ric, you should always take responsibility for your decisions. Good or bad, they are yours.

So nicely summed up in three words.
 
i was commenting on the advice...advice isn't you...and it was probably given to you by someone else
 
best advice I ever got was in a book and it's soo simple but soo true

"It took me a long time and much painful boomeranging of my expectations to achieve a realization everyone else appears to have been born with: That I am nobody but myself." (Invisible man, Ralph Ellison)
 
Best advice I ever recieved was from the movie "Lord of War":
(something along the lines of)

"Theres no problem in living a double life, but its the third and fourth lives that will get you every time"
 
"Fuck it" I also have a friend who turned me onto this saying. Not caring at all can definitely get you into a lot of trouble, but sometimes you just have to shut off that area of your brain that gives a shit, and go with the flow. We will all experience many hardships in our lives. Sometimes there is a logical explination for everything and a solution to fix a problem, but other times there isn't.

Here is a scenario where "fuck it" would be the proper thing to do. You studied hard for an exam and when you get back your scantron, you see a big fat F written on top. You did all you could do, but it was not enough. This was a final exam and you needed at least a D to pass the class. You ask the professor to cut you some slack, but he/she refuses. What do you do? "Fuck it!" This doesnt necessarily mean you should give up completely, you just have to go on with your life and learn from your experiences. Dont sweat the small shit because when it is all said and done, the only thing that matters is that you had a good life.

"It could always be worse" Surely everyone has heard this before, and it could not be any more true. No matter how bad of a situation you are in, there is always someone worse off than yourself. Bad shit happens to everyone, everyday. Sometimes it seems like you are in a rut that you cant get out of, but if you stay calm and rational everything usually works itself out.

Life sucks at times but you just have to go with the flow and realize that we are all going to die one day anyways. "Fuck it" Have a good time and follow the path that you choose for yourself. Life is way too short to spend your time worrying about mundane details that will drive you crazy. Be nice to other people. We are all essentially one. Dont just look at the surface of everything. Think deeper and penetrate the surface so you will realize what is really going on. Everything is not black and white like some people make it out to be. Think outside the box and form your beliefs/values/morals based on your own experiences, not what mommy daddy or some book tells you.

I think that pretty much covers everything. anyone agree with me on this? ;)
 
Some of the best advice I recieved is from the book "If Life Is A Game These Are The Rules" by Cherie Carter-Scott Ph.D.

"There" is no better than "here". The other side of the hill may be greener than your own, but being there is not the key to endless happiness. Be grateful for and enjoy what you have, and where you are on your journey. Appreciate the abundance of what's good in your life, rather than measure and amass things that do not actually lead to happiness. Living in the present helps you attain peace.
 
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