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Why pay when there is so much free porno out there catering to pretty much every fetish (rule 34 everyone? Remember?).

Ffs if I ever need to choke the chicken I just find vid of a woman with a big juicy bum and who knows how to use it. After a few mins I cum, wash my hands, hate myself briefly and then go about my day.

As socalshordie was saying about people falling for escorts, people who use only fans can develop parasocial relationships with the models they buy foot pics from.

There are terrabites of free porn out there folks, buy something you need instead like some hedge trimmers or a new spatula.
 
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pharaoh said:
Why pay when there is so much free porno out there catering to pretty much every fetish (rule 34 everyone? Remember?).

Ffs if I ever need to choke the chicken I just find vid of a woman with a big juicy bum and who knows how to use it. After a few mins I hate myself briefly and then go about my day.

As socalshordie was saying about people falling for escorts, people who use only fans can develop parasocial relationships with the models they buy foot pics from.

There are terrabites of free porn out there folks, buy something you need instead like some hedge trimmers or a new spatula.
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I have noticed that people (including myself) will get the hots for someone for a while sometimes, and more random porn isn't what they're looking for in that moment. And others develop a sort of (harmless) imaginary fantasy with people, which I would assume onlyfans fulfills, by allowing them to 'fantasise' a deeper connection for a time.

Of all the millions who use it, I would presume only a few go completely nuts and take it too seriously. I imagine they'd be nutty and loopy no matter where they were seeking their jollies; at least online is mostly harmless compared to meeting IRL crazies.
 
CFC said:
I have noticed that people (including myself) will get the hots for someone for a while sometimes, and more random porn isn't what they're looking for in that moment. And others develop a sort of (harmless) imaginary fantasy with people, which I would assume onlyfans fulfills, by allowing them to 'fantasise' a deeper connection for a time.

Of all the millions who use it, I would presume only a few go completely nuts and take it too seriously. I imagine they'd be nutty and loopy no matter where they were seeking their jollies; at least online is mostly harmless compared to meeting IRL crazies.
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You're probably right and I can understand it. There is one (a pornster - she has an only fans but I don't use it) who I have jacked it to as she resembled my S/O in certain areas (T&A)) but I still wouldn't pay for it. I may pay for an actual irl sesh with her but probably not. It would be weird. It'd make me think of those vids of porn conventions where you see all these seat sniffers roaming around, foaming at the mouth - Andrew Callaghan has a good video of one of those events on YouTube.

And I agree that we're probably talking a small percentage of people who fall for their e-girl but it's probs similar statistically with escorts I reckon.

Did you see that case of the dude who was spending thousands on a cam girl, ended up stealing from his family and murdered his mum and dad? It is on efukt - highly entertaining viewing, I suggest watching it. It's on Wikipedia and on articles all over the place if you want the boring/SFW version.
 
SoCalShordie said:
It’s really not sad tho. You’re probably just broke.
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U would say that. U made a living selling urself.
I’m not broke. I have been. I’m not now.
I just don’t get why anyone would pay to see a woman do sexual things when there’s millions of vids for free
 
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@SoCalShordie Since you telling stories again, got any about P diddly diddler Diddy now that his diddling has finally come out into the press? people have been talking about that for years. Any stories about him or any about hip hop people generally?

Diddler they've always said.

Jay-z some say.

The whole image of the Zulu Nation was shattered after Afrika Bambaattaa was exposed for being a diddler.

Surely some of the hip happers are into getting it on with porn stars? In fact there was that scandal with one getting down with a trans performer a few years back - that made the press.

Lete's 'ave it.
 
pharaoh said:
@SoCalShordie Since you telling stories again, got any about P diddly diddler Diddy now that his diddling has finally come out into the press? people have been talking about that for years. Any stories about him or any about hip hop people generally?

Diddler they've always said.

Jay-z some say.

The whole image of the Zulu Nation was shattered after Afrika Bambaattaa was exposed for being a diddler.

Surely some of the hip happers are into getting it on with porn stars? In fact there was that scandal with one getting down with a trans performer a few years back - that made the press.

Lete's 'ave it.
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Welcome to Shordie Storytime, hip-hop edition. Let’s get it.

Tyga: he performed as the musical act for AVN Awards in Vegas in like 2013 I think. I was on stage dancing and got to be on actual tv. Popped up randomly to my suite at the Hard Rock with another porn girl I knew, to after-party. He wanted to fuck me and I told him I don’t fuck for free and that I wouldn’t ask him to perform his trade for free either so he should understand. He told me “bitch, you should pay ME” and then I notified him that the top floor suite we were in is actually MINE and to kindly get the fuck on. Lol. He ended up hooking up with some transgender performer that night and didn’t know she was trans until it was too late.

Ray J: met him randomly at the Cheesecake Factory, and he told me he was a fan. Tried to finesse him but he’s pretty much broke.

Mack 10: met him at a chicken joint in calabasas. He was really tryin hard for my number but I declined. My mom told me I should’ve gotten his number so that she could’ve gone in my place to hang out with him and just pretend she’s me 🤣

Octane: one of the guys who did that song “teach me how to jerk”.. played one of those dance games on the Xbox or whatever and I beat him dancing the moves to his own song, according to the game lol

Suge Knight & Kat Williams: they showed up at a party for a sex toy company I was a spokesmodel for. This is when I started getting into harder drugs and I was super turnt and being loud in the club talking about “he killed Tupac how the fuck are u guys gonna be all cool with him?!” I was super embarrassed the next morning for wildin’ out like Tupac was my real life homie and I personally witnessed Suge kill him 🤦🏻‍♀️🤣 he came to the club with Kat Williams in tow and they both seemed hella cracked out and were taking weird ass pictures together in the Photo Booth.
 
pharaoh said:
You're probably right and I can understand it. There is one (a pornster - she has an only fans but I don't use it) who I have jacked it to as she resembled my S/O in certain areas (T&A)) but I still wouldn't pay for it. I may pay for an actual irl sesh with her but probably not. It would be weird. It'd make me think of those vids of porn conventions where you see all these seat sniffers roaming around, foaming at the mouth - Andrew Callaghan has a good video of one of those events on YouTube.

And I agree that we're probably talking a small percentage of people who fall for their e-girl but it's probs similar statistically with escorts I reckon.

Did you see that case of the dude who was spending thousands on a cam girl, ended up stealing from his family and murdered his mum and dad? It is on efukt - highly entertaining viewing, I suggest watching it. It's on Wikipedia and on articles all over the place if you want the boring/SFW version.
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Omg I was thinking of that case as soon as I started reading your post! I’m a HUGE fan of true crime. Pretty crazy story, that one.
 
SoCalShordie said:
Omg I was thinking of that case as soon as I started reading your post! I’m a HUGE fan of true crime. Pretty crazy story, that one.
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Fucked up right? Dude spent fuck loads on that woman and killed his own brother and father. Can't blame the format - he obviously had some screws loose.

And thanks for those stories. I want to love Katt so it's always hard knowing that he got in with Suge like that but I hope he's grown up. Did you see his interview with Shay Shay? He was talking about the diddler and now it's all out in the press.

Yes it was Tyga and he ended up obsessing over the trans chick so she released a load of texts of him basically begging to see her. I thought he seemed like a total dick and what you've said adds to that. Seen her porn once and she was banging dudes so I spose he liked taking it up the back passage lol.
 
SoCalShordie said:
I personally knew & was friends with a girl who killed herself by hanging from a tree in a public park after trolls online shamed her for not wanting to work with a male performer who does gay scenes. Another who died in a stranger’s RV on Skid Row. And one of my best friends who passed 2 years ago from respiratory failure due to chronic heroin use. Her lungs gave out. Didn’t even reach her 30th bday. All from the industry. I’d like to think I’m one of the lucky ones who got out and found normalcy eventually and became happy.
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Yes I heard about the first girl... Couldn't remember her name but knew it was awful ....

And I'm assuming the second girl you're mentioning is Dakota? Omg my heart 💔💔💔😓😭

I would love to hear any fun stories or anything you have about Dakota because, yeah she was/still basically is one of my all time favorite actresses. What was she like as a person? I love her and hearing what happened broke my heart 😞
 
deficiT said:
Yes I heard about the first girl... Couldn't remember her name but knew it was awful ....

And I'm assuming the second girl you're mentioning is Dakota? Omg my heart 💔💔💔😓😭

I would love to hear any fun stories or anything you have about Dakota because, yeah she was/still basically is one of my all time favorite actresses. What was she like as a person? I love her and hearing what happened broke my heart 😞
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Yeah, Dakota. She was a hot mess tbh. Always felt really sorry for her. She was just super young and got caught up in it all too fast. Tried to kinda take her under my wing, she was a lil younger than me. I met her during AVN week in Vegas, she wandered into my suite with several others for some after-party fun. She came off a lil rude & had an ego. Can’t remember what exactly got her going, but she was brand new and didn’t recognize me in person. She was going on & on about how she has 10.000 Twitter followers and how she’s basically hot shit. Everyone was getting annoyed. A good friend of mine who was a big director during that time said to her “You know who this is? This is (socalshordie’s porn name). She has one million followers on twitter. She’s the #1 searched actress on FreeOnes and she’s nominated for 3 major awards tonight. And this is her hotel suite, which she welcomed you even tho she doesn’t know you.” She got embarrassed and her eyes went all big and soft, she apologized. I could tell she wanted to dip but I told her don’t worry about it, stay and party. Really is a shame that she died so young smh. Poor girl.
 
pharaoh said:
@SoCalShordie Since you telling stories again, got any about P diddly diddler Diddy now that his diddling has finally come out into the press? people have been talking about that for years. Any stories about him or any about hip hop people generally?

Diddler they've always said.

Jay-z some say.

The whole image of the Zulu Nation was shattered after Afrika Bambaattaa was exposed for being a diddler.

Surely some of the hip happers are into getting it on with porn stars? In fact there was that scandal with one getting down with a trans performer a few years back - that made the press.

Lete's 'ave it.
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Wish I had some about the Diddler himself lol. I’m gonna do a deep dive into the ol’ mental archives and see what else I can remember. I know I have way more stories than I’ve shared. I have a legit medical issue with my long-term memory unfortunately, after years of PTSD and heavy drug use followed by a dam near fatal car accident that should’ve killed me. However, it’s nice to be able to say “if I don’t remember, it never happened” that’s my favorite line to use about any memory I’d rather not remember lol
 
Holy shit.

Suge knight and kat Williams in a photo booth, that one id eat my shoe to see (or some other common phrase people say to indicate something fascinating)

Very glad that you were not taken down by the grips of the West Coast. That's why I try not to show people pics of my butt. I would get instantly poached.
 
pharaoh said:
You're probably right and I can understand it. There is one (a pornster - she has an only fans but I don't use it) who I have jacked it to as she resembled my S/O in certain areas (T&A)) but I still wouldn't pay for it. I may pay for an actual irl sesh with her but probably not. It would be weird. It'd make me think of those vids of porn conventions where you see all these seat sniffers roaming around, foaming at the mouth - Andrew Callaghan has a good video of one of those events on YouTube.

And I agree that we're probably talking a small percentage of people who fall for their e-girl but it's probs similar statistically with escorts I reckon.

Did you see that case of the dude who was spending thousands on a cam girl, ended up stealing from his family and murdered his mum and dad? It is on efukt - highly entertaining viewing, I suggest watching it. It's on Wikipedia and on articles all over the place if you want the boring/SFW version.
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I saw that video about the dude you mentioned in the final paragraph, at least if it’s the same guy. Shits wild, he massacred his whole family and even stole his dead dad’s identity to keep funding money to the cam girl! He really had a problem lol
 
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