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Best Advice You've Ever Recieved?

saying i like

"every passing minute is a chance to turn it all around"
penelope cruz in vanilla sky


good advice i got:

better to make a quick forceful decision than to think about the right decision and not deciding at all
 

You can buy a person's time; you can buy their physical presence at a given place; you can even buy a measured number of their skilled muscular motions per hour. But you can not buy enthusiasm... you can not buy loyalty. You can not buy the devotion of hearts, minds, or souls. You must earn these.


"Sometimes you have to be strong for yourself. You have to know that you are a good person and a good friend. What is meant to be will end up good and what is not won't. Relationships are worth fighting for, but sometimes you can't be the only one fighting. At times, people need to fight for you. If they don't, you must just move on and realize what you gave them was more than they were willing to give you. Hopefully, people realize great things when they come around and don't lose something real. Always fight, until you can't anymore, and then be fought for."


and finally.....The elegance of honesty needs no adornment. Always be TRUE to YOURSELF and everything else will follow.
 
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"A person will stay the same until the pain of doing so becomes greater than the pain of change"

- Bluelight


"Don't think too much...just be 'good'"

- Mom

"Why would you eat what you've thrown up?"

- Dad (about getting back with a girl once you've broken up)
 

"If you know somebody and you can improve their experience by your contact with them - then that's the thing to do. Identify the people you care about and make them feel better. That's how to make the world better. You don't need to reorganize the United Nations."


Word.
 
i don't know if this quote relates to sex or love or relationships.. but it's helped me in those areas in one way or the other...

my next door neighbor who also worked in my elementary school's cafeteria wrote in my graduation autograph book:

"be true to yourself"

and it's stuck ever since.
 
i dont have great advie but what i do alot is ''take it as it comes''

''try everything twice''

''nothing can be that bad''
 
bump.

somebody wise once told me: "show up. tell the truth. don't get attached to the outcome"

i very recently had cause to put this into effect regarding a major life decision,

showing up was a challenge but, when the time was right, i knew it was right.

telling the truth was the easy part.

not getting attached to the outcome is, i find, nearly impossible. for reasons i can't discuss here, the outcome hasn't been finalised yet but, having gone through this, on paper, it's great advice. in practice, i'm sure it's great advice, just a little more challenging...

:)

namaste

alasdair
 
"Family is important, when the shit hits the fan they'll always be in your corner even when no else is"

"Always assume somthing will take twice as long to do as you think it will"
 
We need to compile these and come out with a Chicken Soup for the Bluelighter's Soul
 
According to the drunk Indian outside of the Greyhound station, I should marry the first girl I see and get myself 5 redneck girls in 4 different cities.
 
^ 5 different girls in 4 cities? What if the two who are in the same city find out about each other?
 
Psychubus said:
We need to compile these and come out with a Chicken Soup for the Bluelighter's Soul
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heh! Very good! :)



"Nothing is ever as bad as it seems"
 
Hold the person that you love closely if they're next to you
The one you love, not the person that'll simply have sex with you
Appreciate them to the fullest extent, and then beyond
'Cause you never really know what you got, until it's gone

-Immortal Technique
 
Who can suffer everything, can dare everything.


Love everybody, trust nobody.


There's nothing better in life than a long-term relationship.


Let it go.


You don't HAVE to . . .


How very fortunate you are. Be grateful for what you do have in yourlife.


The key to successful living is to live as you were going to live forever while simultaneously living as if you were going to die tomorrow.


It's all good. It's ok.
 
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The two best pieces of advice I ever got were, in this order:

a) Hope for the best, prepare for the worst.

and

b) "Don't be scared to be attracted to girls". This one comment has shaped my view on sexuality....while I call myself gay because it's an easy way for people to pigeonhole me, and while I have never done anything more with a girl than kiss, it wouldn't bother me to have sex with one (assuming I'm attracted to her in the first place). I think people can restrict themselves way too much depending on what society tells them is right...
 
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